As you probably know, I like to edge and tease my pet regularly. This speeds up the process of submitting and keeps everything topped up nicely. I've created a poll to see what others do or recieve.
I think that Denial with eding is the most effective way. I have experianced month of denial with permanent edging, and it made me super submissive and permanently aroused. And I experianced weeks of denial without any edging at all. I totally forgot that I have a sex drive and had no sexual urges at all.
All of the above except the 'forgotten' option. Depends on the situation, but the 'top off' is good no matter how it happens. If I want to drive him towards an ultra primal/subbie mood, I'll stay out of his reach (the parts he wants most, anyway). He gets quite grabby/needy and I love it. I also love taking that somewhat pushy or anxious nature and 'crushing' it with slow controlled movements, edging him with various parts of Myself, throwing him straight into subspace within a matter of seconds. I'm addicted to the way his pupils dilate when I do this. Certainly makes for good pet putty.
All of the above except the 'forgotten' option. Depends on the situation. I am the same. As for the 'Pet Putty' expression, I love that
If my pet goes in chastity without edging, I have to wait for him to start getting needy and submissive. If he goes in on top of edging, he is submissive right from the start!
I'm normally allowed to edge frequently and most of the times, i like it more than cumming. There's no refractory period, i can do it again and again without having that post-orgasm blues that kind of pauses my submissive feelings for a while. The journey is the goal... (it might be due to my hypnotic conditioning that i'm feeling this way) Like You said, edging is a good start for going into chastity, but then, what drives me crazy the most is only occasional teasing without being allowed the pleasure of edging... just enough to remind me what i can't have...
Edging is a privilege only unlocked men can enjoy. A chaste man craves that erection, but gets only teasing or the privilege of service and a denied throbbing submissive need.
I am taken to the edge multiple times a day...denial without edging is like every other elderly couple that just stopped having sex.
Exactly! I may not do any touching for a few days or sometimes edge him everyday. But no touching at all is alright for some but I enjoy the tease and denial. That's why I do it.