Why Chastity?

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    I am interested in the many reasons the pets have been put in chastity. Who first suggested that chastity might be a good thing? What was the initial reason for the chastity? Has the reason for the chastity evolved over time to become something else?

    In answer to my own questions, I believe chastity keeps a pet thinking sexual thoughts a great deal more than they otherwise would. When something vital, like sexual function, is controlled by another's will, I believe the urge intensifies - it becomes more like an obsession. The obsessed pet is much easier to control and to shape their behavior. In my case, I want the pet reduced to a life where she becomes a feminine little sissy - her need controlling her to the point where she will agree to anything - do anything - for a chance for a reward. Tease and torment play into the scenario - keeping her on edge - almost crazed at times - in a perpetual slut delirium...

    Think about laying awake at night - unable to sleep properly because your thoughts inexorably turn to sex but you are helpless to do a thing about it... It must have an effect - a very telling effect over time. In the case of a sissy gurl kept in this way, their reaction is to try to be more feminine - prettier in hopes they can be more pleasing and earn their reward. For male pets, perhaps they beg their Mistress to cuckold them, all the while thinking, that if Mistress is pleased, they might be allowed to achieve some relief.

    I want to hear your thoughts - what does chastity do for you?
     
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    Miss D,
    Mistress and i both wanted chastity for me. It was something i wanted and needed but Mistress felt very strongly that i must be kept in chastity. The initial reason were and still are that Mistress has always made clear to me to be a proper sissy maid, etc.
    that i must be in chastity 24/7. So i cannot say it evolved but has remained more of a constant. Mistress has at times brought up many of the other points You discuss.
    pansy
     
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    I originally suggested buying a chastity device after reading a story of chastised slave. Before chastity we played around with BDSM, I was always the sub but I was never a 24/7 slave.

    Around the same time we started looking at chastity I started to find that I enjoyed dressing in woman’s clothing. Once we invested in a chastity device I found that after a few month of on off chastity my desire to dress fem increased.

    As the years have gone on and I have explored chastity and none forced feminization I found myself wanting to be Master slave gurl. It wasn’t until I read about sissies that I really started to desire to be feminized by Master.

    Now after years of chastity and dressing I find myself wanting to be Master’s sissy gurl, always dressed and femmed, serving Master’s needs.

    Chastity increases my feminine desires and increases my sexual alertness, Master just needs to play with my nipples to drive me wild with sexual desire. With training my thoughts are less for cumming but I still desire sexual contact. When I’m feeling horny I crave to be dressed, tied up and humiliated not necessarily all together.
     
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    With me it was a gradual evolution down the path of chastity.
    At first I brought a steel and leather device home, did not even know the term of chastity, at least not in this context. This was good for only short duration, maybe 2 days at most, So this got to be weekends at most.
    Then I discovered the internet, I learned about chastity, and specifcally the cb2000. For some reason I yearned to be locked. I finally got a used cb2000, even purchased a KSD2 for it.
    I discovered other sites, like Altairboy, Vanilla and Spice, and others. I kept getting deeper and deeper.
    My wife was against it at first, then finally agreeing to keep the keys. This went on for about 1 1/2 years. Then she gave me the keys back. She does not find chastity appealing. She also has diabetes, and menopause was in full swing, and she pretty much lost her sexual appetite. I, however, continued to crave chastity. She more or less still controls the chastity belt, she tells me when NOT to wear it. She does not want me wearing it to work, and some family outings.
    My sissy feelings go way back, like many others here, I used to try on Mom's stuff when no one was around. I pretty much gave it up while I was dating, and well into marriage. Then one day while all alone I found myself trying on some things of my wife's. I even got up enough courage to purchase my own panties, bra, and a wig. I still ocassionaly try on some things. I pretty much fantasize about being my wife's sissy maid, but I think that will remain just a fantasy.
    I still crave chastity, and would love nothing better than to be locked in Neo steel belt, and if my Mistress should decide to never release me, so be it.
    So that's pretty much it.
     
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    I felt the same when I first read about chastity which also involved a cb2000. I couldnt explain why I wanted to be in chastity but I knew I wanted it so much.
     
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    wow... well, my story goes way way back (ok, not *that* far back lol) to my undergrad days when i discovered i really was submissive and craved the control of a dominant Lady. mixing D/S and vanilla relationships over the years, it was clear i was submissive and believed in the D/S lifestyle.

    i drove myself to sissymaid-hood simply because i felt i was too selfish wanting to cum and all, so chastity seemed the really logical step to prove i was sincere about my feelings.

    it wasn't difficult to find someone who felt the same about this (i guess i must be obviously submissive!), and who desired marriage to a loving, chastized sissymaid hubette. Mistress is very happy with the situation and so am i!

    coincidentally, we happened upon other Ladies looking for the same thing here. what's interesting is that these Ladies typically don't join on-line groups, preferring to keep it all close at home among Friends.

    'course, it can backfire: Mistress just spoke with a male friend of ours who after 8 months of marriage jumped ship! His 'Ex' quickly started with the strap-on and mentioned the chastity/sissymaid lifestyle... since we'd not clued him in, he thought we were vanilla folks. well, She acted somewhat surprised when She heard the details but gave me the 'wink' more than a few times!

    i suppose it's really more common than one thinks!
     
