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    Pre-covid I heard some male friends whining that their gf's had gone to a bachelorette party that had a male stripper who'd got totally nude.

    The cfnm-loving sub in me automatically pricked up my ears.

    My wife has long enjoyed such shows with her girlfriends and probably has such experiences every few months. I know my wife and her friends get pretty wild there and she has my enthusiastic backing to enjoy herself.

    I fully understand why those outside of an FLR may be uncomfortable with such an event. But for those of us who are in FLR's I just wondered if anyone else got enjoyment about knowing your wife is out, all glammed up, cheering on and partying with hunky male strippers with her gals, while I'm finishing the chores at home, usually locked. My wife is also kind enough to tell me all the saucy stories from after-parties and the like so I don't feel left out. She also lets me help her get ready for the night out.
     
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    Yes this totally works for me.
     
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    Pre-Covid, my wife did this several times with her Girl Friends while the husband or boyfriends were left at home. She took great pleasure getting all made up, nail, hair, and a sexy dress an d letting me watch her dress. I would get various text messages about the dancers and how they were teasing the guys, plus some graphic descriptions on how some of the ladies in the club behaved. At the end of the night she would either sit on my face for me to give her pleasure or bring home one of her GFs and play with each other while I watched. Many times I wish she would have brought home on of the guys, but in the end this was also hot.
     
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    We have no lady's club as far as I know in Belgium but when (in past) she goes to see her lover and now she let me home to see friends I agree with her.
    I takes opportunity to do the chores and clean up all for when she get back, she except a good meal when back home.
    In an FLR you have to abandol some feeling like the one to be jaelous or being possessive. I am happy for her when se get to see friends or lovers now. After all, it is her body.
     
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    Well said! It's not just a fun night for her, its a good flr lesson for me, to focus extra on chores and housework and appreciate that a woman rules in this home.
     
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    In a FLR, every time a woman behaves as a man would in a typical marriage, it is a reminder of how males have taken advantage of their position. For many, a man visiting a strip club while his wife was home doing housework and watching the kids, wasn't a big deal. Men had greater sexual desires and needs than women, so that's the way it was. So flipping the script, so that women express their needs and desires should be expected in a FLR.
     
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    Well when my wife has stop the pills and get into an FLR I can assure you that her need were enormous.
    I have know some other female in past that can ashame men in number of parther and sexual needs.

    There are cultural and freedom rules over the needs of all of us but give a female freedom of her body and be sure that she will seek sex (good one, the ones that please her) as much as a man.

    It is not a surprise that many country and religion put so much restriction on female freedom, especially the sexual one.
     
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    Sounds great to me to! Assisting madam in getting ready before she goes out is a real room for us both to!
     
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    I can't say I'd have any issue with it in fact I'd encourage it, who knows what mood she will be in when she returns.
     
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    Sigh, I often wish my wife were sexual enough and comfortable enough with it to go out for a night on the town.
     
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    Now, this is amazing! I am so grateful that my wife is open to trying out new things, especially when it comes to sexual stuff. It's important to grow as a couple and explore your sexuality as well. At one point I was even thinking about applying to https://www.knoxvillestrippers123.com/jobs/ in order to become a stripper and I am still thinking about it. My wife is really supportive of this idea and I am happy about that. The only concern is that I have to start hitting the gym in order to have a good body for this haha
     
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    If he can go see the girls dance, I can go see the boys dance. I haven't left him at home to do chores while I go. Usually, he just goes to the bar where we often go. Of course ,put him in Security Chastity before I leave.
     
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    She should take you with her and make you sit in the front row putting dollars in his g string. That'll teach you a lesson. Lol
     
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    Hmmmmmmm (evil smile comes over face). LIGHTBULB! I'd have husband en femme with my friends. Of course we'd make comments about how manly the waiters and dancing boys are and stuff like that. I'd have to put husband in business attire, not the usual sissy attire. I actually do have a few business type skirt and blazer sets for him. I'd make husband tip the dancers. One of us would have to pay the bill with a credit card, but I'd make husband give the waiter a tip in cash.

    Thanks for the suggestion.
     
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    Glad to be helpful!
    As my gallery certainly shows, I love dressy crossdressing! Sexy but demure looking silky tops and tight pencil skirts with 4" pumps or boots.

