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    Hi all,

    I think age does matters a lot. Most of the couples here are 35-60. We are only in our 25s so chastity becomes a little bit more frustrating for him. Some subs stays for months in chastity and it's not a big deal for them but my partner can barely able to stay in for 10-15 days.
     
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    I am 57. I have just started out genuinely locked, but practiced abstinence (with a few ruined orgasms) for two months before locking, and it was fine. But I can imagine if I were younger even a couple of days might have been hell!
     
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    Well, I can say from personal experience, that age has little to do with the intensity of frustration.

    He will learn. You can teach him.
     
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    Is there any reason that he can only go 15 days other than frustration? I'm currently on day 52 of a 180 day plus lockup and I'm frustrated as hell, but she's not letting up no matter what.
     
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    Poor boy, he is frustrated after 10-15 days...I'm 59 and after years of having a great sex life and masturbating when even I wanted. To have some one else control my sex life totally and have no orgasms for up to 30-40 days...It can be pretty frustrating for us old guys too...lol...Good luck...
     
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    I’m 56. But I started chastity in the early 90’s. We’ve played with it off and on ever since, but only recently decided to make it our lifestyle. (Well, you could make the case that our off and on was a lifestyle. Now it’s just more on than off!)
     
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    I am 48 6 month ago i needed to orgasm 2 to 3 times a day now go for 1 to 2 months between if ever again you can train him good luck love being limp
     
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    I am 36 and it really depends on what you are used to... but there is a distinct correlation between age and sex drive in men usually.
     
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    So how does her earn his release after 10 days? Do you require certain things for him to do to be allowed a release?
     
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    For us (58) it works because my wife is in her menopause and is less keen on sex! We did have a lot of very family issues and had a break from my wearing chastity cage but that is now back on track.
     
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    I'm 28 and I can't tell you too much about frustration. We seem to have more sex and orgasms than ever when I'm locked.

    But I do think it's a bad idea to compare yourselves to others. Do what works for you. There's no award for longest locked up.
     
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    I'm 23. I'm not locked up right now but when I was, I could barely wait for 3 days. It was so frustrating for me. I had a long relationship though. Nowadays I have orgasm every day and I'm still horny lol.
     
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    47 here, I still find it hard to not have release after 14 days. I must admit I wish I’d found this in my 20s though I’ve no doubt it would have been hard, but with a good Mistress I think I’d have found it easier.
     
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    I’m 27 and my girlfriend is 25. I know she loves keeping me locked but we rarely ever go more than 10-14 days locked. I find the first week the most frustrating but then level out after that. She does a good job of making me want out but I’d like to start going longer to get to the point where I’m truly desperate and can find out for myself how torturous chastity can be. Maybe one day we will get there.
     
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    I am 45. The longest lockup period was 16 dyas, but I didn't cum for 10 days more. I was really frustrated and couldn't tolerate it more. Luckily she unlocked me then.

    I do not see a real problem of lockup period of 10-15 days, why not to enjoy this much? Maybe gradually the periods will become longer.

    I am sure, that if I would had been locked 20 years ago, I couldn't tolerate two weeks. My desire was definitely higher.

    Also, for me now one of the biggest problem is that I am unable to sleep well when caged. If it were differently, my record could have been more, than 16 days.
     
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    We started this when I was about 29 and in the few years since we have done longer and shorter times. I usually found it got easier after getting past the first two to three weeks. There seemed to be a few days where it was so incredibly frustrating and pushing past that it was not easy but I could manage and eventually came to a point where I really did not want to throw away all the time put into it and feel the low post orgasm. I guess a bit like running a marathon and you hit the wall at some point.

    I would say that when my KH is more active in teasing me and such it is much easier to stay locked for longer, otherwise if I feel a bit ignored I can find it harder to keep locked.

    Everyone is different though and does it for different reasons. Whatever makes both of you happy is most important :).
     
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    Hi we are in our mid 30s but practicing chastity for more than nearly 15 years. So hubby was at the beginning of his 20s when we started. I can say it was much harder for him to be without orgasms but I think it’s because now he is used to to stay in chastity.

    Now we are in our 8th month of permanent chastity with a few releases and he says that he is so used to it he doesn’t mention it anymore...that’s the way I want him.
     
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    I'm 62 and we've been doing this for 3 years now. I am certain it would have been much more difficult for me when I was younger because of the sheer physical desire. However, that is only one facet of the Chasity experience. There is a huge psychological component that can be very hard to deal with regardless of age. There are many posts on it and others here have said it better than I can. Suffice it to say that to achieve all the chastity experience has to offer, one has to let go and submit. Set aside your needs and put your wife (or sig, other) first.

    Easy to say. Hard to do. I am still learning but I can tell you it has been rewarding.

    Grayfelix
     
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    We are 30. And we really started 4 years ago.
     
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    I'm 57 started at 45. Could not imagine being locked up that young
     
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    We’re in our early 40s now, and we started chastity over 20 years ago.
     
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    That is really true!
     
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    I love hearing about young guys locked up. I wish it had been me back then.
     
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    I kept him in a cage for many days at the time of Lockdown. But I was seeing that he was suffering too much, so both of us decided for 15 days. But now he is unable to stay even for 15 days. He is giving this age reason now. So I wanted to know if he is doing this to get out of it only or it's a real reason.
     
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    I posted already but in this case I would say it is definitely unique to each person. If it is not already clear it may be worth having a direct conversation about if he really means he cannot take that long or if he is trying to get you to ‘force’ him to stay locked up longer. Hope it all works out :).
     
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