...what's your experience once it goes beyond a couple of weeks?

Locked long term (month-ish) with daily edging is difficult to say the least. Locked without edging? Easier, other things fill your days.

 

Every couple's dynamic with male chastity is different. If you are not happy with the situation, just be honest with your partner.... ESPECIALLY if you are married or are already in a long term relationship with that partner!!!

I hope this is what you were looking for.

 

I am currently on day 9 but I am having a very difficult time not knowing anymore if she will let me have an orgasm. She is currently conditioning me to forget how long i am locked up so i feel less anxiety about the frequency of my orgasms.

 

That's amazing I'm not entirely sure she is happy that I'm struggling to make it this far! She has allowed me to have a few ruined orgasms to adjust but I think I'm expected to go much longer and it's driving me crazy! I'm really trying very hard for her

 

Levels of horniness fluctuate quite inexplicably. Feelings of submissiveness tend to increase though. Kind of a Stockholm syndrome thing.

 

I’ve just achieved our goal of 28days locked arms all times except for sport and no orgasm. Previous longest I’d ever gone was 17 days and that was during a close family members death. She was not interested or able to comprehend sex. This last 28 days started as just a few days then me suggesting I’d like to try a month. My lovely wife just said yep okay and I thought oh no what have I done. The first two weeks were very sexual with me giving constant massages etc then I feel like it leveled off and I have been at a level where I’m not really horny but am still interested in helping around the house a lot more than normal which is what I was hoping might happen. I basically suggested we try a month to see how my feelings would change. I should mention we are totally vanilla. The chastity cage is purely to stop my masturbation which was a major daily issue and it upset her. I’ve now told her that I’m not sure about my emotions and whether I’m going to stay like this or whether they will change but if it’s okay with her maybe another month might help me identify my feelings better. Not sure if we will last another month as she really prefers PIV which I can do with two condoms and not cum so maybe we will make it...

 

It's been mentioned so many times, try a strap-on or a dildo of some sort rigged up so she can enjoy you're servicing her but it not be your willy. There are other options, like numbing cream under several condoms, or latex briefs that have an external dildo that is hollow and your willy can be inside that, or just enjoy it from time to time 'normally' at her wanting. Chastity can be about being locked whenever she isn't using your penis for sex, there's nothing wrong with that! Keeps you from masturbating and she still gets what she wants.. The chastity dynamic between a couple are defined however things work for them, specifically, between you and your wife!

 

It truly is... I get upset with her sometimes at no fault of her own. I love how much She has embraced me and has supported me instead of blaming for everything.. She and I have an agreement and that's what I keep reminding myself of... I'm lucky to have her still!

 

Just curious OP, since you both have talked about leaving yours locked, have you both talked about her playing with other penises? Even for PIV?

That would probably make it more realistic to have your fantasy to stay locked.

 

I am at 6 weeks locked no O no release date. I have noticed for the last couple weeks I don't wake up in the middle of the night with straining in the cage. Know I barely even get morning wood. So this morning I watched some porn. Weeks ago it would be trying to break the cage this morning it dilled the cage and stopped and returned to flaccid seconds after stopping movie should i be worried or is it normal. It seems like I no longer care about sexual release just want to male KEYHOLDER happy just worried about life altering damage never been locked this long constant. Please advise

 

From what I understand and what I've experienced it's somewhat normal and it's considered a plateau to the point that you aren't pining for pleasure as you were for the first few weeks this is due to hormone and steroid levels balancing without fluctuation of orgasm. I've suffered from similar issues and found once released or given proper stimulation the problem resolves itself. However I am not a doctor and if you are unsure play it safe you have your whole life to continue chastity