    Make her jump up and squeal whenever the dancer comes by waving a $20 bill in her hand, bouncing those silicone boobies and shaking her little padded butt. Making sure to get extra special attention from the dancers. Lol

    Make him start totally sober, but then later make sure he's had plenty to drink to see how into it he gets. :D
     
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    I have him use silicone boobies but don't pad his butt . Making him jump up and down and squeal is a great idea. I can promise him extra time in chastity or a thorough tawsing if me and my friends don't think he was enthusiastic enough. Of course, on the way home, we can make remarks about how enthusiastically he squealed and what a perfect sissy he is. We can ask him teasing questions about wouldn't he like to be violated by that giant penis or swallow what has the be a large load from it.

    If he does get into it after a few drinks, we can really have some fun with it. Of course, we'll order so called "ladies drinks" for him (he likes beer) and give the waiter a little extra to make sure it's got something extra. We'll have to give some of the dancing boys a little extra to show him some "special attention". Nothing too serious. If I had them do a lap dance for him (I didn't know if they even do them there), he'd probably say the "DEAD STOP" safeword. Probably, he wouldn't want them to touch him, either.

    Still, some good ideas. Thanks.
     
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    You are absolutely right. My Wife picked up a man in a bar a few months ago and told all her friends about it. She was proud of her conquest. He hung on her every word, wanting her phone # and buying her drinks. It was innocent, nothing happened, but he was this big 6'6" guy that was like 10 years younger than her. As a dominant woman tends to do, she used him for fun and conversation... and left him hanging at the end of the night. Though a friend of hers gave him a mercy BJ in the parking lot, so he was taken care of lol.

    Me on the other hand, I was embarrassed as I heard the tale recounted to all her girl friends as I stood there. More than once. I realized that what I was experiencing is what women have heard for years after hubs came home from the club, having women grind on them and regaling with their buddies about how nice their tits were. I was experiencing what many submissive partners have experienced. My situation wasn't any different.
     
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    Always happy to help.
    Have the lap dance come when he's already good and loaded, and maybe walk away and dont be right there to take the safe word so he wont be able to stop it so easily. Give him a small taste of what women get subjected to from pushy men. And be sure to check if hes hard when the dance is over. Then you can really torment him on the way home. Lol

    You sound like a fantastic Mistress!
     
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    That wouldn't work for us. I have to give him his chance to safeword out. He's got a pretty hard limit on the gay/bi. I could push it to dressing him up and taking him to the club and even making him squeal and tip the dancing boys, but that's about it. I'd have to give him a serious reduction in a chastity sentence to get him to agree to even that .

    If I could get him to agree to a lap dance (I don't even know if they do those there), I'd want to be up close to see it, anyhow.


    Oh, he'll be hard before we even leave the house. He gets hard when I put a pair of panties on him. Since he'll be in all his lingerie under his dress; bra, panties, garter belt, stockings and slip, he'll stay hard. Of course we'll wait to get to the club before we notice it and of course we'll tease him about it.

    Thank you. I'm more a Disciplinarian than a Dominatrix or even a Mistress. When husband's under Discipline or in chastity, he has to address me as "Miss Cecilia" or "Ma'am". I don't permit him to call me "Mistress".
     
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    It's great to imagine your girlfriend getting off with a bunch of sexy male strippers, especially when you're sitting at home doing chores. And even better if she doesn't mind sharing all the juicy details with you.
     
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    I can't say I have any problem if my wife went or has gone to a male strip show.

    Those boys can get her all excited and I'll be waiting for her all showered and shaved and smelling nice for when she gets home.
    Well you gotta have hope that she's sober enough to take you hard when she gets home.
     
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    #22 Aussiecple, Mar 24, 2023
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    Have posted my antics on a hens night on other platforms.....

    Hen's night and the stripper :)
    I went out in Darwin with some friends on a hen's night a little while ago. As usual I am allowed to play with other men on the rare occasion I get to let my hair down :)

    I was extremely horny that day as Mr A had licked me to 3 orgasms that morning :love:

    The Hen wanted a male stripper but we decided that we wouldn't pay $350 for 10 minutes. I suggested that if we find a nice looking male during the course of the night I would try to get him to strip for us :)

    We were at the first bar having some drinks when 4 guys walked past us, all US marines, there were a LOT of them out that night. I was showing a little cleavage and had my key proudly hanging between the girls :lock: I noticed 1 of the guys was quite good looking, in his 20's and in good shape. He smiled at me as they walked by and did a double take shortly after, maybe looking at the giant inflatable penis the hen was holding :):)

    Several different bars and hours and 3 different guys calling me beautiful later we saw the guy from the first bar come into the club

