What should I buy him or do to rock his world?

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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    Okay chastity and kink lovers, I need your help here.

    Some of you know how much I love to tease my husband while he wears his cock-cage and entertain him with my kinky, teasing tactics. Maybe you've read some of my She-Nanigans on here. I am looking for some fresh ideas. I want to buy him something unique or plan out a prolonged session that will be completely original... What kind of things do you fantasize about your Wife, Girlfriend or S/O doing to or for you?

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    Okay, before everyone gets too out of control here, let me tell you what our likes and limits are...
    We are both straight (I've fooled around a little with other women, but I'm really just interested in being with him). NO cuckolding! He is completely straight! We both love bondage, some roll-playing, teasing, teasing, teasing. Dressing up in lingerie (yes, even him sometimes - mostly for shock value I think). We have lots of toys, restraints, vibrators, dildos, ropes, collars, cuffs, spreader bars, nipple clamps, butt plugs, some little wheel with pointy things and too much more to list here. He has bought me all sorts of Vixen Clothes as I call them--Think Dominatrix, black, leather etc... Bustiers, corsets, stockings, garters, high black boots and stripper shoes. I can't even imagine how much he's spent on all this stuff???

    Some of the stuff I don't even dare ask about... looks too scary. I have to assume since he bought everything, he wouldn't mind any of these things being used on him--I think? And if we don't have it, I guess I can order it on-line easy enough.

    I enjoy seeing the affect I have on him when I wear sexy lingerie (it turns him into a ravenous animal). He acts like he doesn't like begin locked in his chastity devices, but I know he does--love/hate thing for him. Normally, I just lock him up while I'm gone on one of my trips (I'm a flight attendant). Usually gone 2-4 days at a time. Sometimes I lock him up when I'm at home for a day or so just to get him really horny for me. We both like regular sex too much for him to be locked up longer than that. The longest he's been locked up is 8 days and it almost killed him (poor little guy...:p). Neither of us are interested in long extended periods of time in chastity for him. I basically I get everything I want by wearing sexy clothes and lingerie around the house for him.

    Because I know the importance of keeping things new and exciting, I am looking for new ideas. Maybe a new chastity device? Maybe something daring for us to try? Maybe just a cleaver BDSM session.

    Please let me hear your ideas.... It would blow your mind if your wife did _____________?
     
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    EStim play. However, he will soon realize that he can cum while in a device when EStiming. So, let him try it once and then lock up the electrics as well as him when you are not around. It'll drive him crazy that there is a cheat and he can't use it
     
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    BTW, you have a very nice avatar
     
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    You smooth talker @thundar LOL

    And great posts from @bnd2plz as well :)
     
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    Ah, ya know it's a gift........what can I say. Apparently from her posts the lady has brains as well as beauty;). (that's not intended to be sexist or patronising......just an observation)
     
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    Perhaps these will not appeal, or perhaps you have already done things like this....But in any case here are ideas to consider...

    #1 Pick a time when you have a long stretch of time, at least an entire evening, even better an entire Saturday or Sunday. He is kept naked the entire time except for various restraints. You are dressed in sexy outfits, changing them from time to time, put on a fashion show, for example. He is helpless in his restraints, sometimes tethered to a hard point, sometime able to walk around, but no chastity. You tease him verbally and visually, sometimes physically, but never enough for him to 'get off'. Sometimes he may be allowed to rub his member against you, sometimes he may be allowed to lick you. He is completely dependent on you for food, bathroom usage, basically everything. If you have bondage mittens, he could wear them for hours. Reinforce the feeling that ALL things are dependent on you.

    At the end of the day, he gets tied spread eagle to the bed on his back, and then gets a treat, or punishment or anything in between, depending on his behavior during the day.

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    #2 Tie him to the bed, nice and helpless. then start touching him as part of a long tease. Once you get him all worked up, begin to ask questions of him, while continuing to stimulate, put not quite to the point of cumming. For example, ask him to confess all his fantasies, and get as many details as you can about each one. Ask him to tell you any that he wants and is afraid to ask for at the same time. Keep this up long enough and you will learn things you never knew about him.

