What is your favorite part of male Chastity?

Good threads never get old.. for me, the penis has a home.. its like a jockstrap.. some kind of protection… modest and humbled being contained and enclosed.. not some swaying penis that is screaming for attention like its everybody’s business… ok, mines a jittery stub pretending to be some penis that should be concealed all the more.. its containment from overboiling male ego… its removal of ability to threaten… its an innerwear,.. all boys should be instilled modesty that is the male chastity.

 

Not having the burden of owning a penis anymore.

 

Personally, my favourite part of male chastity is the inbetween time becoming far more rewarding.
As an example one evening recently we both had a long ass day. Wed got the kids to bed. We’d recently finished an entire season in the week… so we didn’t really know what to watch.

Before we embarked on the chastity lifestyle this would probably have resulted in one of us flicking through Netflix searching for something to occupy our time. Maybe scrolling through our phones. I’d generally be too fatigued to care what she was even telling me. Out of boredom we’d probably had sex before falling to sleep.

Instead, I massaged her feet. We chatted. We joked. We laughed. We had a competition to see who could throw sweets into each other’s mouth first. Everything we did was completely irrelevant. But I’d say we both went to bed a lot happier than in our previous routine.

 

My Wife tells me that her device should remind me that I am Owned, Loved, and Protected. It certainly does that, in that its even changed our language with each other. I tell her every day "I belong to You" and she replies, "Yes, you do".

The denial for me is a burden, its a sacrifice. It's understanding that I've pledged myself to another, to be used as they see fit, to be controlled as they see fit. And while I often wish I could be unlocked and allowed to stroke myself or penetrate my Wife, I don't get to make those decisions anymore. She knows best and she will decide those things, not me. In return for this, I get fiercely loved, protected, and even a bit spoiled. She treats me well and I want for nothing. I'm a Kept Man.

 

Masturbation is a lonely act. Knowing that she has the control over my masturbation includes her into my fantasy. When she allows me the permission (to take off my cage) to relive myself the act of my masturbation is no longer as lonely. She is my soul mate.

 

Waking up with a hard-on, straining in the cage while I look at my queen, laying next to me in bed..

 

Honestly, when I'm being teased, there is nothing I like about chastity. I want it off now. I want a full, satisfying and explosive orgasm. Period.

When I'm sober minded, I love that I can't have an orgasm when I'm being teased and that I'm not uncaged during those moments because the temptation to rub my erection against her body would drive me nuts.

 

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Yep, that’s the best. I’ll often rub and finger my wife’s pussy and taste my fingers before going to sleep all while trying to get hard and pushing on my cage as hard as I can.

 

My cage is fairly tight, so I like the constant grip on my penis that I can feel 24 hours a day. That and the squeezing that occurs when I start to react down there.

 

My favorite part is the first unlock after a long lockdown. She always puts me in restraints. Then she removes the cage, but leaves the ring in place.

The mind f**k is when she takes me in her mouth, how GOOD it feels after being confined to a small cage for so long. Knowing that she will not let me have an O, yet enjoying every moment.

 

My favorite thing is that I get to take care of mu wife, she owns my stuff so I can't self satisfy anymore, which now makes me even more horny for her because without her there is no release

 

Not having the burden of owning a penis anymore.

 

I woke up thinking about just this thing today.

I think I just enjoy the act of being locked up and being out of control of my cock, it’s hers now. She’s not a Domme or anything and she lets me out regularly for sex but knowing that its hers to lock or unlock as she desires is a really comforting feeling.

I also enjoy the build-up after I’ve been denied for awhile. The buzz from being teased and full of cum is addicting.

I’ve also found that I’m more open verbally with my wife when it comes to kinks & other bedroom fun since I’ve been locked up.

 

That’s so interesting to read. I’m very new, but already feel more feminine sometimes.

 

My favorite part? That it is up to Mistress whether I may have an erection, handle my cock, or cum. Certainly illogical & irrational, but it gives me a real charge.

 

Not needing to perform as in years past. Chastity gives me an out for the times I don’t take Cialis to have a decent erection. It lets me service her, without needing anything for myself. For now she still wants to release me at the end of our play time. Masturbation isn’t an issue, but PIV without the pill can be.

 

My favorite part of male chastity is the kinky things you will do to get unlocked. think about it.
Would you have ever be seen wearing sexy panties maybe with a garter and stockings.
Would you ever have been locked in chastity wearing a skimpy maid's outfit while cleaning her or her friend's home.
Would you ever have felt her pounding your ass with her strapon while locked in chastity.
Would you ever have been humiliated using a dildo to try to have a sissygasm while locked in chastity with she and her friends watching.
Would you ever have gone to the gloryhole booths if not locked in chastity and begging to be unlocked.
And many more? Right?

 

Favorite part? Knowing that I won’t burden my wife by pressuring her to be sexual, and that since it is never coming off again (only reason it is not welded shut is for possible medical emergency) I can enjoy not feeling guilt over obsessing about my cock.

 

My favorite part of male chastity is that as soon as that lock clicked shut, I became a better husband. I’m totally engaged now. I’m focused on my wife 100% of the time. I’m constantly thinking about what I can do right now to make her happy.

I think a big reason there was such a quick change for me was because before we put the cage on, we had sex every day. It’s fair to say we had sex 350+ times a year. I’m only now realizing, if it was up to her, that number would be drastically lower. But going from sex every day, whether @Gloria88 wanted to or not, to her having complete control over everything that happens to my penis, instantly changed my focus. Once I realized she was truly in control, and she enjoyed having me caged, I knew I had to do better.

Within the first week of 24/7 chastity, I talked back to her and the next thing I knew she had added three weeks to my release. She’s not fucking around and I had to change a lot of things very quickly. It’s really crazy. But good.

 

8 months after my first response to this thread I think I have a new favourite thing:

How my wife has grown into it all!

Thats my new favourite part.
She’s happier. She’s more confident. We laugh more. We enjoys each others company. The things she does in the bedroom, it’s like I have someone new - she never initiated anything like she does now and she certainly never smiled as much in the bedroom. Somehow when she’s in control, she gets so much more fulfilment from everything we do.
This confidence has extended outside of chastity and spilled over into her day to day life. Control of finances, career changes, promotions…

I don’t know of anything so simple that could have such a profound affect on someone, and she isn’t even wearing the cage!

 

It all goes to the complete surrender of control to Her. I’m in love with the feeling and the fact I can give Her all of me and everything I am.