Wife took control of the keys,

It's a new design from aliexpes.
Steel.
So it won't break.
I'm about healed up.
And my wife locked me this evening.
It's fun and frustrating.

 

It's an internal lock.
It's a Chinese device.
Stainless steel.
Quite heavy.

 

Did some alterations with a dremel tool.
There were some edges.
I'm self locking now with a timer lock.
I'm trying to lock as much as possible.

My wife has a spare key.
That makes things easier.
I used to make sure I was unlocked for her. Now I can stay locked.

 

So life got in the way the last months .
Kids and work.
I sometimes self locked. emlalock.
I was letting the chastity thing go.

But events this weekend got my wife to put me in chastity.
I she wanted sex. I had jerked it a couple of hours before.
She asked why she had to work longer to get it hard. I confessed.
We had a great time. but then she suggested keeping both keys.
After orgasm i'm not that submissive so i got away.
I regretted not taking the opportunity.

Yesterday i thanked her for the lovely weekend.
She told me to get " that thing on ...".
She wanted both keys so that everything is for her this week.

Now im here locked and no idea were my keys are.
I wonder if this will be a 2 day up-welling of dominance again or if it will be longer.
She told me it would be long this time.
But it never happened in the past.

She really teased me this morning. Loved that. Its exhilarating.

The weird thing is that i though the chastity thing was going to die out.
She had not shown any interest in it the last month.
I was keeping chaste less and less. And was ok with that.
Now its out of my hand all of a sudden.
Mixed feelings.

 

Love it during the day.
Being kept by her. I was thinking about it all day. If only the nights were easier.
The control freak in me Hopes that it will not be to long.

 

In the evening she set me free.
We had a great time.

Shortly after she told me she likes the new dynamic and wants me back in chastity.
I suggested I would give her key in the morning.
This morning she asked for it first thing!
I wasn't really awake yet.

A deal is a deal so ...I'm locked for her again.

Apparently she loves that it changes my behaviour.

I'm afraid that it is like Abstraction has said, she has become comfortable with the cage. And it flipped a switch.

It feels different. Like it's not up to my choice any more.
She really wanted me back in.
And then just before she left for work she lifts her dress to tease me.
There is lovely ,sweet evil in her eyes.

 

I'm afraid it goes up and down.
There are more down times recently.
But that's not anyone's fault.
Life is getting in the way.
We are really short on time due to some bad luck.

 

This morning I was locking up.
I was going to use emla.
There wasn't much interest on her part.
She saw me with the key came to me and took it.
Is it weird that that makes my day?
I was going to be locked anyway, but her having the key makes all the difference.
That's an up for me.

 

I was hoping to be let out this evening.
Took time off to clean and make a meal.
She was very glad and wanted a bath after. So this is the first time I'm taking a bath in chastity.
She already in. As I get in it's clearly visible.
No reaction.
So we talked about everything. But not about chastity.
It was fun. In the back of my mind I'm thinking about the power she has over me.
I suggest giving her a foot massage.
Her naked body and the sound of her enjoyment...God!
I'm horny as hell

I get out first so she can wash her hair.
I hear the blow dryer as I warm up the bed.
So there we are in bed.
I'm going to try.
I have been a good boy, I suggest.
She knods.
I go on: Any chance...
No! Not tonight, she interrupts.
God I love her.
And that's comming from an atheist...
She's playing with me. I'm loving and hating it.

 

This weekend was fun.
But I'm free again. She did not ask me to lock backup.
This morning I just sowed her the key as she was about to leave for work.
The key is gone with a kiss. A lot more fun than emlalock.
Maybe I should just make that the morning routine.

 

Thanks for the advice.
You are very sweet.
I will try to get the morning routine going.

I find when I'm locked I'm automatically super focused on her.
Dinner prepared, massages, flowers...the lot.
She likes it a lot.
I'm afraid she sometimes release me early as a reward.
Wile the being kept by her is already the thrill for me.

The irony is that the days were the chastity is involved there is a lot of PIV.
I don't mind that aslong as the next day she's keeping my keys again and she does not feel forced to do PiV.

I'm going to have to talk to her about that specifically.
We dont easily talk about these subjects.
So I'm thinking it over how to pitch it.

 

We seem to be on the daily lock up routine.

I'm 4 days in.
My longest under her control.
She takes my key with her every morning.
And gives it to me just before going to sleep.

 

Her interest had dwindled.
So I was self locking again.
I had planned a release this evening. Even the material was selected.
She wants to go to sleep early. Only this time she wants me to go with her.
I tell her I will stay up a little longer.
"No you won't, give me that key" is the answer.

This is the first time I did not want to give it, but I felt obliged.
So she takes the key upstairs. I follow.

Once in bed I tell her I will stay and be good but that I would like to sleep unlocked.
She tells me that I have slept with it in the past...
So the evening did not go as planned. I have suddenly lost my key out of nowhere.

And yet some part of me still loves it all.
I'm going to try to sleep.
Any tips to set my mind of the porn I had planned?

 

I was let out yesterday for sleeping.
She has to go to work early.
This morning I locked and laid the key out.
She is to sweet and asks if she should take them.
I answered that that is up to the keyholder.
She took them with a smile.
Oh it's fun to be kept.

 

This noon we were both home.
4days in so I try to get something going.
As it's getting hotter and I am sure what this leads to, she asks herself if she took the pill.
She is unsure. With all this hectic Corona stuf.
She tells me we can use a condom but she doesn't like it that way.
I stop her and remind her that the keyholder has full say in this.
We kissed some more and she got her pill.

Now that I'm calmed down a bit I know I like the intimacy more than the short high.