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    Have fun!
     
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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    I LOVE it! Keep 'em coming!
     
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    You say he is straight bit have does he enjoy having his prostrate stimulated?

    If so you gotta buy sorting for that.. either a estim or maybe better a remote controlled estim. With a cock ring or plug. Imagine going out and when he least expects it you zap him...

    And every time he must say thank you nicely..

    Or next time you fly take the key and send him photos of the key being left places...

    Hugs
    Lucy x
     
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    Lucy's remote electrics idea is excellent. Diabolical, but excellent
     
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    Aneros wand adds incredible stimulation to the prostate. It drives me to dripping in minutes!
     
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    Great ideas! I am definitely going to start sending him pictures of the key being left in different places. Maybe on the street in Time Square in New York. Or, on the top of the Eiffel Tower or L'arc Triomphe in Paris. In the Red-Light district in Amsterdam... Maybe I can even get one of the ladies to put it around her neck while I take of picture of her wearing it and then tell him he will have to travel to the Netherlands to find it... Hahaha... That would drive him CRAZY, I bet.

    Thanks for the ideas!
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    This has given me a thought, especially as I see you are in USA. Is based on the emlalock routine and I have worked it before with someone in Colorado. (I'm in UK.)

    Will PM you as to how it works.
     
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    Sorry I can't PM you as I see there is a problem with your privacy settings. But if interested you can PM me. Broadly it involves setting him up with a remote KH for a long-distance session.
     
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    Maybe when you get back into the states put the key in the mail in the city you arrive in, assuming it isn't the city you live in. For example, if you fly back into Atlanta, put it in the mail there so when you get home later that day you won't have the key and he will have to wait a couple/few extra days.
     
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    It would rock my world if my Wife...

    Oh god, this is going to be a hard post to write!

    Tie me to a chair then make me watch while she uses her wand massager to have an orgasm. The closer she can get her pussy to my face while she orgasms the more intense the denial would be.

    Use our restraints to secure me to her bed. Place the wand massager on my abdomen and then sit on top of me with the massager between her legs. Use the massager to have an orgasm by rubbing her pussy against the vibrating head.

    Nope.. Going to have to go and calm down before I try and write any more!
     
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    One of the hottest videos I have seen recently was of a guy secured to a bed, a woman straddled on top of him with his cock inside her. She is masturbating herself so she is mostly only visually stimulating him. He can however feel all the ripples and pulses that her pussy makes as she has an orgasm.
     
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    I really like this one! My only problem is he is very strong and even if he is tied up beneath me I know he will be able to thrust enough to get stimulation. I need to find a simple way to keep his hips from moving at all while I sit on top of him. I love the idea though of him out of his cage and in me but he can't move enough to get stimulation. :) THANKS Jasmic68!!! (I hope you were able to calm down after telling your ideas--but not too much ;) )
     
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    I'm sure you've already done this, but one of the wildest but simplest things is to have him wear a strapon and penetrate you as if for normal sex but with him locked in chastity. It is indescribably frustrating and sexy all at once.
     
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    There are ways to restrain him to prevent thrusting. Here are two:

    1) Place him on a narrow bench, about the width of his hips, the bench width is very important here. Then use a series of tight straps around the bench and his body, to bind him to the bench. The most important straps to stop thrusting, are on his upper thighs, so use many straps there and make them especially tight. I like the ones made to tie down cargo, look for the words "not for human restraint", they work best as the ratchet action allows you to make them very very tight.

    2) Place him on a bench or table, but the width is not as important in this case. Have a strategically drilled hole located just where his balls will hang down. Bind him to the bench or table. Then reach underneath and tie his balls, pulling and stretching them through the hole. If pulled tight enough, he will not be thrusting.

    Enjoy :)
     
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    To be honest all my Wife would have to do is say "lie still, or else!" And I would do as I was told!
     
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    I'm going to try to talk the wife into doing this. ;)
     
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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    I'm really glad you like it. I was worried it was a bit tame.
     
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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    I can't believe there are not more posts here than this.... ???? But for those of you who have posted, thank you!
     
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