So as my wife gets some cosmetic treatment, minor but out of sex for a bit. I am instructed to cage up while I am home alone and ring must remain on 100% of the time. Tight fit in a BON4... maybe having to move to a cb6000s per her instruction. Looking to do this right as all the privious times we tried it feel apart with me trying to top from the bottom. I need to show restraint and help her into her DOM role. Looking for support and guidence.