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Wife/Keyholder Wants Game Ideas

Discussion in 'The Play Room' started by DoubleMartiniTO, Jan 29, 2014.

  1. My wife has had me in chastity for nearly 2 months now since we started experimenting with the idea. Mostly locked, with some short periods of release.

    She doesn't consider herself a natural dom, but everyday she is getting a little more assertive and enjoying it more. We like the lifestyle enough that we're going to invest in a Mature Metal model soon.

    The other night she came across the idea of using dice to determine how many orgasms I would get a year. Although this would be a fantasy of mine, at this early stage I think it would be a little too drastic.

    Could someone suggests some other chastity games revolving around release, orgasms or anything else we might not have considered? My wife is very into games and this would make it more enjoyable for her and I'd like to do anything I can to please her.

    As well, are there any sites geared towards the key holder, rather than the male to go to for inspiration (other than the forms here, of course)?

    Any help would be greatly appreciated.
     
  2. This is an amazing site with something or indeed lots for everyone.
    Ask her to either use your account or get her to do her own one and post on here.
    Why go elsewhere CM is the best with fantastic people to get involved with .
    Xx wendy
     
  3. Games, huh? Let's see:

    The most common idea I've run across is drawing marbles from a bag. You put, oh, say nine blue marbles and one white one in a bag. Every day (or every time you please her, or . . .), you get to draw one marble out of a bag. If its blue, its just set aside. However, if its white, you get to ejaculate. And once the white marble is drawn, they're all put back in the bag.

    For a tougher variant, she can add more blue marbles, either as a punishment (not taking out the garbage, refusing oral sex, etc.) or just because she wants to. Thus, if you've been "bad", it becomes progressively harder to draw the white one.

    Another variant involves adding a black marble to the bag. If you draw it, then both it and all of the removed blue marbles go back in the bag. Thus, you have to start over from scratch - plus any punishment blue marbles

    If she starts feeling guilty, you could throw in a "reward" marble, too. Draw it, and you get a blowjob, anal, her dressing up in a French Maid's outfit and waiting on you for a while . . . whatever the two of you can agree on.

    And, of course, any gambling game (or even board games) can be adapted to chastity play. You've played strip poker before, right? Same idea - you just wager forfeits rather than poker chips (or Monopoly money, or . . . ). You bet extra days in chastity, foot rubs, oral, a nice dinner out . . . And she can either bet things (such as days off), or nothing at all - after all, she's not the one in chastity, and she can argue that not having to follow through on a forfeit is more than enough prize
     
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  4. Hey there!

    How about a bowl with keys in small envelopes....? Any keys as long as they can't be seen....

    You get to pick a key and if it fits your lock.... voila!

    If not..... You wait until next time....

    The length between key picking is up to your Keyholder of course!

    And if you want to make it tough the chosen key goes back into the bowl too!!!!

    You could also use the dice or one die to determine how many days, weeks, months or...gulp!... years you might be locked for......!

    I look forward to seeing the ideas flow on this thread!

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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  5. Not sure that you want to make your kh guilty and give her a punishment in any shape or form.
    To get your KH to enjoy her role just make it so she only has rewards .
    Otherwise you are topping from the bottom big time . Which if you are dominant is soooo annoying and off putting.
    The game should only be nice for her your feelings are of no concern the sooner you accept your role as a sub male to a superior KH the better.
    Yes my feminine side is in charge of my thoughts at the moment.
    Lol xx Wendy
     
  6. Let's see . . .what else:

    I've heard of chastity hide-and-seek before, where the keyholder hides a key somewhere, and you have only so long to find it. Obviously, its important for the keyholder to have a backup key, just in case.

    If you're in a kink-friendly club, vacation spot, or something like that, there's the photo scavenger hunt. In order to get unlocked, you have to go around and find X number of women willing to take their photo next to your locked chastity device. Or, alternately, have them sign their name around the outside of the device. Don't play this one unless you're absolutely sure that you're in an appropriate location.

    Or if you know a bunch of others in chastity, there's the random chastity key draw. Similar to WendyGirl's suggestion, each keyholder adds a key to a bowl/bag/etc, and then each locked up guy (or girl) gets to draw one. If you draw yours, you get to ejaculate. If not, then you have to wait (and stay denied) until the next key draw. Sometimes there's also a penalty if you draw wrong.

    Again, two of these three only work in very specialized circumstances. Don't just randomly try the key draw or scavenger hunt unless you know you're with people who won't freak out
     
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  7. If your wife want to play games well then it should be a challenge game for you, e.g. How long can you hold a heavy object in your hands with your hand out stretched and you got to twenty minutes well that is twenty days less from six months so you would get to cum in 160 days.
    Just one idea for a challenge game.
     
