Who's kidding whom?

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Mandynjack, Jan 23, 2018.

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Femdomacracy!

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  1. I wish!

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  2. No, quite happy with Wifey/GF/KH/Superior of choice in our own space.

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  3. The first answer really, but She does come in here occasionally.

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    Oh I stomped about the house so much one day @lockit almost headed back to London lol - It took us a couple of weeks but eventually we sorted it out, when I was in London ;)
     
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    I think the world works best when It's diverse, you need people of all backgrounds, ethnicity's, religious beliefs, and genders to make things work. I believe the best person regardless of any of the things listed above should be the one to do the job.
     
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    In every way.
     
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    Did sorting it out involve chains and whips?
     
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    Not this time, it was a real relationship thing, no kink involved. (The kink came later once we were all good :D)
     
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    My fantasy answer would be yes, but my real answer is no, she and I are happy as is, and realistically, most men and women would NOT want this.

    On a related note, I'm writing a fantasy piece on the subject. The premise is that all boys undergo a ceremony at puberty (not unlike bar mitzvah) in which they are ritually locked in their first cage, with the mother keeping the key. When a man marries, his mother turns the key over to the bride, as he places the ring on her finger. Unmarried men whose mothers have died have their keys held by a government agency. (sort of like a Family Protective service) Boys under 18 without a mother have their keys assigned to a certified foster mother, or can be adopted. Divorce is extremely rare, and can be initiated only by women. Married men can work, but then become house husbands on the arrival of children.
     
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    A bit like a Femdomacracy? So your vanilla side says no, but your sexual emotional side says??????
     
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    LOL-My fantAsy side says yes, but I know it will never happen. We here are distinct minority.
     
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    Yeah, agreed. But we can fantasise :)
     
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    True- I'll share my story with you someday. (assuming I ever get it finished, LOL) You'd probably get a kick out of it.
     
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    cool, thanks.
     
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    The first Gods we know of are in fact the Sumerian Godesses from the ancient Mesopotamian religion, some five thousand years ago. Some even claim that Maria Magdalena was the one supposed to carry on after Jesus.

    Males being physically stronger changed the course of history.

    Male sexuality has been the driver behind power struggles within religion, politics and economy. This ultimately have resulted in numerous wars, aggressive capitalism where cash has won over long term environmental sustainability.

    A feomocracy run by female technocrats and well behaved locked up men maybe? :)
     
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    I have a fiction story on Amazon that is exploring this. In the third book, currently been written, there is a very strong twist in this direction.
     
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    Well, a close run thing. I'm sure all extremes come with negatives, we've witnessed this for thousands of years. Harmonic balance is a wonderful thing and I think most would choose that if it were a reality. But it's not! Both genders have their 'mad personas', but I really do think that after alls said and done, a Female Led society feels not only quite delicious, but worthy of serious consideration. So, foot worship will commence in the main lobby at 4pm. Make sure you wear your knee pads:):D:rolleyes:
     
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    All too often people buy into this often-peddled myth that generally male managers are incompetent, harsh, too much of a risk taker, and lack compassion.

    It's a nifty propaganda piece and many with kinks in female supremacy happily propagate it.

    But as someone who runs a business I can only go from my own experience and that is talent and incompetency are fairly evenly spread across the genders. A good mixture tends to work best. As for risk-taking (the most used criticism against male managers) - starting a business is a risk. Everything in business is a risk to some extent. Those that arbitrarily condemn men as 'risk takers' casually discount the billions of profit and success that many of these 'risk takers' have secured throughout all of human history.

    There are first-hand accounts of small companies that tried an all-female or heavily female leadership approach and they tended to not last long before they saw the benefit in bringing some men in and evening things up.

    More generally (not targeting CM here) I would hope we could move the national/global conversation to achieving a happy mix without the need to pit one gender against the other. I don't believe anyone really wins from that. And yet sadly I don't see much hope for these calls for harmony.
     
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    An interesting piece that doesn't resonate well with a site dedicated to those who defer themselves to Female superior decision making. I did wonder though, how many of those men were in fact caged and their mindsets were helped by knowing that behind every man with talent, there is a woman holding the key to his cock! Well, we'll never know, but then who knows!;)
     
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    My wife firmly believes women are the superior gender. We both believe each gender has their strengths (physical as well as mental). Speaking for myself, I wasn't initially so sure in a gender edge but she's conditioning me to believe there is one.
     
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    If there´d be a guarantee that ongoing rebirth is a fact, I´d give it a try for one or two lives ;)
     
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    Sorry, I genuinely didn't know that a prerequisite for this site was that you had to believe that one group of humans are supreme over another. I'll shut up then.
     
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    Do you have a son? If you did, would you both raise him to believe he can be as good as anyone else? Or are you seriously going to be truthful to what you just said and tell him he's inferior to half the world just because of the way he was born? If so thats very sad to hear, deliberately teaching boys not to be just as ambitious and optimistic as anyone else.
     
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    I have no real interest in English politics but Theresa may is seen as a safe pair of hands. I can only imagine the state of England with Boris Johnson as English prime minister. This man is am joke and the man that should be put in a chastity belt and break the key.
     
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    what an interesting holiday park where all the men are seen as property of the theme park for the duration of there stay and all the women are there to relax and enjoy the holiday.
    cheap holiday men do all the work in the park just naked and locked up and the wags just relax and take in the sun.
     
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    Well have a think about it. Man defers his sexual pleasures to his wife. Somewhere in this mix, the male gets off on his wife being in charge. If both were equal, then one would not be deferring to the other. Is it a prerequisite? Probably not for those who are bottom toppers. Then you just have the illusion of female deference, but still call the shots. I think it's more of a question of fantasy v reality.
     
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    I have thought about it.

    "If both were equal, then one would not be deferring to the other." There are many reasons why two people could be equal and yet happily allow the other to take charge. If this wasn't the case, switching would not exist would it?

    And even if a man does get off on his wife taking charge, to extrapolate that to mean that man has to agree to a supremacist society where anyone born with a penis is relegated to a second-class citizen is a bit of a stretch.
     
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    Femdomacracy is fantasy-land. It's a fantasy I love, but literal enslavement would not be good. An FLR is valuable and legitimate because the man can *choose* to submit. It's that choice, the willing transfer of power, that it's all about. IMHO.

    Speaking of fantasy, or perhaps speculation, i was thinking of this scenario: the current trend for women in the West to become better educated increases. Women gain increasing political and media power. In this context, the fact that men are overwhelmingly the authors of physical violence and aggression is examined in terms of biology. A movement takes off, #LockEmUp, and women in government and politics succeed in passing laws in some US states and some European countries obliging men to be caged at puberty, with keyholding the responsibility of female heads of household, wives, or public authorities. After a couple of decades, statistics and testimony reveal that violent crime and rape have dropped precipitously, and in addition men and women are both happier. The movement spreads worldwide and eventually all humanity is practicing male chastity.
     
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