Wife approves piercing

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    I have a masturbation problem. I have tried chastity but the ball trap devices are just not comfortable. And I can pull out of any device without any issue. I am not sure if it’s a porn issue or masturbation issue or a combo of the two. My wife does not like chastity, but she is open to pulling the nuke option when I proposed a piercing. We are neither into the PA (and I have heard it’s no big deal, but not for us). Recently I have been having issues staying hard. I would like to hear from anyone with a frenulum piercing and what device you use. Thank you for your experiences. What are the challenges that you have come across. Been looking at the Evolution Bijou.
     
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    Any device that is more opened... you just gotta hook the ring through it.
     
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    I have a PA piercing and is extremely effective. Not really painful healed in about 6 weeks. That along with a 2 gauge scrotal piercing makes for many options that KH cam use.
     
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    LOL, thanks for the shout out, Lakeman! And, yes I do have a frenum piercing, and it works well with an Evotion Bijou. (see my pics). I just got a new Bijou in 11/20, and it's the best fit yet. Very comfortable and very secure. It cannot be removed without the key, short of using power tools and risking significant blood loss. And I got the frenum primarily because I was nervous about altering my urethra.

    In retrospect, after talking to a number of people here and elsewhere, I might have preferred a PA, because there are many more options for devices, and because it's less likely to migrate than a frenum. (because PAs typically go thru and are supported by more tissue). That being said, I'm perfectly happy with my frenum piercing, and see no need to start over with a PA.
     
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    Interesting.... u went it looks like a longer device than the pink one. Assuming the black one was after the pink
     
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    Did you ever think that you don't have a masterbation problem but instead an insufficient sex from your partner problem?
     
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    I can't tell from your pics - how is the device secured to the frenum piercing? What locks the device to the piercing?

    Thanks!
     
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    The frenum barbell is trapped by the device. Think you can see it at evotionwearables.com!
     
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    Same here.
    For me: ball tap devices are toys, piercing devices are tools ;)
     
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    Sadly, that’s what caused my ‘problem’ :rolleyes:
     
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    My problem too... My wife has no interest.
     
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    Have you thought about a spiked device? I seriously cannot pull out of mine, or my previous cb2000 with the points, without ripping my cock to ribbons.
     
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