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    We, my wife and I, are new to chastity. We haven't told anyone yet,at least I don't think she has. Who knows about your chastity and how did they find out?
     
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    We have been at it for a few weeks off and on, but I have been locked 24/7 for the last 4 days.
     
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    We started playing with chastity back in sept 2016. Longest I've been is two weeks. We enjoy playing off and on so it doesn't get bored or ruined. We switch dominance and fun. As far as I know, no who knows us locally or personally. We have a Tumblr with pics, but never told anyone we personally know about that either.
     
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    I have two close friends that know about it. They are my closest friends and we have often discussed our marital and sexual issues. They only know that it's something my wife likes, but don't know how serious we are about it.
     
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    Who knows about my being locked and how they found out are all posted on my thread " On Display " if your interested.
     
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    We Know ;)
     
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    Your off to a good start. Take it day by day. If your wife is holding your key she has control of when you get unlocked. If you can sleep while locked try for a longer and longer time. Good Luck
     
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    I've told one female friend. She's not into it but thinks it's cool that I've committed to no more orgasms.
     
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    my long distant Owner, Mistress Sonia, has told Her Mother, Sister, 3 Girlfriends and 1 gay male friend so fat that She has told me about. They all call me Mistress Sonia's slavey and Mistress has even shared pictures of Her slave with them..
     
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    Two of the girls I work with know about it. One of them had been complaining about her boyfriend being a jerk, and I made a joking comment about how she should lock him up. She asked what I meant and I told her about chastity devices...she got interested in the idea so we spoke of it a bit, and one thing led to another and she figured it out. Managed to 'accidentally' bump up against me one day and confirmed it. She told the other girl, and both of them think it's great that my KH has firm control over me. As far as others, my KH has told a few people, but won't tell me who.
     
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    It seems to me sharing this kind of information (with girls around) is often viewed as a common fantasy to subs. I cannot say it is not interesting and exciting, but in reality I have always been more careful. A lot of people may not understand it, moreover it is about from my privacy and on the top of that, you never know what may happen in future and how someone would deal with information you share with him/her later.So it is good first to think about it.

    My own attitude has always been simple. I have never hided I am bdsm/Ds positive and I always try to behave and act as people around me would see Ds as nothing kinky or odd, but as a way how gentleman behave to woman. But it does not mean I have to speak about all details. Only few of my good friends - who are into bdsm/Ds stuff too - knows about concrete details.
     
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    We have 4 people who know. 1 physical therapist so I really don't count that person. 2 of our friends are massage therapist and they both know. One person at his work found out accidentally by hitting him when he scared her. All the people who know are women, and it has lead to some very interesting conversations.
     
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    Thanks to everyone for taking the time to answer. I was allowed to orgasm this morning. I would have preferred to try a few days longer, but maybe this next time will be longer. I don't think my wife has told anyone yet,but if she has/does it would be her sister and or her best friend. I don't think I want to know if she does tell them. I think I will feel better if I am around them and don't know they know.
     
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    Within the first few days she told her best friend, I think to get a judgment on how weird it was. She didn't say anything about our lifestyle, just that I locked it up to make her feel more secure that I would never cheat on her(not the reason I wear it), her friend said it was sweet and as far as I know, they have never spoken about it again.
     
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    my therapist knows, also my best friend from college and his girlfriend knows a little, but not the whole story. Lol
     
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    We have always felt that only those with a need to know should know about our sex life. We successfully went 30 years in a poly triad with my wife's best friend and no one ever said anything about why my wife's best friend had her own room in our home and went out with us a lot. My wife was best friends with her girlfriend since they were kids. Both are bi and neither told the other for fear of losing a friend. In our time, bisexuality was not recognized by society and even the gay/lesbian community. My wife and her friend would be labeled as lesbians at a time when that had life changing consequences. So they learned to be secretive and still are.

    I have asked my wife to tell our old girlfriend since she was the one into sexually dominating me but she does not discuss sex with anyone but me. Go figure.
     
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    There are of course people on the fetish scene and in the dungeon that know. However the only person that knows in our circle of family and friends is my daughter. That's pretty much because she lived with me as I found out about chastity and became involved in the scene. In fact we took her to club for her 21st birthday. Apart from that, no one in the friends and family circle knows.
     
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    She hasn't told anyone yet, but I admitted it to a close friend (we talk about all sorts and don't judge). She complained about not having sex for a couple of weeks and I said I had but I hadn't cum in just as long. She also knows I'm getting locked in which she found hilarious.
     
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    We are heading to a bike rally this weekend.
    My queen didn't even pack enough clothes for me to have a new set each day we are gone. Plans are Friday and Saturday as long as we are in the rally fences the only clothes I will be wearing will be shoes and socks
     
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    Let us know :)
     
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    myself, my wife, 2 of her friends and one of my friends know
     
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    I need to learn to video a strangers face when they ask to see under my kilt
     
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    No one but wife and I know. My wife is part of a book club and she hosts every couple of months. As part of my service to her I prepare a variety of finger foods for her and her friends (all women). Her friends regularly comment on how lucky she is and I've even had a few report back to husbands that give me grief about making trouble for them. In my fantasy world all of these women know and are of course fascinated by the concept. They want to talk about it and see it and my wife is only too happy to oblige and has me dress in a scanty maids uniform to serve them. The reality is still fun as my wife usually has me wearing panties and makes a few sly comments. Still that fantasy provides some epic mastabatory material, if I was still allowed to masturbate ;)
     
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    The only person that know is our friend that holds an emergency key. I had to hand deliver it to her on a necklace. Unfortunately she is very vanilla and doesn't discuss it with my wife.
     
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