We are celebrating the end of month 4 of our chastity journey. Starting back in late November 2023, we have evolved to on average a month between releases, I am caged 23.8/7 and our dynamic is going wonderfully. My wife is comfortable keeping me locked, not feeling guilty about it, expressing her needs and desires, while still meeting my and "our" couples needs, including fun teasing and denying. Our intimacy and communication has flourished, and continues to grow every day. I do everything I can think of to be a better man and husband. Still lots to progress, but we're on a great path. My wife says she wants to up her game. As her confidence grows, so does her curiosity and desire to push things more. Coming from a very vanilla start, she is blossoming in her own sexuality and is looking for more things to explore, new ideas, things to do to me, things for her, and for us. We have both now gone through a phase like this where we would set up some play time, and if we didn't have a plan, it was hard to figure out what to do next. How to push boundaries, what to try next. Part stage fright, part "dear in headlights" not sure what to do. I'll leave this open ended for now...I have a question for serious couples who went from vanilla relationships into exploring chastity, deeper communication and exploring their sexuality in new ways. Once you had the basics down and were where we are, what did you do next? What suggestions or advise would you tell yourself (for a KH) or your keyholder if you could go back to where we are? Right now we're playing with Chaster to mix things up (no I won't let you add time to my lock and don't give her any ideas . It's actually turned into an eye opening power play tool for assigning tasks, tracking time and controlling activity. And using it for good things, with tasks around intimacy and communication, healthy lifestyle, playful honey do stuff, etc. Thanks for ideas!