When a wife is resolute

Wow...That's some serious dedication on both your parts. (or maybe just his parts.)

Do you two still have non-penis-in-vagina sex (e.g. oral, toys, pegging, etc)? I know that every relationship is different, but I can't imagine something like this working without some sort of sexual gratification for you both.

 

We just wing it. Used to plan it out but sometimes one of us was not in the mood or I was out of town, etc.. My wife just lets me orgasm when she feels like it. Usually a minimum of a month but so far no longer than 4 months. I prefer not to know since every edging is more exciting knowing it may go all the way. We went through years of trying different methods and decided just going with the flow was the best way for us.

 

i love the spreadsheet and have made one for my wife and me, not exactly the same but a similar idea. I'll update it every time my time in-cage is extended for bad behavior. Usually I get a release every two weeks, on the weekend, but my wife is starting to enjoy punishing me with extra lock-up, a week at a time.

She'll only give a week for comparatively major things. In the "be careful what you wish for" category, I suggested that she adopt a demerit system for less significant faults. She agreed, and decreed that after seven demerits I'll be docked a week. That was on Monday. Today is Friday and I've already racked up three demerits. I'm currently two weeks from the end of a six-week sentence, my longest yet, and now i'm wondering if the demerit system won't end up keeping me locked another week. Or more! I'm on my best behavior now!

 

I love reading your posts and I love how you give him options within a framework but in the end, you are firm on the denial and chastity. So much of this is about the keyholder being firm (resolute) and keeping their man chaste and hungry for sex. I still feel like I'm coaching my wife through the "it's okay to deny me and for you to have an orgasm while I stay locked up" phase. She asked me if it would be okay to use a vibrator for her while I stayed locked up. Of course it is.

While I am enjoying the increased intimacy with my wife, I live vicariously through your posts so please keep them up.

 

At least yours is willing to play with a vibrator .

 

Thanks so much for your response.. Showed this to my wife who said "well, yeah, but better safe than sorry" and still decided to stay with our "once a month" frequency, but to each their own. Imagine you must remove his cage at times for hygenic reasons. Have you noticed much atrophying and shrinkage from lack of use? My wife has certainly noticed that with me, even with a monthly erection and ejaculation. She even speculates that between age (I'm 62) and atrophy my CB 6000 may sooner than later become redundant.

 

I had to wait til my first wedding anniversary to climax. Lasted 10 seconds. She has said never releasing me makes her very wet. You women are all amazingly strong

 

Your wife must be like my wife. Until we started chastity, I thought women getting wet was just a fake porn thing. I had never seen my wife get wet in the first seven years of our marriage before chastity. Not even once.

Once we started pushing me several weeks and then months, my wife started getting wet during our play times. At first I thought maybe she had a UTI or something, I wasn’t used to feeling so much wetness down there when playing with her. Turns out she just doesn’t get very excited unless she knows I’m locked up.

 

Speaking of spread sheets...

Back about 15 years ago, I'd started keeping track of my denial using calendars because I just couldn't remember enough information. Very soon that got to be a bit of a mess, so I decided to keep a spread sheet on my so-called sex life. It's one of the best things I ever did. I was able to determine I didn't have sex with my wife on any special day, like our anniversary, birthdays, Valentine's Day, etc., since 2008. I also figured out we were only having intercourse an average of once every 10 months.

Now, I don't need the spread sheet because I no longer have intercourse and I'm given a hand job once every 2 months on predetermined days.

 

One question do you cuckold your husband in between releases?

 

Especially when you hold all the aces!

 

So I just wonder how he feels about you stopped cuckolding him. Actually it was surely very arousing for him to know how your dom uses you. Do you miss it?

 

Soooo,
the suspense is killing me, really. What happened afterwards? How did the story continue?
It has been more than one year since the last entry. I am so hungry to hear how the relationship has developed since then. For some time I believed that @thekeyholderwife overdid it, and broke her husband. Would you dare to give us the ending to this fabulous story? (Ending, at least for now, maybe?)

Hope to hear from you soon!

 

Love this! So organised! Please give us an update!

 

My wife is very resolute at this point that I where device constantly. Last week when I was going to take my girls swimming at my moms pool, I asked for key. She said no way! Bring a towel to put around you when you get out of water to ensure its not noticed thru bathing trunks. Last night I had to ask her for key to unlock. I was getting a sore, apparently my base ring is too tight. She was really upset!!! She gave me the key only because of medical reasons, but genuinely pissed it needed to come off.

 

I had to remove mine for similar reasons. I found out when I got it off that the owner of my genitals had trained me well enough that I no longer had spontaneous erections and had difficulty getting hard and cumming without the help of a woman. I'm very grateful to her for training me, and can't thank her enough. It was exactly what I needed.

Hopefully you've also been trained like I have.

 

I have doubts that there will be any more updates. As cool as it was to follow this thread, back then I had serious doubts that the relationship would not break under this. The warning sings were there. One way or another, I beliebe that the situation is not any more the same way as it was before. Either she "caved in" and accepted that it was mostly her fantasy, against his inner nature, or they broke up. But this dynamic probably does not exist anymore in the same way.

 

Yeah, unfortunately I think you're probably right. No sign of her since June 28, 2018. That's more than 15 months as of this writing. :-(

 

[QUOTE = "Kanka, post: 348200, membro: 52027"] Ho dei dubbi sul fatto che ci saranno altri aggiornamenti. Per quanto fico fosse seguire questo thread, allora avevo seri dubbi sul fatto che la relazione non si sarebbe spezzata sotto questo. L'avvertimento cantava lì. In un modo o nell'altro, credo che la situazione non sia più la stessa di prima. O "ha ceduto" e ha ammesso che era principalmente la sua fantasia, contro la sua natura interiore, o si sono lasciati. Ma questa dinamica probabilmente non esiste più allo stesso modo. [/ QUOTE]
yeah seem we won't have any news..

 

I know this is an old thread, but I still can't help but wonder about thekeyholderwife and her hubby.

Her writing and content was among the hottest I've ever read anywhere. If it was indeed just erotic fiction, it was excellent fiction. (I believe Lucy determined they were fiction as most of her old posts were moved to the fiction section, so I wonder if Lucy obtained info somehow that she was a fake?)

What I find most unusual is that she posted numerous full face pics on her profile here, despite saying that she worked for a large law firm. Not many people in her position would post face pics on a fetish website and then attached graphic sexual content to those pics as she did here. If it was all fiction, perhaps those pics are some unknowing person on Facebook etc. who had pics stolen and posted here without her knowledge.

There was also an Xvideos profile page for "thekeyholderwife" that listed as being from Oklahoma, that is also now deleted.

I actually lean towards the fact that she and her writings are/were real, and she just broke the guy, who didn't seem anywhere as "into" chastity as she was. I'd be curious to know what others think. The whole thing is just so bizarre.