Why men like chastity

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    Just a thought.

    It makes us feel like teenagers again . . .
    Constantly thinking about sex . . .
    Testosterone fuelled . . .
    Not actually getting any . . .
    But there's a chance you just might . . .
    If you're very, very good ! :anim_37:

    This might also explain why it appeals to males of a 'certain age' - rather than real teenagers.
     
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    lol.. not bad. Though I would add the "bondage" aspects to the list. I REALLY like the feeling of confinement, and inescapability.
     
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    Mike: thanks for that. You're right about the bondage, it's an awesome feeling. Someone once described (male) chastity as the ultimate form of bondage. I don't think I understood it at the time - but I certainly do now !
     
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    Oh yes please please don't leave out the bondage. You know this will sound selfish but I swear it is not. another reason I like it is if you have a wife who has a lower sex drive than yourself as I do AND she is willing to at least humor you this gives her an out for the sex while at the same tim keeping you ramped up. Exactly how it works for us.
     
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    Yep....that just about sums it up for me!
     
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    Please don't forget the power transfer of male chastity as well, for me it is one of the greatest thrills to be under the complete control of Mistress while chaste, as we all know, the longer the lock up the more we want to please, the easier it becomes for Mistress to exert Her will in all matters.

    Mistress usually has me in my CB3000 a full week before a cuckold experience, i am more than ready to beg Mistress to have Her way with another man as She holds my chin up to Her (i'm kneeling of course) and says 'is there something you want to ask me slut'.
     
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    I love the felling of bondage also. i love the felling of having my cock locked up and inacessable. I understand what they mean by male chastity is the ultimate form of bondage. Im constantly thinking about sex and getting off while Im locked and cant. Chastity is really great!
     
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    Dollyanne likes chastity because it floods her brain with feel-good little girlie neurotransmitters running around in flirty micro-mini plaid schoolgirl outfits!

    XOXO,
    :manga_bath:
    dollyanne
     
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    Dollyanne, you rock! Thanks for a good chuckle on an otherwise sullen morning.

    mikecb
     
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    sullen?

    sullen mikecb why dont you know its FRIDAY hooray! i dont know why i am so full of beans as my date for release was originally 21 days that finished on fathers day on sunday but after the escape accident at tennis date has been put back till next sunday now, and to make matters even worse my wife/mistress took me to pick up my van from service yesterday and i jokingly told her to stop fussing and drop me off before the busy garage when she told me to shut up and we were nearly there i accidentally said no you shut up and let me get out here! BIG MISTAKE" she has now put out bondage equipment for me to put on for when she gets back tonight from work and i shall be punished as her new rules state ANY LACK OF RESPECT =75strokes while strapped to bed with her studded paddle and then left there overnight. I am thinking of taking some snaps of my arse now before she gets back and then some after . Oh god i must learn to think before i open my big submissive gob.:anim_39:
     
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    Makes sense to me, WhiteKnight.

    I'm guessing that most men who are using chastity devices are at an age where desire begins to slow. 40's, 50's. I'm 55.

    Of course there's no "one size fits all" answer. But I think you're on to something.
     
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    feel like teenagers again i dont know
    but like the control wife has when im lock
    have lot stress at work come home to wife in charge is nice
     
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    There's a con-incidence: I'm 55 myself !
     
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    i am 56 and in cb3000
    yes guess sex drive dies as you get older
    but not the masterbation
     
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    i'm 56...and horny all the time. i think about sex all day long! Mistress loves sex so W/we get along just fine.
     
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    well use to be horny all the time and masterbating
    when my wife lock me up i was very horny could not keep hands off wife

    then after years of being in chastity and the months of no release tend to get use to not haveing sex but performing oral and useing toys on my wife my cock was like no more for months.
     
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    wow...then i'm glad i'm on the honor system most of the time. my CD is just for occasional play
     
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    I would say , yes I have the lower sex drive, but the chastity has driven it up more ! lol then again, he suffers as the more I cum the less he gets to ! go figure and he likes it this way ! Mary
     
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    Constantly thinking about sex (but what else is new? LOL!!!)
    Constantly horny!
    Not actually getting any and the chance that I might never get any! LOL!!!
    Penile bondage!
    Getting off through not getting off!
    The sexual frustration!
    The sweet masochism of it all!
    The delight of watching my cock trying to grow inside the cage!
    Waking up with an erection, but encased inside a polycarbonate cage, where it is useless and cannot be used!
    Denying myself the pleasure of sexual stimulation and orgasm...what could be more masochistic than that!?
    The amazement of others that I can cope wearing a chastity 24/7, on a permanent basis.
    The admiration and encouragement of others encouraging me to CONTINUE wearing the CB 24/7 on a permanent basis! Kind folks, so thoughtful of them to encourage me to continue wearing it for longer and longer and longer and.....
     
