I shall clarify my title, For so long now i've been searching for a keyholder and hopefully partner an Mistress as well. I have had a few "tasks" by friends to lock up and I have also tried self locking. Each time there have been problems with my mature metal device, whether that's a burning sensation or ball pulling out . However the other week, and totally out of the blue, and was talking with a friend and during the chat (where I said I was still looking for a keyholder and maybe a partner too in th bargain but I key holder will b a a start) she said "i'll hold your keys for you ". My jaw hit the floor because I only knew of her as a sub, plus she already has a partner, then my jaw hit th floor again when she explained about how she used to be a Domme I have past . I had some time to think about it and also made sure that he partner was fine with the arrangement and said "yes please ". Our conversations just flowed and it seemed so natural and, led by her, not only was I going to be in chastity to he I wa going to be her sub. Wow the chats flowed so easily and it felt good to be be sub again and she now owns me : I'm so over the moon and she is happy that I still want someone of my own too and while she sill be sad to see m go she will be happy for me to find my partner (though i'm not actively looking because i'm serving her but you never know what will happen in the future if someon will come along and want me) . Anyway last Wednesday Mistress took my last free orgasm from me and then locked her cock up in my mature metal device. For the very first time in my life I didn't put it on, someone else did it , and wow it felt so good. Since i've been locked I have h none of the other problems I had before and yet the only thing that has changed is this new relationship with my new Mistress/owner. It feels so right a i'm so happy and proud that I has chosen me. The device is so comfortable now so maybe that's telling me that this relationship was meant to be while the other times it wasn't. It just feels so so right.
That's great news @manintyres I know from your posts over the years that this is a great breakthrough for you - Congratulations. Funny how the problems disappear when it's a real situation and there is no access to the key. Do keep us advised of how things progress
Remember the most colorful partners are usually switches .... we understand both sides of the coin ....
Thank Thank you so very much xx I have access to an emergency key which is in a small glued together plastic container (super glued and will only come out when smashed) . It is amazing and thanks for your reply to my post
It's a learning curve for me because this is my first "real" chastity experience under someone and i'm learning lots about myself an her. Thanks for your reply
Well I spoke too soon, On monday morning after work it pulled forward and was hanging their by a thread. What surprised me was that it was both balls that came through and I didn't feel the pain i have experienced in previous pull throughs when one ball came through. I messaged Mistress straight away and I suggested that a smaller ring (which I do have from another device) but if that was too tight the shoe lace around the ring and behind my body to keep it from happening again . We tried the smaller ring and it was very hard getting her cock through it but we managed it. I stayed with her for a couple of hours afterwards with her cock and balls exposed to make sure that any discolouration would be spotted straight away. The emergency key was glued into an empty pill container and I was sent away with strict instructions to remove the device if I was in to much pain or I saw any discolouration in her balls etc. So far it is all going well and there is no danger of a pull through due to the ring being much smaller . I did have some burning sensations the first couple of days, however, that was cured by cooling water and some lube. I still can't believe this is real yet, I feel so lucky and it's only been 9 days locked up but wow.
No worries , this was just over 2 years ago now lol . Was for non kink reasons and me and the lady are still friends