Wish we had discovered denial long denial

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    I'll start by admitting I'm not yet in chastity, but I hope to be within too long. I'm a cuck and my wife has enjoyed a number of long-term lovers throughout the years and I've always encouraged her to do so. Unfortunately it's been several years since she last fucked another man, but she needs to be in love to do it (risky, I know) and these things can't be rushed.

    I've found that I like being denied things by her and she has e.g. decided I will never again cum in her mouth. I love when she reminds me about this in bed, especially when she confirms she'll gladly do it for any lover (from before I know she loves to swallow other mens' loads).

    Last year we started experimenting with me being denied from time to time, having to wait a day or two to "get even" and since I found this really hot, I then talked her into giving me a longer period of denial, since there is "so much to do around Christmas, leaving no time for pleasuring me". To my surprise she right away picked a long period of more than a month! It turned out to be quite a challenge for me, although she allowed me two ruined (or rather abandoned) orgasms when I was getting pinfully full. The great thing is we both clearly noticed how much more attentive and caring I became, always eager to hug and kiss her, give her massages and do her all sorts of favors. I love feeling so much more for her and being sexually responsive like a teenager and I was delighted to find out she also wants this project to continue.

    I gave her a lot of links about orgasm denial and she's really with me on this - she even talked about friends of hers who could benefit from introducing denial in their relationships (I don't think she'll talk to them for real but I loved the reaction). Now she has decided on a new one-month denial period with a ruined orgasm in the middle (earlier if it gets to painful) and I'm in bliss. I don't even miss my own orgasm when I lick her now, I 'm just eager to hold her in in my arms and share the wind-down after her orgasm and hear her tell me how great it felt. Since she seems to enjoy my transformation so much I actually think it could be hard to go back, especially after she has gotten used to the new loving and super-attentive version of me, even though she's not really dominant or enjoys making me suffer.

    I'll try not to rush things, but I'd love to give her a symbolic key necklace to wear in public even though I'm not technically locked up. Since key jewelry seems to have a lot of alternative meanings I think she'll agree and it'll would probably only be the two of us who know the real meaning. Next step would be to talk about real chastity, but I'll let her get really used to the denial part first. Also, I have a rather big cock and will probably need a custom-made cage which seems a bit expensive to buy unless I know she's ok with the idea. I feel great to be in this group and I'm really excited about the lifestyle that has transformed me more than I could ever imagine!
     
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    welcome to this board!
    Hope you will enjoy
     
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    Seems the thread title got a little messed up. Thinking too much about denial...
     
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    Welcome
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Good luck if you get into chastity at some stage. Welcome aboard.
     
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    Welcome to our community. Enjoy.
     
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    Thank you! I really hope I will and I'll do my best to make it happen. A good thing is that the links about the great advantages of orgasm denial I share with her (that she seems to like) tend to contain a great deal of chastity too. Hopefully this will get her used to the concept, normalizing the idea of a cock in cage, entirely controlled by her.
     
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    hello @Fredrik and welcome to here amd i hope you like it here as well.
     
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