Wife is not normally kinky, but the cage turns her on.

We started last Aug. I brought the subject of MC up to my Wife(KH) and showed her a few pictures of the cages we could order, We couldn't get one here quick enough and on my cock. She tells me now she would have done this years ago if she would have know about it. She will have me lay down beside her in bed, she will watch one of her shows on T.V. and play with my balls and nipples. She will stop to look at my cock straining at the metal bars on my cage. She loves to see the pre-cum seeping out of my cock. She has taken full control of my sex live. When or if I get to cum, how I get to cum. She has left me tied up and begging to cum. Just leaves the room with me tied to the bed. She will go out of the room and play her game, or read for an hour. Come back into the room once in a while to check on me, give my balls a squeeze or lick and then leave. She has told me she loves our new arrangement and doesn't see it changing anytime soon... I think back to what I read early on..."You better watch what you wish for"...

 

I'm in a bit of a different situation. My wife likes that I'm locked, but often wonders if my small cage is uncomfortable. She has never been really into dick in a "ooh let me see that" kind of way, although she does like piv sex. In that sense, she is as into my cage as she was my dick when it was unlocked. It gets the odd, teasing touch. She does love when I wear the strap-on, although it's not actually much bigger than I was! She does like the clean look of the strap-on completely covering the smaller cage.

My keyholder isn't big into genitals, and finds that they get in the way of kink/bdsm. She does actually love that the small, closed cage removes my dick entirely, compared to some of my earlier cages that simply contained it. She doesn't demand to see it, or like me to try and show it off when we are together, but she does revel in my "cleaner" appearance, and that I can serve, massage, or submit to sadism without a big drippy weiner getting in the way.

 

Similar with my wife. She never liked sex at all (in fact hated it) before we explored chastity. She had some concerns about safety at first, but after a couple of weeks she was more onboard than I was.

I don’t think it’s the appearance of the cage that she finds appealing. It’s more about what it does. She enjoys knowing that I can neither get an erection nor penetrate her. She likes the feeling of being in control of our sexual experiences.

 

She thought it was weird. Wondered if I had issues with hating myself, my penis, or felt guilty for something and wanted to punish myself. She agreed solely because we had dated a few months and she really liked me.

Then one night I was using the strap on harness, and taking her from behind, rough, long strokes, deep and fast. All of which I can’t really do without accessories. She cried out “oh my god I can feel your cage hitting my clit don’t stop!” She came like I’ve never seen before. She was hooked.

Now much of the time, I am asking to be let out of my cage, and she doesn’t see a reason to do so, and has verbally assured me that I will spend the rest of my life in it, minus some playtime( a handful of times per year).

Yes this does tend to grow on some rather quickly and ardently...I think for those, they were predispositioned for a more dominant role, but didn’t have an outlet to express it freely.

 

My wife never had an "I love it" initial reaction. We started it intending for it to be a sex game. It sort of morphed into this bigger lifestyle thing on it's own. She loves the lifestyle and being in control most of the time. Sometimes I think she grows tired of it and that's when we have our struggles. For her though it is not about my dick (her dick?) caged or otherwise. It's about all the other stuff that goes with it.

 

I approached my wife about chastity as away to stop my porn and masturbation habit. I left a copy of "Male Chastity, A Guide For Keyholders" on Kitten's pillow in an envelope with a letter printed on it asking her to read the with an open mind. I was prepared for my vanilla wife to not only say no but also how sick an idea it was. Instead she not only accepted the idea but was excited by the idea and we ordered the first cage the day she finished the book. That was June 30th last year and I am now locked 24/7 and in what has become an FLR. I couldn't be happier!

 

Sounds like heaven

 

Very hot.

 

Certainly can say I have seen TTTWD all of the women I've introduced to it being introduced to it become very enthusiastic about it and some of the aspects it can raise.

I'd also point out that I do not know for sure if it really was me that introduced them to it... for the first time. At least a couple of them were extemely quick learners ... or were they?

 

When I introduced the chastity device to my sub gf/now wife, she loved it. Very surprising.

 

What does TTTWD mean?

 

I was wondering the same thing.

 

Think it's "That Thing That We Do" if another thread has it right. Gave me pause too.