Wife took control of the keys,

It could be 2 parts; an il fitted device and the subconscious holding the 24/7 thing off....

Glad to hear you find the holy trainer so comfortable.
Gives me some hope.
The moment sleep is no longer a problem the cards are different.
I could get a lot less attention.

 

She went to bed first.
I stayed up and did my thing.
When I lay down next to her she makes a move.
I'm not as responsive.
She tells me I'm locking up.
And like that my week off is done.
And I'm locking in the middle of the night.
I hope the new cage is delivered soon.

 

The last months chastity was low.
The holly trainer was not good enough for me.

I did get a kink3 device a month ago.
Its really Comfortable.
So my wife has one key and I can test using the kitchen safe to time lock.
Im not that disciplined.

Yesterday I go to find my key (time was up) and its gone.
My wife gets back from work.
So I ask her if she took the second key.
She said yes, and asks "do you NEED it?"
Clear emphasis on need.
So I'm honest and say I can easily go a couple of days in this new comfortable cage.
She immediately Changes the subject, like this is the normal.
So I'm left locked and listening attentively.
This is new. Shes taking both keys.
Me needing the key is the criterion.
I had A good night. Only got woken up once. Its was not that bad so I didn't "need" the key.

 

Life got in the way a lot.
I sometimes self locked.
3 weeks ago my wife complained about my gaming habits and staying up late.
She right.
I told her I would give her the full attention during her first week of vacation. She has 3 weeks of from work.
That first week of pampering her and intimacy was so fulfilling.
Something has changed.
I listened to a flr podcast. Maybe that helped.
Any way it's the third week of chastity for me.
It just flowed.
As I get ready for work I lock up in the morning and she expects to be given the key with kisses and a cuddle. We are having fun with me finding original ways of handling over the key. It's fun play before the kids are awake.
Unlocked as we go to bed if I'm a good boy.

I had one weak moment a couple of days ago but she stopped that. She is serious about me not having an o.

Yesterday I showed her some nice hand made jewelry keys and she was interested in the stealthy one.
It could be the present that makes it a lifestyle. An flr with chastity being a part of it.
I haven't decided yet.
I'll see how her return to work will effect it.
Or maybe I'll bring up the topic.

Today she said she didn't like my mood swing after O. So she is keeping me locked an extra day.
She's growing to like chastity.
It's now definitely more than a kinky play thing.

 

We had play time.
I had O wen she said i could not. it was impossible.
Now she said there is a longer lock uptime now -with a big smile on her face.
Shes taking the lead. on multiple levels.

 

The way I was ordered to lock today, I don't think it will stop with her resuming work Monday.
If she keeps me locked I will order a jewelry key for her to wear.

 

The kinky side of me hopes that this 3 weeks of chastity and play will continue.
I asked her if the chastity would end now that she returns to work.
"Definitely not" was the answer.


Ok as I'm typing this she comes to me apologizing.
Apperatly the keys fell out of her pants .
She had been frantically shearing her car...
I'll see what I can do.

 

No find.
having the woman that loses her car keys -like- once a week, being my key holder, might not be the best idea.
I did not want it to be a stop. Or it to be a negative for her.
Tried to make her see the humor in it.
we have a dremmel and I'm handy. I destroyed the lock at the cheerline. 15 min of concentrated drilling. Broke one drill bit. Cage saved.
My wife was relieved

I was going upstairs to wash the drill residue of my member and cage as she told me i could have my FULL freedom.
hmmm
I washed quickly.
I have one decent spare lock left.
I locked up and ceremoniously gave her the key. And told her I really like her to hold it like nothing happened.
IT was just an emergency test. And it went went pretty good.
She agreed!
Here I am, tonight I drilled my self to freedom, Got freedom and gave it up in minutes.
Absurd?
No ! It is to her.
God I love here!

 

Monday appears to be to stressful.

 

It was a heavy week. Working and little else.
This sunday morning she wanted the keys again.
I hope for the best.

 

Something was not up to her satisfaction this morning. And i will have to sleep locked tonight.
I prefer to sleep without the cage. I detest the waking up in the night. Well I will have no choice this evening.

 

Got fun times Tuesday last week. After that i was free. I had a couple of days free.
Today out of the blue she firmly demanded me back in the cage. Its the first time i have locked because I had to. My mood was not submissive. Not at all. i had to tackle some problems at work and it puts me in the agresive mindset. Im locked up for an hour now and I feel the mental change.

 

At night she is next to me and a light sleeper so no messing a round. In the morning i get locked and hand over the key.
She can lock me at night, but uses it more as a punishment. She says that a spanking is more of a reward for me. Shes to sweet to spank hard and painful.

I had 4 days out and yesterday I was locked again. The chaste periods are getting longer. I now get locked up when I'm not in the mood for it, but because she asks it.

I got her a nice jewel key to wear. she liked it. "Im going to wear this often"
If so Im going to upgrade my cage.