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    #51 durango_o, Apr 22, 2020
    Last weekend I was locked by my lovely wife.
    She said she likes my behaviour better and that she wants me locked next weekend to.
    This Wednesday morning she woke me up for some fun.
    After the fun wake up we were taking and something I forgot yesterday came up.
    She suddenly said I had been bad and that I needed to be locked. Apparently I'm more thoughtful locked.


    Now after the fun I'm never I the mood to lock up.
    I tried to say that we were going to keep that for the weekend, but she insisted.

    It felt so weird locking pas orgasm.
    The thrill is not there yet.
    I'm sure it won't be long.

    I should count my self lucky I got release before.
     
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    #52 locked_top, Apr 22, 2020
    I like your wife's style.
     
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    #53 durango_o, Apr 22, 2020
    I would have loved it if it was not after sex.

    She really insisted. She got the device out and started trying to put it on herself.
    She had no experience in that.
    So I got lured in by the playfulness of seeing how she does.
    I showed her how to put the ring on.
    And she took over from there.
    It went fast.
    I was not growing.
    Before I knew it she yanked the key out.
    My last plea was in vain.
     
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    #54 locked_top, Apr 22, 2020
    I love it.
     
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    #55 durango_o, Apr 23, 2020
    Its going strech to the weekend.
    Surprise chastity time.
     
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    #56 Abstraction, Apr 24, 2020
    Geez, just a weekend? :) How about till 1 June?
     
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    #57 asimpleman23, Apr 24, 2020
    oh, gracious: at -least- till then. the reality of it all takes a few months at minimum, one should think...?
     
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    #58 Mrloched, Apr 24, 2020
    Great post. A lot of parallels with my own journey.
     
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    #59 durango_o, Apr 24, 2020
    Can not imagine what that would be like.
    I was fine with the kinky, playful 2day weekend lockup periods.

    I have gone longer than 5 days, but that was always self-locked.
    It is so different when its out of my hands.
    She says she likes my attitude better.

    Luckily I'm sure I can convince her for some play time once the work is done this weekend.

    The irony is that I wil do that extra effort to get everything done, and be extra nice to get release convincing her more of the chastity usefulness.

    I'm afraid I'm in a loop I can't get out of.
     
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    #60 asimpleman23, Apr 24, 2020
    "I'm afraid I'm in a loop I can't get out of."

    tut, tut: you're delighted to be in a loop you're afraid you can't get out of. remember your audience, good man. : )
     
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    #61 durango_o, Apr 26, 2020
    She just let me out this evening.
    ,"But I'm going to lock you back up to night ",she told me.
    "Have fun."
    The bizarre thing is I'm contemplating if I should masturbate. After Orgasm I will be In no mood to lock back up when she asks.
    Plus we are Sunday evening normaly I'm free for the week.
    I'm afraid she's planning more days.

    She told me this noon that we had had a lot of great sex.
    So that's a positive thing for me to counter the negative side , she explained.
    I told her that there were more aspects I enjoyed; The closeness, the focus...
    She agreed that for her to.
    I asked if there was a negative for her...
    Non! She told me after some taught.
     
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    #62 Sissy_Denise, Apr 26, 2020
    Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! You'll destroy the moment, stay in control. A denied state is the best. :) for both of you.
     
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    #63 durango_o, May 5, 2020
    At the end of a week out of chastity we had an argument.
    I agree I wasn't my best self.
    I did not bring the chastity up.
    But this morning 2days later I locked up.
    I did not have to say anything.
    She saw the key in my hand and went for it.
    Now this evening I'm having the talk about my behaviour.
    She's in control. I feel it.
     
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    #64 Drews, May 5, 2020
    I am a little surprised she lets you out so often. After a couple months of seeing the benefits of my mood and sexual performance my wife keeps me locked at all times other than the times she is in the mood for sex. Definitely more than I ever thought I wanted but she is so happy.
     
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    #65 asastype, May 6, 2020
    I think that's a great sign. My behavior can be up and down, but i know that in the end, i'll have a heart-to-heart discussion with my Keyholder Wife and have to own my poor behavior. That has trained me to keep these flare-uos to a minimum. Best of luck to you!
     
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    #66 durango_o, May 6, 2020
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    Yesterday I told her I was not yet used to the cage.
    She told me she would make sure I got used to it.

    Tis morning she left the key out. I took it .
    She was searching for it before leaving for work.
    It was funny. I asked her what the matter.
    She told me she had lost the key somewhere around the house
    I played the omg part.
    She told me that if I found it I was not to take advantage of it.
    I produced the key with a smile.
    Her smile was wicked as she grabbed it back.
    This tease and play is such fun.

    The result is that I'm working from home but still locked. It could have been different but I love her having the key to much.
     
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    #67 durango_o, May 6, 2020
    It is life getting in the way.
    She has no interest in it if there are obstacles to overcome.
     
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    #68 Drews, May 6, 2020
    I totally understand the situation. I went through a long period very similar. The cage eventually became more normal and my wife definitely liked the results of my attitude and attention to her along with my improved sexual performance being locked. It eventually went from occasionally on to now 24/7 only being released if she wants sex. More than I ever planned but she became very happy with it. Has she not seen a benefit? Have you ever asked her what bothers her about it along with discussing why you think it is important. Communication is everything.
     
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    #69 durango_o, May 6, 2020
    From what i understand, she likes it.
    But she only uses it for short periods of time.
    She said that if I'm locked she also has that on her mind.
    She sees it as her duty to give extra attention to it...
    Shes to sweet.
    So she likes it this way.
     
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    #70 Drews, May 7, 2020
    Your wife sounds a lot like mine also very sweet and kind which made the cage a challenge at the beginning. It took a while but I eventually convinced her that I wanted to give her extra attention because I was always the one pressuring her for sex over the years. It was also really important for my wife to know the cage didn't hurt or bother me. The one thing I said that really made the cage permanent other than when we have sex was that I told her if I stay in the cage until she is really in the mood it feels just like when we were first together every time. She was totally shocked and wanted to make sure it was really true which it is. She was glowing and asked if it was really okay if I know you want sex and I am not in the mood to say no and not feel guilty along with a couple other questions. I have pretty much been locked ever since.
     
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    #71 Drews, May 7, 2020
    I understand your wife's issues with it always being on her mind life getting in the way. I can see this being an issue with the constant locking and unlocking and you not knowing if you should re lock. Curious why you have not figured out a way to sleep with the cage so she is not constantly reminded? It takes a while to get used to sleeping with it along with being the right cage but it is possible. I have no issues once I found the right cage. When life gets in our way I just stay in the cage and things move along and sometimes it is forgotten until life settles down. My wife never feels it is always on her mind if it is the wrong time and is not required to take any role. I am sure you can get a lot of advice on ways of making it work at night.
     
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    #72 durango_o, May 7, 2020
    I orderd something with a larger diameter.
    The holy trainer knockoff large if I can sleep with that cage I will order the real one.
     
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    #73 Eve, May 7, 2020
    You are very lucky
     
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    #74 mcfeely, May 7, 2020
    I think if you and your situation are not on her mind at least as much as she is on yours thats a problem. Doesn't mean she has to be sexual all the time but she should be thinking about it.
     
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    #75 Drews, May 8, 2020
    I have the real Holy Trainer and it is the most comfortable cage I have ever had. I have a Mature Metal custom Jailbird that is good and expensive but metal detectors became a problem with work. I have no issues sleeping, working out, running and biking while wearing the Holy Trainer. I have gone weeks at a time with no issues. I think taking away the constant removal and re locking will make things a lot easier on your wife. I know it would be too much for my wife especially when she is stressed with work.
     
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