What if A man was wise enough to realize his wife could manage some things better than he could himself? What if he was humble enough to put his wife in authority (even over himself) in those matters he knew she could manage better than he could himself? https://iluvzitwhenshe.tumblr.com/p...-her-the-key-what-if-a-man-was-wise-enough-to
My submissive nature and wanting to be in a cage tells me that she should hold the key. I tend to want it but my moods change and i can too easily remove it. I allow her to have the key when i want to be caged and whenever I don't and even bring up the subject of being unlocked because I don't feel like it anymore, she remind me it was my idea, yes it was actually, and she adds more time to my release. Last time she asked "Why did you want this if all you want is out.?" My response was "It seemed like a good idea at the time." She laughed and said "It still seems like a good idea to me. Two more weeks." Isn't that what being locked up is REALLY all about?"
I'm not a young man and I've been with the same Lovely women since 1980. I've been on both sides of Managing my Cock. When I was in charge I would Masturbate regularly and have sex with my wife the way I, as The Man wanted to . It was mostly for my enjoyment with little thought to what she wanted. I would get my Rocks Off. I had lots of Orgasms while my wife had none. Since being Locked we have Sex a lot Less but my Wife is now having more Orgasms and receiving a lot more pleasure from other means ( massages, foot rubs etc ) I almost Recieve no Orgasms now but am edged and stimulated regularly. Having her control my Cock and my Orgasms is Without a doubt a way better relationship and a lot more exciting. I never want to go back to how it was before. I am very content to be her Locked Servent
Because the woman is far wiser, disciplined and trustworthy. In short, superior. We are, and should be, supine.