Who should close the lock?

and there you have it. it's like stalin said: "voting is nothing. -counting- the votes is everything."

 

The Keyholder. Your hands should be cuffed behind you.

 

That's the best, IMO. Leaving you no choice in the matter.

 

I say all locking should be done by an impartial third party. after all the facts are considered.

 

@diapered68
Most of the time I put it on.
Its off during my work day but as soon as I get home, it goes on & stays on until I go back to work.

The times She has put it on is a whole other head space!
I do it almost every day & got the process down.
She has to fiddle with it - which of course given the state I am usually in - makes it even more difficult.

The security screws are a love-hate relationship for Her.
There is a trick to getting the driver seated correctly - it only fits in 1 way despite 4 other 'close' fits. I almost always have to do them.

I can just see the gleam in your eye when you said that.
You are such a no-nonsense woman ... perfect!

SO TRUE!

 

My KH puts on the lock, but she makes put on the device because she wants me comfortable in the device.

 

My KH closes the lock after I put it on. She says I need to be comfortable in the device since I don’t know when I will be released.

 

Real power can't be given. It must be taken.

 

It doesn't make difference for me. I lock myself and hand the keys to my Wife. The act of handling the keys is mentally meaning for me.

 

Whatever MissesM wants. But i prefer when SHE closes the lock. Its a mental mind fuck when she does it.

 

Yes, I totally agree.

 

When I need to be unlocked, I have to ask for the key. This is for cleaning and adjustments. When the cage goes back on, I put it on, but my Wife(KH) locks it back up. I locked it once, and paid for it later...Never happened again...

 

I find it hot when she either locks it or watches me close it. Other day when i had free time, i looked at the cage and just put it on. She laughed when i told her what i did. "I didnt even have to demand to to"

 

I always used to put the cage on but these days, now we have a simpler cage to fit, she has done it more often.

This is more so if the base ring hasn't come off as it's this bit she finds most fiddly.

However since she became my KH she has always closed the lock except on one or two very rare occasions.

 

I always put the cage on and close the lock. It's just another submition and doing as you told. I think it's more humbling and obedient to do as your told and sort it yourself

 

Madam always used to close the lock, I would stand before her and present my self to her, and she would snap the lock shut, then one day she sat there and said, if you love me you would do it your self to prove your self to me. So I did.
Now it’s a mixture of both, it all depends on how my madam is feeling at that moment.

 

It depends on the relationship/closeness/intimacy for Me
If it's just a KH arrangement then he locks it.I don't touch him.
Otherwise I lock and unlock, clean and shave/wax him etc

 

Interesting conversation But does it really matter who closes the lock. Who holds the key has control.

 

My Domme always decides, either way its hot knowing I have no choice but to snap the lock shut and watch her hang the key round hey neck or for those times she locks it herself and again puts that key round her neck, either way I feel like I am being bent to her will.

I will admit I do prefer to have her lock me up but that is irreverent to her and this is all about what she wants.

As for putting on the cage she prefers I do that as she does not want to hurt me and wants me to be comfortable in my cage at least to some extent.

 

My personal preference is to be locked, but in the end it doesn't really matter. I also preferred to have the woman insert my penis into her pussy back when I was still allowed to fuck, but that's been over with for quite a while now.

 

@LadyL always has me install the device and she only opens and closes the lock.

 

While my wife has closed the lock a couple of times it is almost always her telling me to go put on my cage and then if I have the key I present it to her and show her that I have locked myself as directed.

 

My wife tells me to put my cage on. We tried her putting my cuff ring and cage on and it turned out to be too hurtful for me. So, I do that part and she cinches my padlock. I'm doubled locked, so after she closes my lock she places her numbered security tag on my cage as well. I stand there with my hands behind my head just diving into the pool of submissive feelings. I can't think of anything more submissive than your wife/KH locking your lock and putting a security tag on you.
It always the same. After she's got her tag on me she gives it a few hard tugs to make sure it cinched. She reads off my new security numbers and I repeat them back to her. She will usually pull my panties up and that's it for me.

 

Personally, I find it more humble if she orders me to put it on; and she locks it her self. This
is done before she goes to work in the morning.