Who cooks?

Twitch, much love and support from us forum users. I cannot imagine your spot right now.
We are lucky to be living in these times when cancer is so often defeated.
Be very well and our thoughts are with you both.

 

I do about 95% of the cooking Ms. Siren doesn't get home from work till late. When we met I started cooking as its something that I like to do. She will make a meal as a treat, she is an excellent cook.

 

As I live alone I do all the cooking and actually quite enjoy experimenting with new dishes, but it is a pain in the arse cooking for one.

Twitch, I hope you wife has now recovered and is back to full health? I had a cancer scare of my own a couple of years ago and know from experience just how frightening it is.

Best wishes to you both.

Charles

 

Why have I never seen this thread before?
Cooking
Raising three children, working full time, and supporting my husband and his career, I cooked.
Our children all have their own families. I still work, but with my husband retired, its only fair that he cooks. He is very good at it. I cook, but only if I desire too.

Chained to the sink? No, we are real people, and real people eat.

 

I cook nearly every meal in our house, and did so before FLR. The only difference under FLR is she can "order" what she likes and veto things as well. I am to try and impress her as often as possible and I am to make sure I cook generally healthy food.
I do really love it when we have a free Saturday night and I can cook something really special that makes heaps of mess and how after she tells me how great it was she orders me back up to the kitchen to clean it all up.

 

He cooks when he's here. That's usually only weekends unless I call him in between.
I'm a fussy eater so him just being a fairly accomplished cook isn't always enough.
While, he's not here I tend to eat a lot of raw foods, fish in particular, all washed down with gallons of mineral water.
A diet most people baulk at. But I tend to let go when he is here.
Just now it's the season for Pheasant and venison casserole, stews and other root vegetable oriented food.
I think it's important to try and eat what's in season don't you?

 

Most nights it is I that cook. I rather enjoy it, and our daily routine allows me to have dinner hot and waiting when Goddess gets home (except for the nights we go out).

We used to be heavy meat eaters, but a recent lifestyle change has us eating more vegan. This has certainly put in a spin in my meal prep, especially when it comes to using the grill! On a positive note, I have lost almost 20 pounds just through diet change alone!

 

I'm a fairly able cook and do the bulk of the meals and grocery shopping... sadly less due to a D/s relationship and more due to the fact I tend to get home first! I actually enjoy the creative challenge.

 

I always cook, And do the housework and laundry, And Dishes. I love doing it. I like making her nice meals.

 

I do all the cooking and baking, since I'm retired and CH is still working and bringing home a paycheque. It's only fair, don't you think? I do the laundry as well, and some of the cleaning (but I'm not as good at that as she likes, so she does some too.

 

I cook and clean and shop for groceries, but there is always an issue with something, therefore I'm rarely let out and very often punished.

 

I do most of the cooking but, there are some meals that she is just better at making than I.

 

My wife use to do all the cooking but now I probably do about 60%! She now likes me to be more domestic! I like it too!

 

I do most cooking, Set the table serve her, and clean up, and do dishes, I like pleasing her. Do laundry and housework. I like serving her, it makes me happy doing it, and she seems to love it too.

 

Hello All.
Work schedules, kids & life in general dictate who cooks for us. I have been going out of my way to try to do more of the cooking (and cleaning and grocery shopping) recently to try to help lighten my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder's load. If life permitted, I would gladly do all of the cooking (I like to cook), cleaning, grocery shopping, laundry and child rearing as well, but our careers do not permit that. I adore my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder and would love nothing more than to treat her like a Queen! I fondly remember gaining entry to her apartment back when we were dating (pre-chastity) and going to the dresser she stocked for me and slipping into hose, heels, sexy undies, a corset a black dress, a leather cock and ball harness and a studded leather collar and preparing lavish meals for us on the occasional Friday evening when I finished work early and greeting her inside her door with a glass of wine and classical music on the stereo upon her return from her
office. Her appetizer was usually a foot and calf rub as I would attentively listen to her tell me about her day...Those were some amazing evenings...ah the memories of younger days!

 

Its been the same with all my previous partners and I imagine it will be same with a future partner should there be one.

My place. I cook or we do so together. Or now and then I organise a take-away.
When at her place, Sometimes she cooks but usually its both together, or sometimes we get a take-away.

When I say cook, sometimes its cook sometimes its just heat things up, sometimes just prepare cold food.

Usually I clear up or we do so together.

I really don't mind..... whatever keeps her happy.

Like someone said about this lifestyle;

In chastity chop wood carry water. Out of chastity chop wood carry water.

 

If I cooked I would be only punishing my wife. I do not even eat vegetables or sauces.

 

It's about a 70/30 split with my lady and I. I work at a tire shop so some days I'm just too beat to cook. I'm home before her so that plays a part in it. If I want to eat, then I have to cook lol. I usually do all the household chores so she doesn't have to. She LOVES to shop so she'll do that.

 

In my new relationship, when i'm at her house i'll do the cooking or get a take away.
That's purely because of our work schedules and when i'm in rest days Mistress is working so it's so nice for me to be able to cook for her and have dinner ready, or nearly ready, for when she gets home from work so she can relax and wind down and we can spend the evening together chilling out.
We haven't moved onto punishment kind of relationship yet as we are still finding our feet and maybe we might not have that kind of relationship if Mistress doesn't feel comfortable with it, i'm just happy to be given the chance to serve her and spoil her wherever I canand make her life a bit easier .

 

I love cooking (so does Mistress). It is absolutely a channel for creativity and it is such a great feeling to see her enjoy something I have made for her. I could not love it more.

~m

 

I do all the household chores, I work from home so its easier and I give my mistress all my money, hell I don't even know my pin number!!
xxx

 

hello @ashplaything if you don't do bad things then your Mistress wont has to punish you.

 

Punishment is part of our relationship!

X

 

@jemima i'm not one of those subs who deliberately does things to get punished, however, there doesn't appear to be any consequences if to do make the odd mistake etc and I feel as if I can get away with things (not that I would deliberately try and get away with things) and maybe sometimes i'll need reminding of just who is in charge.
This all might come along further into our relationship i, however, a few weeks ago I was told I was up to 6 hard cane strokes for silly jokes yet now that seems to have been forgotten and me not being a painslut and not wanting to push her into anything she doesn't feel comfortable with or sound like a "do me" sub.
Maybe this will come the more our relationship develops and it's just me being "like a kid in a sweet shop" at the moment

 

I cook about 40% of the time and do all the household chores. She does not know why but I do! It is true it is difficult to find a maid and even more difficult to find a wife as it is a husband. For some it is very lonely no matter what position or role in life you fulfil when everything inside is a secret!