What's realistic?

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  1. Mistress Becca
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    Just about to take a new subs keys, and I was wondering what was a realistic goal, to begin with.

    Know a few subs who self lock, some I am inclined to believe, and some I'm not.

    The longest this new sub has gone without unlocking is three days... with unlocking, it has been roughly a week, with an hours unlocking each day.

    Ideally I'd like it to be on an ongoing basis, but is it better to set a date for release?
     
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    Targets are good for me...

    i prefer my Mistress to set a date for my release. i have a question... When You say unlock, do you mean unlock to allow orgasm, or un lock to allow cleaning etc?

    my Mistress unlocks me as often as daily to allow a thorough clean but clearly not to orgasm. When W/we first set out on this my longest time was 2 days without orgasm. Mistress then doubled it after each orgasm release until i was at 14 days.. Currently on my first month long lock up. i found it easier to deal with it than some who claim to go straight into 3 months! i am pretty sure a month is about as long as i can go.... but then its not up to me.
     
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    i am pretty sure a month is about as long as i can go.... but then its not up to me.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT][/QUOTE]

    Well said!
     
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    i think three days locked and three unlocked for a while.
    then take charge of the keys and slowly increase the days.
    however i could be biased
     
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    Yes, you might be :)
     
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    When we started, the issue for me was getting used to wearing the cb-6000 and dealing with fit and comfort issues when accomplishing daily tasks.

    Proper lubricant and keeping shaved solved almost every issue we encountered. Cleaning is a weekly affair now, in addition to whatever I can accomplish daily in the shower. if Madam isn't going to be around, a lot of liquid soap and a waterjet in the tub seems to do a good job, though it is very awkward to do.

    Length of time locked up was never under my control, and was never an issue for Madam as long as I wasn't in pain from the device or having it interfere with getting work done. We do have a basic schedule in place now.
     
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    What sort of lubricant do you use, Kali?
     
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    Believe it or not, after starting with very expensive silicone lube, I worked my way to creamy pertroleum jelly, fortified with vitamin E, that I get in a 4.5oz tube at the locall dollar stor. Cheap, works great, good for the skin and 1 tube seems to last about a month. It also works well if Madam decides that other body parts need lube :)
     
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    Sounds like something we have here.. E45. That or Aqueous cream.

    Thanks :)
     
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    i used to use the same as Kali, expensive silicone oil called "gun oil", but have switched to cheaper baby oil gel, which is a little more than petroleum jelly, but Mistress likes the baby oil smell.

    W/we've build up to this being a six month lock up, projected release date June 4th. As for cleaning Mistress has me take a bubble bath everyday and using a q-tip and "Oil of Olay's" Body Ribbons body wash the cage gets cleaned out pretty good, then rinsed out with a hand-held shower head.

    Mistress only unlocks me around the 15th of the month for a thorough cleaning and shaving session, under Her watchful eye. The last couple of cleaning/shaving session was finished off with me being tied to the bed for some extreme teasing before getting, "deflated" and stuffed then locked back up.
     
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    differentiate between the device and cumming

    I recommend that you consider the length of time to have two components: How long he is locked vs how long he goes without cumming. The length of locking time takes quite a while to get good at. Be patient. As for not cumming, the human body can take quite a lot. I feel you can get pretty aggressive there pretty quickly.

    The device: days at a time.....but always open it up for cleaning and inspection.

    No Cumming: Weeks at a time. Then you can work towards months.

    David
     
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    I whole heartedly agree with the release for cleaning.
    I spent 3 weeks locked in and it was very difficult to keep clean, I was glad when it came off just to have a proper wash down there!
     
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