Why have I not masturbated this year? Because I don't want to be the way that I was (am) - sexualizing women. The physical part is easier than the mental part. Why do you do it?
Because even if I like to cum, I also hate the end of that. I always felt guilty after cumming. Also, it makes me more sensitive emotionally. I don't know why. Finally, I like the view of my full balls.
I have wondered this myself. I love porn and I am a chronic masturbator. Years ago, when I first discovered they had male chastity devices I bought a CB-3000. After wearing it for a few days, I went to my wife of about 30+ years then about chastity and her being my key holder. That device caused problems and she did not have much interest in it. Months later I bought a much better Mistress Lori’s device after getting a PA piercing, and again approached my wife again. Again her interest waned and that was that. I have really gotten into masturbating every chance I can. I discovered a dominatrix a couple of weeks ago and set up a session. Before the session I pretty much told her everything about myself. What shocked me was the day of my session, she told me to bring my device from home if I still had it, and if not I needed to pick one up at a store that sold them. This blew my mind and peaked my interest in being in chastity again. The device I picked up really was a piece of crap. After my session my dom. said she would be my key holder. Immediately after my session I got a PA piercing, now for the third time. That night I ordered a Mistress Lori’s device. I am wonder why I want to be in chastity, and not have orgasms. That has to be one of the greatest feelings there is! Why do I want to be in chastity? I do not know!
Attention from my bride and to increase our limited intimacy with her low sex drive. Works sometimes, sometimes not but when it clicks its very good for both of us.
You know that song lyric "accidentally in love". That's why we do it. It was supposed to be a game. Wear it for a weekend and have explosively hot sex on Sunday. It ended up changing everything. When we are in a groove it's like when we first started dating, except a lot less orgasms for me. It just ended up making us both so happy. I was shocked when we set it aside earlier this year how unhappy I was being free to orgasm as much as I wanted to.
In my case it was to "put a bit of a spark" back into our sex life. That spark started a great big fire that is now out of my control! Hot or what? Mrs Chaste takes great pleasure in fanning those flames and whilst she was never a prude I didn't realise just how much she would enjoy it! It really has become a lifestyle for us now and we both love it. The only thing we wish is that we had discovered it earlier!
Why do I engage in OD and refrain from masturbation? For complex reasons ... - My belief in FLR. - Disciplining myself to be a better person. - Masturbation is cheating on my wife. - Channeling my energies for her.