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    Im my case i had dressed fem since my teens and when i met Mistress and she discovered i dressed she encouraged it fully and forced certain aspects. With chastity....we didnt have internet access for a long time and had no knowledge of chastity devices. my chastity involved denial and obedience...Masturbation denial and orgasm denial being developed over time to erection denial without a cb. I always had to ask or realy beg for release. This aspect of asking developed or evolved into other things such as having to ask to use the toilet and mistress not alowing it at times and often pushing that aspect to its limit. my chaste state certainly increased my desire to be feminine and submissive to please Mistress and i think this was the main reason for my denial. Cuckolding inevitably developed in time and this was Mistress's idea..... but this led to the destruction of our relationship mianly because we both didnt know hoew to handle the feelings and situations involved with cuckolding. For a long time i have blamed myself for not meeting her standards....now i just wana please any way i can to the best of my ability.
     
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    Why Chastity?

    There are as many reasons as there are CBs. Some want to be a slave, others a sissy. Still others want to postpone an 'O' so that the subsequent one is bigger, better.

    The general over all theme, I think, it is because the male wants a non-genital (non-penile?) sexual experience.

    When I first started, I'll admit, I wanted the delay factor. But CB usage does lead to being controlled by another. So slavery, in some form, entered the picture. But then I've always been kinky.

    Then I found what I call "The Float'. Takes me 2-3 weeks of being locked up to get there. It is a sexual high short of the orgasmic explosion. Some times it is fairly low, other times pretty high, especially if there is a teasing femme preset. I can get to where my whole body is humming. One friend described it as a female orgasm in a male body. Whatever... But the total pleasure, over time, is greater than the brief sexual explosion of the unlocked male.

    I hope I made sense...

    FN
     
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    Very very good, boys and gurls. This is a site of chastity and you are all benefitting from your chastity.
    Very good pansy, your Mistress is very correct!

    Yes krissy, very appropriate for you - chaste and femmed and learning your hair trigger.

    I think your craving should be rewarded chaste...

    Very nice renee, I am sure you are a very sincere (and chaste) sissy maid!

    Isn't it amazing how chastity has such a profound effect sissy blue?

    Yes, fred.. a whole body orgasm that leaves you breathless and weak in the knees...
     
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    Dear Miss D,

    sorry for replying so late but it wasn't easy to answer Your question without writing a whole novel :angel:.
    I want to try to keep it as short as possible. Chastity has a number of aspects to MyLady and me. First and foremost it is a tool to support and enforce my consequent emasculation. To be considered as a male being did hurt me for many years but keeping my male organ well hidden under steel, so it remains out of sight, out of reach and eventually out of mind, helps me to come to terms with my anatomy that does not match my feminine feelings at all.
    Another aspect is that the chastity belt and being kept locked at all times makes me feel being absolutely tied to MyLady. It definitely makes me feel being Her property. So to say the chastity belt is a very strong symbol of our relationship.
    Last but not least i must confess that steel bondage is one of my favourite fetishes. I like the sight and the feeling of being locked in such a steel device at all times.
    I know, it may sound quite weird to someone who is not into chastity but as for me i can not imagine to spend even just a few hours without being locked in the belt.

    *curtseys*

    maid katrin
     
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    hi all,recently evolving point in chastity.i got in by looking for toys on the net & saw a guy in a steel cage.had to get one & try it-5 years later much trial & pain have a device i can wear for who knows how long?its total sexual-orgasm denial & i love it.its 24/7 bondage that goes out in public.after reading chastity bridget post about her philosophy on total sexual denial it got me very intrigued.im hesded toward permanent chastity.what an addiction.
     
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    For me its, the reminder that an orgasm is not my choice, but rather the choice of my KH girlfriend.
    I masterbated too much too. And I have found that the sexual frustration of being locked up when teased and denied (and when looking at porn) was as good to me as an orgasm, and as an end result, I now get to have mindblowing O's but saved only for my KH, and only if she wants them. :wub:
     
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    Conventional wisdom says that men think about sex almost constantly, which, for the most part, is true. It's a biological force, a good thing, the reason, or at least the 'how,' we all exist. Our sexuality is a large part of our identity whether we are male or female. We can think about sex, or choose or try not to... we can pursue sex, or not... we can have sex, or not... we can achieve sexual gratification, or not... the common denominator always being 'sex,' the ultimate goal always being orgasm.

    I think chastity takes the 'always thinking about sex' a step further... it makes every moment, every libidinous thought, actually sexual. You experience the power of sex, the energy of sex, the possibility of release... ALL the time! The force is with you, if you'll pardon a lousy metaphor. You feel the presence, the closeness, the interaction, the interest, the power of your KH, with every sexual thought... every minute of every day.

    And I daresay the same holds true for a keyholder.
     
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    For me it was always either a fetish for the lack of choice, or exploring the different aspects of orgasm denial, eg the physical and psychological effects.
     
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    I simply can't explain it. Every time I think about having my cock locked away, it gives me a massive hard-on - which is particularly odd, since that scenario means I won't be able to get a hard-on at all...

    I like masturbating - a lot, so why do I want to have it locked away so badly...
     
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    :)This is exactly what chastity does for me :)
     
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    me bit older then most here
    im lock in cb3000 wife kh
    she has me lock to stop my masterabation i did it alot an had nohting much for her
    also ot much porn online between the jacking off porn an chattng with well people much younger then my age that was about it

    she lock me been lock for 10 years i chastity life style she contols when i get unlock or not
    my attitude change alot for her made marriage better an not into my dirty ways of the pass
     
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