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    Well I am 21 and I have been in love with Chastity for many years already. I may just be one of the unique ones. I love the power exchange and the feeling of helplessness the most.
     
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    A lot of what has been mentioned applies to me to, the feeling of being contained, the real physical pleasure that brings. Also feeling turned on just feels good. I find that chastity is part of an equation that turns lust into love. I want my wife more. I want to make her happy and create space in her life for her to relax and find time for thoughts of sex and gaining pleasure for herself. And don't forget the pleasure of having a sexual secret at the office that very few people know about. I like having the daily sexual experience.

    When I can cum whenever I want I find that I am quite ok with having sex infrequently. I am thinking about other things. (computer games, sci-fi, friends, whatever). But when I am horny wearing a cage I think about her. That just makes me happy, to burn to find ways to create space in which she can get all the orgasms she wants. And man I love giving those.

    We are actually experiencing what I think is our most successful chastity period ever. We are playing a version of the bead game. I can go into details if need be but the simple benefit is that each night, even if we are not going to play, we get together before bed and put bead or beads into the bag. My biggest problem with earlier chastity periods was that after a few days of no sexual contact I would go crazy with the inattention, with the feeling that she had forgotten what was happening between us, that it didn't matter. Now each night there is a small but concrete indication that we are in something together. And so far, sometimes, a few times a week, I get to go down on her.
     
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    Got so carried away reading all the good replies forgot to post my own! I agree with all said. When I'm loose and unlocked I feel so vanilla, so bored, so normal; ugh.

    On the age thing I just turned 54 and chastity has been like an all natural Viagra. Mrs. Keyholder likes it also (and she's older). I think she really enjoys when I kiss her all over.....grrrrrrr........hehe..
     
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    I'm 25 and haven't seen a drop in my sex drive yet and it still appeals to me. Here are a few reasons why:

    1. Not having access to my penis (loss of control, sometimes feelings of being emasculated, sometimes seeing a devilish look in my girlfriend's eyes when she tells me what I can't do [this doesn't happen often!])
    2. Having my balls feel full all the time - only on day four right now and they're already very heavy
    3. Feeling more confident that the attention I give to my girlfriend is not interpreted as seeking my own sexual release - this feels much better to me!!
    4. Experiencing a glow and warmth when I'm around and also when I just think of my girlfriend that goes beyond my normal love for her
    5. The anticipation and experience of the enormous orgasm I'm going to have and the volume/distance of it
    6. The constant reminder of my situation the comes from having something tight on my penis that restricts the erections that I get, incidentally more frequently from being locked up!
     
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    All good reasons for chastity. As for me, I love the feeling of being confined. The feeling of not being able to touch myself, yet the constant feeling of being held in steel. The feelings of arousal, yet not being able to do anything about it. The feeling of the belt firmly grasping me, letting me know there is no escape.
    The aspect of no one else knowing is part of it, but when I am out, my thoughts go back to being locked back up.
    I absolutely love the fact that I am being held pointing down, that there is no chance of getting erect.
    I just wish that my wife would take the keys away and never let me out.
    The power exchange might be part of it, but she is pretty dominating in all aspects of our marriage, but would love to serve her more if she wished.
     
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    Ok, Let me see, I seem to have most in common with chastityslavejohn,especially in his home situation so I am picking on his post to quote.
    Hi John, and by the way I really miss your posting in the vault. Your posts encouraged me to start a diary/blog...so how have you been anyway?

    Ok where am I now, besides digressing BEFORE I even make any point at all?

    I started being interested in kink in 1966. I was very young at the time but really REALLY wanted to wear dresses and girls tights etc. The feeling is well under control in my life even today and I still have fun with it but never completely goes away.

    By the time I was ten years old I would fantasize a lot about being in a chastity belt. Sometimes I would dress in girls clothes and fantasize about being a maiden in a belt.
    Now back in the mid to late sixties no such machinery existed. I have day dreamed about bondage since about ten years old as well.

    Now that I am a "man of a certain age" it just makes me feel horny and strangely fullfilled...and safe. Did I say safe? Yup that too. Doesnt bring me back anywhere cause for me theres no place to go.
    If you are sixty and still driving the same car you bought in high school, so to speak, you don't have to pine for that first car...you just go out and get in it.

    I also get out of character sometimes and get very ALPHA! Like right now, notice I am capitalizing my personal references to myself? Been like that since Thursday if you want to know why just check my blog/diary in the vault give me a couple of days to post it. (Shameless plug huh?)
    This attitude won't last much longer though, I am locked up and Mistress is coming home from work very soon ;)

    I love having fun with all the generalizations but when push comes to shove we all have our own reasons and our own itches and different ways of scrathching the same itchy thing. Except whan it's locked up and you can't get to it to scratch in the first place :lol: :p :D


    I am so glad I grew up weird. It makes me feel soooo good!


    subklik.
     
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