Wife took control of the keys,

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    Wife took control of the keys,


    I have been self locking from time to time during the day.
    My wife never showed big interest in my cb6.
    I never pushed her. (i'm so glad never did now)
    The cb boke. I told her in passing.
    She was surprised and wanted to know how.
    She suggested a new one, so I ordered something new.

    The new device arrived. Its an ergonomic improvement, I was able to sleep with it.
    I told her in the morning.
    The second evening she had a small party to attend and I was to stay home.
    Me, alone, home, i was going to … you know.
    I was thinking how hot it would be if she took the keys with her.
    So just as shes about to leave I ask her ‘I have to keep to my self ?’
    She said yes, she want a full load tomorrow.
    I show her the keys “ want guarantees? “. She puts two and two together and she takes them out of my hand.
    She feels it through my pants and gives me a kiss with a grin and goes of without a word.


    So there I was looking at my first real key holder walking away on her sexy heels.
    What a rush.
    And the mindset I was in...
    Let's say I used my alone time more productively than usual.
    Sent her a picture of the work and she was happy.

    Then early to bed. The plan was to spoil her in the morning...

    She told me all about the party as she went to bed to.
    As she snuggled closer she had a short interested feel about.
    “Good night”
    That was it.
    O m g the thoughts in my head
    But i got to sleep.

    She wakes me up at 4 at night suggesting I pleasure her
    I oblige. (what else can I do in my position)
    She takes the keys and asks how it works.
    It's the internal locking mechanism, its new to her.
    I explain, let her open.
    We have a fantastic time!

    She tells me she likes the new cage.



    To day I locked with the smaller ring.
    The keys are in my shirt breast pocket. I did not intend to give them to her. Wanted to test the smaller ring.
    She must have seen the shape through the fabric.
    I'm sitting down at the table and from behind me I feel her taking my keys.

    I get a hug.

    I think we are on a new path.

    We don't have any deal made.
    No knowing when I'm released.
    I'm thinking, this is what you wanted...
    I don't want to burden her with a boring forced talk about it.
    I hope i'm going to be ok with the smaller ring. Would hate to break the flow, by begging for the key.
    Although I would like her to hide an emergency key for me.

    Wish me luck.
    Any advice?
     
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    Don't ask for the keys unless it's totally necessary to avoid injury. Like never, or at least until you are certain that she has embraced her new role.

    You are living the life. I wish my wife would take the steps that your wife took.
     
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    We have a set in the house in a safe for emergencies, if I’m going away to work we use numbered plastic locks. I have never had to ask for the keys yet
     
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    Tonight I gave her a massage.
    Just before we go to sleep my cage is mentioned. She almost forgot about it.
    She told me the key is down stairs. She added I won't find it.
    Ohhh love and hate that.
    Ok I'm afraid I'm in .
    The uncharted territory makes me a bit nervous.
    I will try my best to make it as fun as possible for her.
     
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    Yes I probably worry to much.
    It's all surreal to me.
    The rest of life goes on.
    But it's so different for me.
    The mental impact is huge.
     
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    Congrats, sounds like you have some wonderful adventures ahead of you.
     
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    Thank you miss.
    I'm scared now.
    If this continues I will be forced to break with some habits.

    Normally I wacht some kind of sexy pictures during the day.

    But now I don't want to put any more pressure down there since I don't know when its going to end...

    This morning she told me she thinks the situation is hot.
    I really want to meet her expectations.
    But there are some moments I would love to be out.
    Its out of my reach now.
     
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    Good. You know those habits need to be broken.
     
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    Just good luck and all the best on your journey!
     
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    Thank you.
    She let me out yesterday.
    I going to take a shower ,I said.
    I saw her think and she replied she was going to come with me to open and close.

    She wanted sex when I exit the shower.
    Unusual for her in the middle of the week.
    And normally I'm the instigator.

    To day she did not lock me.
    Ist good . I had some discomfort on the left ball.
    I probably have to get used to the new device.
    Seeing how much fun she had I think the rest won't be long.
    When I relock I will use the bigger ring.
     
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    It is a process for sure, finding what works best for you and her. By the way, I don't avoid watching things that turn me on while cage.They build my desires and sexual wants, but since I can't release those needs on my own, they work to her advantage when she wants it.
     
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    Should I self lock?
    Well.
    She had fun. She did not demand a relock.
    I don't want to push her.
    Should I self lock in the meantime?
    The problem being that then I'm not ready for her.
    I can't give her the keys if they are in the lock box.
     
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    The way she is taking off with it. I would give her a week without mentioning it. If not locked by her then maybe bring it up next weekend
     
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    Congratulations. You've been wanting this for ten years and she's finally going to control your masturbation and make sure you are ready for her when she wants, whether it's 4:00 a.m. worship or post-shower service. Thank her and kiss her and be attentive and serve her. And yes, lock back up.
     
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    µShe locked me for the night yesterday ... :)
    I was walking away with my laptop in the evening, just before bed time.
    She said I was not going to do THAT. Lock it up was the order.
    She had me.
    I hand her the keys.
    She gives me a rub wile saying "down boy" to my locked penis.
    Holy moly instant effect down there.
    We cuddled and went to sleep. She first. My mind was still racing for an hour.
    Oh were were the times I would just slip out of bed and take the maters in my own hands?

    I was let out in the morning.
    So it was short but unexpected. Love unexpected. The fact that she just decides out of no were.
    And i just comply. I told her that she just has to say the word. Yesterday she said the word.
    Im free now but have not taken advantage.


    Im wondering if i should introduce a information book of some kind.
     
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    Oh, i see. Yes, im lurking here from 2008.
    It fascinated me. I did self-bondage and well chastity is a form of that.
    I only started experimenting with devices myself recently.
     
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    She's doing fine. Serve her, let her know how happy you are that she's taken control of your masturbation.
     
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    Thank you for the advice.
    Have been doing that.
    I want here to like the benefits.
     
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    The irony is that this first chastity week had 3 times sex in it.
    Altogether that's 4 orgasm less than my average.
    But a lot mor fun.
     
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    Well she locked me up again but my plastic cage broke.
    Got some cuts on the underside
    I ordered a new steel cage.
     
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    Going to steel was the first best thing we done.
    Now after having the PA it is definitely the best even with a Chinese cage
     
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    Hope I can handle the weight.

    A PA is a fantasy of mine.
    Top security.
     
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    As long as you are fully healed and the tube of the cage is the same size as your flaccid size the weight will be supported by skin contact and not just the piercing.
     
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    The New device is here.
    Its heavy.
    Feels very secure.
    My first steel device.
    It's cold when I put it on...
     

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    What device is that? Where's the lock?
     
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