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  9. Let's see . . . what other ideas have I run across. . .

    Reading each other erotic bedtime stories could be fun, and possibly educational. Basically, start by printing off some of your favorite stories and accounts about chastity. Who knows, it may give her some ideas - and (if your nude at the time) she'll know exactly what parts you find exciting. And if she gets all "hot and bothered", well, you're right there to take care of her. And if you get hot and bothered . . . well, that's why you're locked up, right?

    She may well have some she'd like to read to you, too. And from there, you can branch out into more general erotica.

    A similar idea is watching your (and her) favorite porn together. Or, if the two of you want something more active, you could re-enact your favorite porn scenes together. You might be surprised what she's up for, when you're safely locked away. Of course, you'll probably have to invest in a strap-on dildo first, but that's certainly do-able.

    The nude waiter scenario might be fun to play out together, either just for fun, or as part of a bet. Basically, you spend the day (or weekend) waiting on her, hand and foot, completely nude except for your chastity device. If, for some reason, you have to suddenly get dressed, you lose . . .

    Oops, sorry, that should've been I LOVE my Choice's suggestion. Got the two posts confused
     
  10. We've not tried it yet, but you an get customizable "Wheel of Fortune" apps (like the WheelofWhat app for iPhone) and put various rewards and penalties on the wheel and spin it periodically. I am in relatively short term chastity (my wife and I are new to all this), so "add 1 day" "add 3 days" "1 hour unlocked", etc. are the sort of thing I've put on the wheel.
     
  11. Thanks Nostromo. I was looking for an app like this but hadn't found one.
     
  12. Why has it got to be an app?

    Get some ply wood or card board a nail for the pointer to spin on and a bit of wood or card for the pointer.

    Then set to work make it nice all painted with different sections mark on them rewards and forfeits .

    As you progress change hours to days to months one cane stroke to 6 to 50 .
    Your KH orgasams to yours 5-1 10 -1 50 -1 .

    Xx Wendy
     
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  13. How about playing poker? Each chip represents a 1% chance of an orgasm in the next week/month/year. Makes going "all in" a very significant move!
     
  14. Easy. Set a release date. Each orgasm she has puts back that date by one day.
     
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    This can be customised to change the settings and frequency to whetever you want them to be. But it doesn't save changes -it defaults to original settings each time you go back there.
     
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    Yes, I did try to change one of them to ETERNITY, lol.
     
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  18. Absolutely right... And it's a good thing. She has a lot of fun directing me on how she wants it set up each time we use it. Each time is a little different.
     
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    Well you can if you like! But it'll vanish when you visit the link again...:(
     
  20. I just span it for a ruined one!
     
  21. Me and my wife set up a game. Grab a piece of paper. Write down five different chastity durations. Ours are 3 days 7days 2 weeks 1 month and 3months. For eachthere is a punishment for failing to lastthe duration. A reward for lasting said duration and a reward for going longer. The punishment for 3 days failure for example is I have to give her dildo a blowjob for the next 3 days at 10 minutes each day as well as not being released and having 3 days added to the original 3 making it 6 total. For completing 3 days without asking for release iam rewarded with 15 Minutes of pegging(which she enjoys) followed by release from chastity. I may or may not be allowed to cum. For doubling my3 days to 6 without asking for release I am rewarded with being allowed to go down on her plus 30 minutes pegging release from chastity and being allowed to cum. Also. If I put the cage on she chooses the duration.I am allowed I cut that in half. If she puts the cage on me I am allowed to choose the duration but she is allowed to double it. Just ideas.I may upload the page in a picture if anyone would like me to.
     
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    I'm not much into games personally, but there's a blog I found where Mistress sometimes uses various games to determine number of strokes of the cane etc her hubby will get. These could easily be adapted to determine length of chastity instead.

    Link is here: http://www.anniebeebooks.com/id7.html
     
  23. I love all the suggestions presented here. I've got to try them out!
     
  24. Never really thought about not having my wife decide when I get to orgasm. Just seems to me that using dice or some other method runs contra to the idea that the KH is in control and lets you orgasm only when SHE wants you to. My wife would not like it if the dice said that I get to orgasm in 6 days when she would want it to happen when she was in the mood to let me cum.

    However, I can understand why some like to make it a game. Dice are the most often mentioned method. There is also putting marbles in a bag and all but one is black. You keep drawing each day until you get the white one and then you get to orgasm or some variation of that. Games like this can allay some of the guilt that wives in particular, feel by withholding your orgasm so they are useful for people in your situation. My wife would whip my butt real good if I suggested that anything but her, decide when I get to cum. :) Just have fun with it. There are many games you can find online if you search.
     

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