what qualifies as a release?

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What Qualifies as a Release

  1. Any time Chastity device is removed including for cleaning

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  2. Any time Chastity device is removed NOT including for cleaning

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  3. When an orgasm outside the device is granted

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  4. When ejaculate is released

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  5. When intercourse occurs

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  6. other

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  1. madamsboy
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    What in your opinion qualifies as a release?
    I had this discussion with madam on the weekend, and I am curious to hear the thoughts of others on it.
     
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    I think a release can also be a prostate orgasm :anal:
     
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    I agree but I would class that as a release of ejaculate
     
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    TCFun, not when it is a anal orgasm, then I will call it a release :)
     
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    i voted other. a release is whatever Mistress decides it is...period.
     
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    It depends on your definition of 'release'.

    If by release, you mean a release from captivity, then you need also to define whether or not a supervised release for routine maintenance is an actual release since *it* it still nominally under your kh's control.

    If, on the other hand, a 'release' is a release of your pent-up passions, then any orgasm, however it is granted, is a release.

    It depends also on the whole point of the conversation between you and your Mistress.

    I simply do not have enough information to make an informed decision, however, I guessed that by release you meant released from captivity for other than routine maintenance. Perhaps for play, or punishment. Or a ruined orgasm (shudder).
     
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    Dollyanne distinguishes between "release" and "relief".

    Release is simply unlocking and removing the chastity, maybe temporarily for cleaning or shaving, or for longer times to recover from injury. It can be supervised or unsupervised.

    Release can be followed by full relief, or edging, or teasing, or nothing at all.

    Relief is obtaining sexual gratification of some kind. It can be a full-blown boi-mode orgasm, or a "half" orgasm, aka "ruined" orgasm. "Milking" might also be considered a relief of sorts since it is emptying the prostate, though it might be less satisfying than some of the other methods. "Edging" might also be considered a degree of relief since it allows a full erection and some say they obtain some satisfaction from it, even though there is no orgasm, but just "leaking".

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    It appears I'm with the majority (at the moment of voting)

    An orgasm outside the device. But then I wonder about accidents....
     
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    based on these responses, i had a release this past saturday. I wonder what Madam will say about it. More fuel to her fire ? :nervous:
     
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    We have similar terms in the Edge household. Having the cage removed for cleaning or inspection (not a common occurrence, anyway) is simply being "unlocked." Actually, unless the cage has to be removed for more than a few hours (again, a rare occurrence), we don't even acknowledge it.

    When Mrs. Edge asks "How long has it been?" she's asking how long since I've had an actual orgasm, via PIV, or some other method of her choosing.

    A "release" is our term for several things, but generally speaking it's a ruined orgasm or the condition in which I actually have an ejaculation while I'm wearing my device.
    Here's an example of what I mean. I've learned to determine when these releases are about to happen, so I have to warn her, and she then chooses whether ot not to allow it to continue.

    Mrs. Edge gets a perverse kick from these releases of mine, and sometimes teases me by saying that if she allows one ever few months, then there would be no reason to unlock me at all. We just bought a Hitachi Magic Wand, and the next time we get into long term play, we're going to experiment with only allowing me to have a release from the vibration.
     
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    your madam will now add on another week good luck boy:smilies_xxx22: :butterfly:
     
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    guess I was right more fuel. time for a new ticker :sad0137:
     
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    What qualifies as a release? I thought about this for sometime now and have came up with my answer. Since I'm my own Mistress and control my lock up's and unlocks. I would answer that when I have a ejaculation/orgasm outside the belt. I wear the belt for my pleasure, and keeps me in my submissive/feminine mode. I come up with a goal, like one month, or until Tanya completes something she's not confortable with. I'm always trying to top the last goal.

    Just last month I wore the belt more than ever before, and was locked more than not. And far as orgasm, last one 11/18/2009 almost one month ago. I do milk myself every so often, an don't count that as a release/orgasm, as I just seem to be hornier and submissive afterwards. I have made up a contract that the wife and I signed for last year, did follow so far so well. But real life keeps stepping it's big-o-foot in everyso and we miss a goal or two.

    My wife likes me to wear the belt because I give her more attention and do things she wants done more, than the one l would do if not locked. I keep track of time locked, and orgasms on a spreadsheet and we both get paid for lockup times, she more than me. I use this money for Tanya purchases, and she get cash, which she loves and uses for anything she wants.

    So here I set locked up, sexy dressed and thinking my birthday is just around the corner, maybe just maybe I will earn the right to orgasm once again. That's if Tanya hasn't done anything wrong lately, S**t she's never going to get to squirt again if that's the case.

    Just my opinion. And others have had great ideas also, Missy Tanya.
     
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    Missy Tanya,

    I love your money rules! Just like the savers always said! Pay yourself (and your Wife) first.

    Oh, and I also love the concept that you are your own orgasm denial 'Mistress' while your wife reaps the benefits effortlessly.

    cindy :cat:
     
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    I voted "Other" in this poll because you other mansionites always make me think from many points of view.

    :loveCM:
     
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