What is your favorite part of male Chastity?

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  1. LockedInBama
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    LockedInBama I serve at her pleasure

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    I love the feeling of giving total control of my “manhood” to my wife/keyholder. It is hard to describe the feeling that overwhelms me when the lock clicks.
    I find myself adoring, almost worshipping, her.
    When she reaches down and grabs the cage and gives me a big smile, knowing that I know what’s in it belongs to her....awesome!
     
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    I'm only a few weeks into the start of this adventure, and my OH hasn't yet fully succumbed to the role of key holder, I think she is going along with it for now because she sees it as something for me.

    But what I have liked so far is the physical feeling of being caged, the constant envelopment of my penis/testicles by the ring/cage and the weight as it pulls when I'm moving around. The reminder that if my mind strays and I become aroused, there is an uncomfortable pressure to bring me back into focus of something else.

    We are talking more about sex related things, opening up on our likes and habits (like learning that she looks forward to having the house to herself once a week when I take the kids to sport for some alone masturbation time). She is slowly becoming more playful, grinding herself on my cage during an embrace or giving my cage a quick squeeze. She has also started to exert some control over my uncaging (e.g. on Saturday our normal sex day, I simply unlocked myself for her, she said afterwards "did you ask"? so today before I unlocked for maintenance / shaving, I made sure I asked permission to help reinforce her position of being in charge of the cage).

    I am using my caged time (normally Sunday mid morning - Saturday morning) to attend to her wants and needs, offering oral or toys, trying to take as much responsibility for the household as is reasonably practical without it looking like I'm trying just to please her, which would only likely support her theory that chastity is "my thing" (does that make sense??).

    I actually also like the look of myself caged, it gives my overall package a much fuller look as my balls are pushed forward away from my body and squashed flatter, making them appear bigger front on.

    Like a poster above, I am naturally quite submissive so its not a stretch away from my natural state anyway, but she has taken the role of being submissive sexually and pleasing me has been her priority for many years. I think that will be the hardest part to change.
     
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    let her read these

    http://wonder-woman.info/ds/A KeyHolders Handbook - Georgia Ivey Green.pdf
    http://www.wonder-woman.info/ds/Tips and Tricks For KeyHolders - Georgia Ivey Green.pdf
    http://www.wonder-woman.info/ds/How To Set Up An FLR - Georgia Ivey Green.pdf

    you can download the PDF's and email them to her. plenty of tips and pros vs cons for anyone looking to expand their role as Key Holder



    for me my favorite part is the sense of control my Goddess and Key Holder @Shakarie1221 gets from controlling a part of me

    my Goddess wants to experience having complete control over a penis, and I am SO happy we get to go thru it together! I enjoy knowing that she knows wherever she is, her penis isnt getting a release without her permission. knowing my frustration makes her smile makes me truly smile!
     
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    I have those for her, thanks. She just hasn't had the time and/or inclination to read them yet. She can be a bit of a staller when she doesn't want to do something (or can't see a benefit in it) and prioritizes other things. I'm not pushing her as that will likely get her back up, but I remain hopeful as her playfulness increases and my making sure I reinforce her role (e.g asking permission even when I know I don't need to), this will help peak her interest and she will then get to the reading in her own time.
     
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    Control. I like being controlled by my dominant wife. Being locked adds to the submissiveness.
     
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    Definitely the feeling of being controlled, and the constant state of desire and lust for my wife
     
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    I'm finding I really enjoy the weight of my cage on me, and how it really holds me in place. I love knowing how much she enjoys owning my cock and it's completely up to her when I get to cum. We don't practice FLR or humiliation and degradation, but we both really enjoy what we have going on. We are constantly evolving together.
     
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    My addiction to chastity is two overwhelming feelings:
    1. The more my phenomenal Keyholder embraces the power she has over me the more I adore her. The more in love with her I am.
    2. I’ve had an enduring addiction since I was a teenager to precum, chastity totally fuels that addiction with ever heightened highs the longer it is drawn out. Perhaps that one is odd to some. I’ll probably write about it at some point in my journal/captain’s log.

