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    This forum seems to have lost its initial purpose (chastity) it just really relates to sissys, homosexuals, and cross dressers, what happened to the straight man who enjoys denial by his wife/gf are these now considered the strange people ?
    Some one tell me is this the beginning of the end of the world or do the alternative sex have some other method for the continuation of human life? I dont know.
    I think I will get shit for asking a real question.
     
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    I think you will get some comments that you don't like. I understand what you are saying but it would be wrong to assume that all men that are into chastity and maybe crossdressers or like to wear in particular female underwear are in anyway gay. It could be that it is the turn on for their KH to see their man in female clothing.
     
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    There are many people who live in this lifestyle who are very different from each other. Not that any one group or style is correct and we and our significant other view the world thru a different prism. I, my wife, and most of our friends do not share in some of the choices of others, but they may think our style is too vanilla. To each their own and I have no problem with what they post, we all share our experiences and choices and that is a good thing!
     
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    I am not wanting to argue but are straight people in the minority now, are we a slowly killing the world off.
    You tell me ?
     
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    I'm a straight man who loves to be denied by my wife and I love this site because here strange people don't exist.
    We like to read about other people's journey's, experiences and fetishes. Not everything is wat we would personally like but we can have joy in someone else's enjoyment.
     
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    Society in general is moving to a far broader "acceptance" of alternative lifestyles and/or identities, much of which I really have no understanding of and to be honest, no interest in either, but its the way things are going. If you don't like something, you can either choose to change yourself and accept it or not.

    The perceived move on the forum could be part of assimilating to the way society is (especially as this seems an exceptionally understanding and safe place for such discussions), or it could be a progression / maturity of some in the lifestyle (where keyholders stop seeing their partners as "men" and then push to assimilate their physical appearance with their new identity) or it might not be there at all.
     
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    My wife and I were discussing this very thing the other night. We may be one of the last generations where a marriage is seen as something between a man and a woman, who raise their 2.5 kids and become grandparents etc etc. Is that old fashioned out of date thinking, perhaps, but I do wonder how much of today's alternate identities will be represented in some form of "family unit" in years to come.
     
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    Just because people call them selves sissy and like to dress does not make them want to end the world. Like us we already have our family and have kids already moving out of the house. There are a lot of older men on here that finally have a chance and a place to be open about how they see there relationships go in a new direction. The ones you read about have more free time in there lives to post and play.


    But at least here we can all be different and get along. Wish the whole world was like the people in this group.
     
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    I hope not to have to test society’s acceptance of chastity and/or FLR. I would expect some pretty puzzled looks, if not adverse reactions.
     
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    That would also have been true 20-30 years ago about societies acceptance of Gay/Lesbians, now we have transgender athletes representing their country as their new gender identity. I think societies ability to accept something new or alternative is far more likely now
     
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    It might help if everyone refreshed themselves with the site charter. It seems to be serving the function that @L-u-c-y specifies.
     
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    Your post is coming off kinda bigoted.

    I really enjoyed seeing how others enjoy chastity. It's really fun and fascinating.
     
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    I feel this site is a great gathering place for the variety of lifestyle that chastity brings. In our own relationship my wife is what some would consider vanilla where I am not even close. But our relationship works for us. I think its not about a swing towards one fetish or another, I think for many its a place and time of information.
    What was once a secret behind the bedroom door, people are finding they are not alone in there kink. We enjoy seeing what kink turns others on, it is our choice if we wish to experiment and try new things.
     
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    There is a section of the site especially for people with your view.

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?forums/chastity-in-vanilla-life.96/
     
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    I'll give you shit. Seems to be why you posted.

    Your intolerance drips like sap. You'll tolerate the world around you, so long as it thinks like you. Everyone who doesn't think as you do is "the end of human life?"

    I'm not a fetishist. I don't cross dress. I'm not homosexual. I'm not a "sissy." However, I do participate in chastity. My wife does, to some degree, but it largely apathetic. She doesn't really care much; a very common thing among men who show more interest than the women in their lives. So be it.

