When a wife is resolute

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    So June 17th was my husbands next date for being allowed unlocked for 1 hour for pleasure of his choice. Unfortunately he was out of town. While I was wondering what his next choice would be, I started to think about what my gift to him meant for our anniversaries. Since we began this in March he has 90 days from the date of his uncaging before I would allow him to ask to use another one of his 4 annual unlockings. This got me thinking and doing some math. I realized that it would take years before he would ever be unlocked for our anniversary. I instantly became very wet at the thought that our anniversary will be spent with him locked for me. Very romantic in my mind.

    When I mentioned this to him I could see that he was bothered and asked him what was wrong. He said he liked being with me on our anniversary. So I gave him a choice. He can forgo this and wait until our anniversary and use his gift then. If he does, then the program time table adjusts with one caveat. For my compromise, he will spend every other year after our anniversary on a six month lockup period before the program resumes.

    I am very serious about following a plan but in this case I can compromise. He gains something, I gain something. This is what we call a win-win.

    Hubby comes home tomorrow and I look forward to giving him his much deserved pleasure!

    Hope everyone is well. Screenshot 2018-06-21 01.22.37.png
     
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    I certainly admire your organisation and forward planning. He is clearly in capable - if determined - hands!
     
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    You guys are the real deal.. he must be dreaming about you every night :)

    Does he still get to pleasure you? Any T&D?
     
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    Julie my wife is resolute about me being kepted locked up. Very unwavering. She is definatly in charge and liking it.
    I had a doctor's appointment and she refused to release me from my cage. I kept the appointment and had to explain to my doctor why it was there. He didnt really seem surprised by it but it was embarrassing for me.
    Was your husband the one who wanted to be put in chastity or was it your idea.
    Its been a little over 7 months for me now and Im accepting the idea thats its permanent. Still treating her like my queen.
     
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    Wow, you are very organized!
     
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    Just wondering does this include unlocking for personal hygiene and cage cleaning reasons?
     
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    Oh this is so incredibly sexy. Loving it
     
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    Seems like the strict basic rules and bar chart make it all straight forward, expectations clear and no excuses for 2nd guessing or screwing around. For @thekeyholderwife, I do respect and admire the way you are doing things. It certainly is a disciplined approach requiring a truly submissive boy. Curious to know how @Doczilla421 will use his 30 hours/month unlocked in each of the 3 months he might get granted release, as in one hour each day of the month, or breaking it into longer hours but getting out less days in that month.?? Or, is @thekeyholderwife going to require one hour per day, etc...... Hope your both well and having fun. Cheers.!!
     
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    Now here's a lady who knows how to do things! Excellent work! Have fun.
     
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    I like the spreadsheet. Now, that is organized!
     
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    Some people have all the luck!
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I often wonder what the percentage would look like in pie chart form...since for the most part I’m unlocked for the few the few seconds it takes to finish, and adding on a few minutes of post orgasm heavy breathing along with a few minutes to groom every few weeks and my slice of pie would be pretty thin.

    She’s not resolute about it never being removed, she just doesn’t want it off.
     
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    That's the best use ever for a spreadsheet!
     
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    Not sure who @Doczilla421 is. But I think you misunderstood. That would be 30 hours free over the next ten years. It is one hour each time he is unlocked. Once per quarter except in this year if he chooses the option where he gets out on our anniversary. He would forgo this year and only have three releases. Then every other year after that he would only have three releases from the cage for a total of one our each. So depending on the year he only gets either 3 hours or four hours a year unlocked from the cage. I will know tonight what his response will be.
     
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    Regardless, he's one very lucky person to be given the chance to be caged for You.
     
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    We've gone the opposite way. When we first got into this, we had all sorts of formulas which was fun. Eventually, she decided it should be completely at her whim. She loves edging me and when she gets me close, she'll say 'no cumming' which is sometimes followed by a slap to the face. After one really long session a few weeks ago, she had me begging for release. She grabbed my balls, squeezed hard and said 'I don't want to hear about it. It will at least be August now but it could be much later".

    I'm not being critical of your style as it's all good. We just found a different way. It works for her so it really works for me.
     
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    In our FLR, we have cycled from a very strict, scheduled situation to my unlocks and releases to be completely at Her whim. She had me maintain a spreadsheet, somewhat like yours, for about a year - along with daily updates regarding my weight, dress, and, ways that I served Her as well as various torments that She put me through. That was pretty intense and there were consequences for my failures and actions. We kinda got into a routine with that and then, suddenly, She threw that to the wind and has done everything by whim for quite a while now. While my wants are not important, the structure provided by the log provided an expectation that was, for me, far easier to live with.
     
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    Donna Sue...I think you are lucky to have a wife who enjoys taking and being in control...and at the same time reasonable for both of your needs. :)
     
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    Gosh, what a lucky fella.
     
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    This question is addressed to keyholder wife but I suppose others could help answer this as well. My wife releases me monthly because we had read years ago that a monthly orgasm is necessary for prostate health reasons. Is this just a myth? Would be curious to know the answer because I am sure my wife would like to lessen my release frequency and the only thing holding her her back is health concerns.
     
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    I'll keep it short... It's a myth.
     
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    Very interesting. The question in my mind is whether or not you will stick to it for all ten years or decide in a couple le of years to change things up.
     
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    I want to know what he chose.
     
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    Not sure where he got the info that I get released 30 hrs a month. I don't get released at all, unless Julie wants it for her pleasure. Which hasn't happened for 4 or 5 months now, I cant really remember. She has told me it's permanent and so far it has.
     
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    Never seen chastity on a spreadsheet before.
     
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