    (When the 3rd guy called me beautiful I held up my left hand showing my wedding rings and said I'm married. The guy dropped his drink and looked so embarrassed :))

    I wasn't drunk but was well on the way and was feeling bold and horny :love: I walked over to him with a girlfriend and said "We are on a hen's night, would you like to strip for us?" I rubbed his chest and stomach through his shirt and could feel he was in good shape, not overly muscular but not skinny either. I pulled his shirt up to have a look and liked what I saw, a six pack :love:

    I said "I'll pay you $100 if you strip for the hen."
    "I've never done anything like this before" he replied.
    "Me either" I said :):)

    We had nowhere to take him other than to the ladies toilets. So 4 of us escorted him to the ladies and took him inside. At that stage there were no other ladies in the toilets :p

    While 1 of the ladies kept the door shut the US marine/stripper started to remove his clothes. He slow danced with the hen for a bit and then I had a turn. I rubbed his bare chest and abs, making me even wetter :) He had a feel of my bum over my jeans before the hen had another turn and then he removed his shorts revealing a slight bulge in his boxers (I am a briefs girl :)).

    He had a feel of the hen's bum but she wasn't sure whether she should touch his cock or not, so he ground up against her for a minute or so and they had a bit of a smooch :kiss:

    Other ladies were trying to get into the toilets and my friend was doing a pretty good job of keeping the door closed but she couldn't stop everybody :) Myself and the hen shielded him from the unwelcome visitors who made their way in.

    It was my turn again and I rubbed the bulge in his boxers and I like what I felt :love::love: As I was rubbing his cock his hands wandered into my top and started playing with my tits, making me very wet :love:

    I rubbed his growing bulge and as I did his cock came out from the top of his boxers :) It was circumcised (my favourite :+1:), and of similar appearance and length to Mr A (7"). I stroked it a few more times and his cock was 1/2 erect now and looking very fucking good :love::love::love: I gave his balls a nice slap and he had a surprised look on his face :)

    I grabbed my phone and took a picture of him stroking his nice cock so I could show Mr A :) As things were hotting up, some ladies came into the toilets and said security are coming :mad: He quickly got dressed, I readjusted my tits, and we all walked back out into the club.

    We had a group photo with our US marine/stripper with me behind him and groping his abs, naughty girl :)

    I paid him his well deserved $100 and he asked me to suck his cock, the dirty boy :) Unfortunately I was staying with a friend who had family visiting at the time, otherwise I would've taken him home :(

    One of my friends was paranoid that security were going to kick us out so all the girls, except me, decided to leave. I said goodbye to our stripper, he asked again for me to suck his cock as the girls dragged me out of the club :(:(:(

    I didn't even get his name, his number, or tell him about our Mewe, Fetlife, Twitter, BDSMLR accounts :eek:

    If I had a place to take him to I would've had some fucking great sex with him, I was 100 out of 10 on the horny scale and my pussy was soaked :p

    When I got home the next day I told Mr A all the details and showed him the photos while we were snuggling in bed and he was licking my aching pussy :love:

    Mr A loved hearing the details of my night out including telling a stranger what the key was for (posted before). Mr A said to me "How does it feel knowing that he wanted you (the oldest of the girls) and you only?"
    Horny was my answer :)

    Such a shame I didn't get his name because I would've messaged him before my next trip to town so he could service me thoroughly :love::love:
     
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    But seriously, it's great that you and your wife have such a strong relationship that you can enjoy these things together. Not everyone likes this lifestyle, but if it works for you, that's perfect. I once ordered Male Strippers Charleston for my wife's birthday so she could relax with her girlfriends. I have to say, I was a little jealous of these guys, haha. Get on with your best life and enjoy these steamy stripper stories.
     
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    It is important to remember that FLR is a consensual relationship where both parties negotiate and agree upon power dynamics. It is not for everyone, but for those who choose to enter it, it can be a fulfilling and rewarding experience.
     
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    It sounds like you and your wife have a great relationship dynamic that works for you both. It's important to remember that everyone's preferences and boundaries are different, and as long as everything is safe, consensual, and respectful, then it's all good. Ultimately, it's all about respecting each other's boundaries and communicating openly and honestly about what works for you both. Once, I even ordered a male striptease for my wife at https://www.northcharlestonmalestrippers.com/ to give her a little fun and relaxation. So, enjoy your wife's wild nights out with the hunky male strippers, and have fun helping her get ready for them too!
     
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