    What if I did put on a pair of panties? Would I become the end of the world as you know it? What if I did enjoy the "sissy" lifestyle?

    You deserve to get shit for the shit you just posted. What you said is offensive, biased, prejudiced, bigoted, and elitist. What's the cutoff for you? Denial is okay, you say, but others who are denied or don't "continue human life" are wrong? You engage in denial because you enjoy it. You get off on it. Others get off on their own interests, "fetishes." What makes them different? Because they're not "continuing human life?" Is that code for failing to impregnate women? Don't you engage in denial?

    No, this isn't a "real question" that you asked. It's a judgemental ball of shit you threw up to see what sticks. It's ugly. It's intolerance.

    There's nothing wrong with participating in whatever turns you on, with your wife, so long as she agrees. There are a lot of men who don't have a wife. Or even a "keyholder." Many lock themselves up, practice denial, or have a plethora of reasons for engaging in chastity. I don't do chastity because I "get off" on it. I have my own reasons. Chastity is practiced in many forms, with many aims, and even many definitions. For some it may be complete lack of sex, for others it may include sex. For some it may be teasing denial, and for others, it may avoiding sex entirely. For some, it's about 3D porn, for others, avoiding it is the way to go. Why do any need to be wrong in their pursuit of their own reasons, own purposes, own practices?

    No, what you did wasn't asking a legitimate question. You put yourself on a pedestal, and in a passive-aggressive post, spit on the world around you. It was a put down, and for that, you deserve to get more than a little shit.
     
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    Umm,,,,this statement is, in a word, ridiculous. Homosexuality has been with humanity for millennia. It's highly unlikely that more than 10% of humans have ever or do now recognize/acknowledge themselves as homosexual. That's not going to change, now or in the future.

    We may be slowly killing the world off, but it's not homosexuality that's doing it. No further reason to pay any attention to this poster.
     
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    You should do a poll if you want to gauge the wider audience here.
    Cheers.
     
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    Well said @Dr m bongo.
    Homosexuality exists across the whole animal kingdom at about the same levels as in human populations, it is as natural as heterosexuality. If people are having less procreative sexual encounters and population growth slows, is that such a bad thing?
    Personally I'm not interested in feminization or cuckolding but that doesn't mean that I can't support them. Doesn't mean that if they want to put their point of view on one of my posts that it resonates with me either. But then there are straight vanilla folk that suggest things that are not relevant to my situation as well.
    Straight/Gay/sissy or whatever... This is a place for all of us...As is the world.
     
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    Very true Jah Rubbings and also some people are just wanting to find out what it is that they are looking for. It maybe that they are straight but are turned on by wearing female lingerie.
     
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    Thanks, Jah. Full disclosure: After going into chastity a few years ago, I realized I have some degree of bisexuality. My wife/KH is aware, and it hasn't changed our relationship. She loves talking "dirty" to me about it. When she gets out the strap on and starts to take me with it she'll say, "I'm going turn you gay, and then never let you have the real thing. Just my strap on." So fun.
     
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    Whatever. You can obviously ask your question, but your shouldn't get offended if people think that you're being a bit of a jerk.

    There's a certain irony in coming to a site where people let their dicks get locked in cages, and complaining about other people's weirdnesses :confused:

    It's a kink. It's not the only one.
     
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    Life is a spectrum.

    everyone is on the spectrum somewhere.
     
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    No, i don't think homosexuality/lesbianism is going to kill off the human race. You do realize that lots of men (like me) enjoy having/being sexual with women, but every now and then, they just love taking/giving cock (like me-Love it)! However, if asked, they will also admit that if they had to chose only one sex for the rest of there lives, it is DEFINATELY WOMEN!!! Lots of women (like my Queen) are the same way. i just think everyone's kink(s) are so fascinating, even if i don't care for their particular kink.
     
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    Calm down all you keyboard warriors, it was just a question from my point of view.
     
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    Calm down? You cited the terms. You stated your believe that you would "get shit" for your post. You invited the comments. Why else would you possibly have posted?

    Quite calm here. You posted shit. You received what you sought. Be happy.
     
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