    It’s amazing the things that fuel our sexual desires.
     
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    The whole thing makes perfect sense to me. :+1:
     
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    Achieving almost effortlessly a nearly perfect focus at the cost of some slight inconveniences.
     
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    It's the control for me.
     
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    My favorite part was when I found a device I could wear 24/7, that was comfortable and allowed me to sleep through the night. The process literally took years.
     
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    I think part of it’s the pride we have in each other and the bond between the two of us. In summer, we like to sit outside next to the pool naked and two out of shape people would not be attractive. There is nothing like a big belly hanging over and blocking the view of a caged cock. So I watch what I eat and get my exercise. So does the wife, over our marriage she has only gained 10 pounds, before she was too skinny and now fit and trim.

    she likes to show me off to 2 of her girl friend and it’s actually pretty hot bringing the lady’s drinks to the pool while they are naked and me with noting but my metal cage on. Sure, the ladies will all tease me with looks, words, and positions, but the fun starts when they leave. The teasing she gives me is incredible and when I get down on my knees and please her, it’s the ultimate sign of devotion and putting her needs above mine.

    Then there is the unlocking and release, being able to orgasm any way I choose is incredible. The better I perform, the longer I stay released until I ask to be caged or she is worn out. Of course, now it takes medication for me to perform at this level, but when the relocating happens, we are both satisfied.

    as a side note, one weekend I modeled several cages for the ladies. One made of plastic, resin, brightly colored plastic, and 2 metal cages. The metal cages won hands down, the ladies like the look best and I love the weight dangling when I’m naked.
     
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    Metal always wins in my opinion, my wife loves the metal too, plus without the key it's not coming off. Thanks for sharing
     
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    I can add nothing to what's already been said. Most interesting post I've read in a long while. Thanks all for sharing..
     
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    The feeling of loss of control. Being way more helpful to the wife and calmer around our kids. I truly think it has made me a better dad. Most of all being sexualy ready when my wife is and no masterbation.
     
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    I love this kind of topics! Chastity is making everyone nicer and it’s so good to read these perspectives.
    Beltek is using the full belt since last week, so he is still anxious and nervous as he was used to masturbate everyday. Now he genuinely cares about my pleasure and to be nicer to me. Maybe one day he will stop thinking less about having an orgasm and be grateful to have a meaningful relationship. One step at a time, but we are progressing :)
    As keyholder, I find the best part the honesty. He started to open up more. Sometimes he is nervous to share his feelings but I try to listen and advice the best I can, no judgment. I feel I can’t judge or punish him for wanting an orgasm, that’s something he was used to. I need talk with him about how good this is for us and how much I love the way he makes me feel and how he treats me while locked.
    Maybe I’m just rambling at this point but I love that little nugget and I’m very proud of him and what he have achieved.
     
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    For me its the infrequent times after cuddling in the bed I get to re-express my love for her through oral and she thanks me.

    She has been indifferent to the cage and will normally unlock me for a period of time to masturbate to orgasm since she has near zero desire and motivation to be sexual. She recently agreed with me that she should be having the majority of the orgasms even though that would likely mean that I wouldn't cum until next year some time.
     
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    What I prefer is the total control I give to my girlfriend. She got 100% control of my orgasm and ejaculation. She decides when and how long I will be free. She have also control of my ass. SHE decide when I will be fuck in the ass and by whom (her with he strap-on or our bisex friend with her dick)
     
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    I'm locked, got tired of masterbating yes it felt good, I found myself doing it more and more and going thru a tissue box in about a month, since being locked I've had more time helping wife bathe and dry her off and yes I'm thinking of licking her vagina while I'm down there on knees drying her off but it doesn't go any farther than thinking and I been doing more helping around the house.
     
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