What terms and condition?for unlocking

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    So did everybody has rule to apply in terms of unlocking chastity?
    Example: after days weeks month, after lose weight, after you reach some point, after you do chores, after mistress reach orgasm..etc
     
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    No, actually.

    In the past extra days lockup were a punishment, and unlocking might be contingent on losing weight. These days, my wife just likes me locked.
     
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    For us, its an agreed upon interval. Right now I am observing Lent so it will be a little bit over 40 days. We also observe Locktober for 30 days. We also observe a minimum of 6 days and extensions of another 7 before release. At the 6 day mark, we start playing and if she is ready for PIV, I get unlocked. Sometimes we stop after she achieved several orgasms and she will ask me to extend. Many times I will say yes and be rewarded with a milking or a pegging.

    In January we completed a 123 day lockup without any removal, but since she kept wanting to extend and I agreed, she gave me several caged orgasms. There is nothing that beats a blow job or PIV, but a caged orgasm done correctly will really take the edge off. She would like to go for 183 days, a complete 6 month no release lockup starting in September and last threw Locktober and end after Lent 2022. I will be rewarded with Milking, peggings, and caged orgasms if I reach mutually agreed milestones. So far I am considering trying for this goal, I know she would like to make it happen.

    Early last year I failed my yearly physical and my wife had the best chastity option to help me lose weight. If I didn't lose the weight requested by the doctor and improve my health, all chastity and bdsm session would stop. She gave me milestones to meet and offered to help me achieve them if I wanted help. I accepted and met every goal ahead of schedule and got my cage back.
     
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    No set rules or formula on being caged. More focus on orgasms. That only occurs when @MistressS grants permission and i complete any assignments. Being caged helps keep me on track, but since i self lock, not as binding as commitment to Her being my Owner.
     
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    Her terms are pretty simple. I’m 24/7 locked unless she needs me out for play....luckily for me she enjoys PIV, so I generally get out at least once a week.
     
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    No rules or arrangements, its always because she wants to. The length of time varies and it is rarely used as a form of punishment. Punishment for me is being ignored. I remember feeling so heartbroken when my mistress just leashed me to a corner and ignored me for 2 days.
     
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    Its in my Mrs hands. I don't have a say and I prefer it that way. I don't ask to be locked and I don't ask to be unlocked. She decides when, where and how long.
    Wearing the cage 24/7 and only being unlocked when she wants to play is what is best for us.
     
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    I'm self locked actually so I make it my goal to go a little longer than my previous lockup.
    If I reach that goal, even if it's just by a few minutes, I allow my little guy to be free.
    Although that usually doesn't last long because it just doesn't feel right to leave it unlocked for too long!
    I'd feel like I'm not being true to my submissive nature, or to all of those dominant women out there who would love to know that guys like us stay locked for them ;)
    So those are my terms and conditions: I can earn an unlock if I've gone longer than my previous session.
     
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    No real rules . It's whenever she want to let me out to play or a release . I do get unlocked once a week for cleaning and shaving with the base ring still on so she can put the cage back on right after my shower .
     
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    For us now it's "When she wants", which is threatened to be X days away and is usually Y instead.
     
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    I am unlocked frequently, but it doesn't mean anything will happen lol.
     
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    Locked permanently 24/7. The only exceptions when I am unlocked are:
    - pleasing my Wife when she wants PIV
    - practising sport (I practise a sport discipline which could be unsafe in cage). It is not a rule that my Wife unlocks me for this sport, I have to ask her each time, but she usualy agrees.

    If we are talking about orgasms, since the beginning of 2021 I have a right to have not more than 1 every two weeks. But I have to earn for it with some extraordinary behaviour and it is always my Wife decision if it is a time. No strict rules, rather her whim. By now I had 2 orgasms this year, last on Feb 03.
     
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    When my wife says which is very rare lol
     
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    When my Mrs. Adds on days it dont bother me iv been in a cage every day basically since 2015. But one of the conditions of being out of the cage is "if you make a mess you better clean it up" she dont like me getting a towel for her she pulls me into it with my face and fucks my face until she deems fit for clean up. Was very very hard to get used to and sometimes still hard post O
     
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    The only rule is that it's completely up to her.

    In practice, she will *usually* unlock me if I have a medical appointment or if I'm going somewhere where it would be impractical or dangerous or imposing on others for me to be in chastity. Also, if I ask to be unlocked, or when I'll be unlocked, she almost always tells me it will be longer as a result.
     
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    I am unlocked once a week for cleaning and shaving, under her supervision of course.
     
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    Go for it, it'll change your life.
     
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    securing our property 24/7 is the rule, mri's are the exception(so far) but a cage is not the only way to keep our xy secured. chastity devices allow mobility and ensure her return to captivity. so the cage is put on every morning and removed each evening. mid day removable to provide services is followed by being caged. one way or another she is never not secured.
     
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    By mutual agreement:
    -Once every 2 weeks with orgasm
    -Once every 4 days for supervised full devise cleaning and maintenance with no orgasm
    -Releases for drs appointments and other situations (eg airport screenings) that may be awkward (all discussed and agreed to in advance). No orgasm and cage must be re-secured as soon as practical,
    -Unforeseen emergency situations using emergency key. B to be immediately notified, cage to be resecured as soon as practical. No orgasm.
    -5 holidays / special days with orgasm during the year (eg birthday).
    - 4 special request allowances with orgasm per year.

    B does have the right to delay/cancel any orgasm release as a punishment for certain offenses and she also has the right to add days for particularly good behavior.
    She also has the right to choose the means by which I can orgasm as well as whether the orgasm will be full or ruined.
     
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    It is 100% up to my WIFE she is in total control
     
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