Hello everyone , I talked about my relationship with my wife in a previous post . We are both in our early 40s and we have been married for 10 years . She used to cheat on me in the past and left me 3 times for other lovers but then came back to me . We have beem Yesterday we had an honest discussion about our life together . My wife told me that honestly she doesn't feel any sexual attraction to me . And that when we have sex she has to imagine that she is with someone else to be able to enjoy . She told me that she still loves me but it's a different kind of love . Like what she would have for a pet or a close friend or relative , but not a sexual kind of love . She said that the main reason why she left me before was that she didn't want to have sex with me . But at the same time she loves me and doesn't want to leave me . She told me that to save our marriage we will have new arrangements . We will live as a married couple but without sex . Our marriage will be sexless . I will be submissive to her and I will live with her as her " asexual " or " non sexual " slave husband . She will have the right to have sex with other men if she wants . Also she will have the right to have sex with me " if she wants " . She said that for sure I will not have sexual intercourse " Penis in Vagina " with her . But for oral sex it will be possible for me to lick her , but only if she initiated it . I will not have the right to initiate any kind of sex . I accepted these conditions . And actually this was my fantasy for a years . But it is always different when it becomes a reality . Me and my wife didn't have sex since mid September 2018 , so for more than 4 months by now . But I didn't know that she has a plan to cut me off sexually permanently . I would like to know what you think about this . Does any of you have such kind of relationship with his wife ? And do you think that if my wife doesn't want to have sex with me it means that she doesn't love me anymore ? Would a woman live with a husband while she doesn't have sexual desire for him ? I would like to know your opinions and advices . Thank you in advance for your comments and advice ..