Wife seeks a key holder for me!

Discussion in 'Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub?' started by JamesAll10, Aug 11, 2014.

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What permanent or semi permanent item should she add to me?

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    @Joroincharge , well obviously its your decision with your chaste man, noone is arguing that. But I mean for men in general. I've read from some who feel that all men should be locked up and never allowed to cum.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    No, I don't generalise. It's just an option, fits some, not others.
     
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    sorry ive been away. i do so enjoy the idea of the keyed lockbox holding the KEY. Jamesall10 please send me a pm and we can discuss further details.
     
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    Some very interesting posts......so much of it sounds familier (wife not into it, but likes the result)

    I will happily "hold" the keys. I actually recommend the numbered seal and we simply confirm photographically. It's the safest way, gives you flexibility and we can go as mild or wild as you like. I have all sorts of assignments that can be given to earn release.

    But I think one bit of reality for everyone involved: One way or another, there has to be some mutual trust involved.

    Please consider me as your keyholder. I feel I know how we can hit the sweetspot that you are looking for.

    Jason
     
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    Hello All!
    Sorry we have been away. Just finished a 23 day lockup with a keyholder on emlalock. Not really what we wanted. We had someone who controlled the session but never asked for anything other than me in panties. Not really what we are looking for, we are looking for a bit more creative and mischievous.

    Hope someone is still interested in key holding for us!
     
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    Rest assured, I have a huge imagination and will keep both of you thinking......"
    oh my, what's next?"
     
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    Hi All,
    Officially locked up and under someone else's control. Could be a very interesting Christmas and/ or New Years! Especially since we need to drive to see family the week of New Years! ha. Well I will try to give periodic updates but currently locked by Jason and am not allowed to wear men's underwear anymore. I told the wife and she simply said to do as I am told.

    Looking forward to whats on the horizon!
     
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    Quick update! Been locked a week today with someone who is not my wife as my keyholder. We used a combination key safe. My wife sent the combination photo to my keyholder but told me she deleted the photo without looking at it. I truly am stuck waiting for my keyholder to release me.

    So far my keyholder has only made a rule of not wearing any more male underwear and I've been wearing panties for a week. My wife laughs when I get dressed in the morning and last night went and put on a pair of my boxers to sleep him. I asked her 'why are you wearing boxers', her response was 'well you can't wear them so I might as well'.

    She is actually getting into it more. She asks daily what my keyholder wants me to do but I have had few tasks and no new rules. This morning she asked me to add two bells to my chastity so I could be reminded all day someone else owns it. Another big surprise for me!

    Looking forward to what the future holds and patiently awaiting my next assignment!
     
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    Victor38 Becoming Jules...

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    Its great to hear that you found someone to be keyholder, and it kind of sounds like your wife is enjoying your lack of power. She may not want to control you, but it looks like she REALLY enjoys you being controlled! tthanks for the update, and please keep us posted.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    BTW is/are (a) your wife and (b) your KH member/s here?
     
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    Well, we are once again looking for a Keyholder for me. We don't care what sex the Keyholder is, we have few limits besides showing our faces and we are happy to provide proof we are in fact a married couple.

    Please let me know if anyone is interested!
     
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    We should talk about your predicament, and how I can secure you. I currently have two cocks in your situation- 1 married the other not. Both are locked for as long as I want, and receive a weekly list of tasks (the one that is married is handed them during the week by their wife)- all are verified tasks.

    I have 2 ways to do this:

    1) skype chat with you and your wife (1 to check you are locked, 2 to put the key in the lockbox and show only me (no photos)). We then communicate by email (preferred), skype, and chat.

    2) you get a chronovault and I control it remotely. I have two myself and can vouch for their effectiveness- keys within sight but not within your grasp, and no combination to try and hack!

    To discuss further, both of you need to email me seperately at sir@chastitycontrol.com.

    For a reference, talk to chastityslave26@gmail.com

    CC
     
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    Interesting that you have set up your own website for this, I'm curious to hear more.

    Ms Karen
     
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    As am I have to confess
     
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    Where are you based. I have a collection of locked Bois, including a straight one!
     
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    I am out of Boston, Ma
     
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    How's the remote keyholding working out? My Fiancee and I are considering something similar, ideally with a female KH we both enjoy near San Francisco. Good luck!
     
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    Thanks for the message and sorry for the delay. Seemed like every time I tried to log on the site was down. Congrats site on the new transition!

    In terms of being key held it was quite an experience. We gave away the keys and had some great experiences. I won't go into details on many things but the most surprised and pleased was when I came home with a waxed chest and Brazilian. She couldn't stop laughing but loved it. Pretty pricey though to have done for only lasting a couple weeks.

    I am back without a keyholder so if anyone is interested we would love to message with you.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    BTW is your Wife a member here? If not it would help if she join, so that any cyber or remote KH could PM her privately with developments,
     
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    chastised_slave Locked in panties.

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    Wish I could find a married Domme to lock me in UK
     
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    I know this is mostly an old thread but I'm fascinated by this idea. I'd have to talk to my husband about it but if a couple like the ones in this thread were wanting to try an arrangement like this then I'd be interested in chatting.
    My main interest is just getting an insight into how other couples work, as well as the fun of introducing some tasks etc. But only couples... I'm not interested in doing it for men without an involved partner, that's the interesting bit.
     
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    chastised_slave Locked in panties.

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    I'm single and it interests me also being locked by a couple or his wife
     
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    What can we answer for you? Happy to help.
     
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    I'm almost jealous @JamesAll10 - if her Tumblr and Mansion posts are anything to go by then you are in for quite a ride if @keephimcaged gets hold of your keys!
     
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    chastised_slave Locked in panties.

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    Or lack of ride lol
     
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