What is milking or prostate milking

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    I heard about something called milking and is it different than pegging and also is it essential when in a chastity and is it possible to have a orgasm that way as a male?
     
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    I would describe milking as the process of releasing ejaculate without an orgasm or as less pleasurable feeling as possible.

    And while for some their milking leads to some kind of orgasm they do their best to ruin it as an orgasm would be vontrary the goal you seek to accomplish.

    While most ways of milking incluse stimulation of the prostate there is a big difference to pegging as pegging in itself most certainly seldom has the same goal as milking. And milking can not be achieved with pegging with a strap in the first place.

    And no - it is not essential to chastity play if you would not want it to be.
     
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    Being milked is a very different feeling. On all fours having someone work a prostrate milking device and watching the fluid just drip and flow out of you with no sexual satisfaction is something else. It's not quick and does take some time but with the right tool it happens. We have a few Aneros devices.
    Being milked takes the edge off long term orgasm denial. Being milked is not having an orgasm. Your cage stays on.

    I personally dislike being milked. I hate seeing fluid leaving my body with no feeling, joy or pumping.

    I will say this, It has a much sweeter taste that our regular ejaculate. My wife places a saucer under me to catch the drippings. When she's done, she hands me the saucer to lick clean. Again, to me, it's humiliating to be milked and consume the fluid. Being the submissive I do as I'm told.

    My wife has gotten away from that now (thank God) It's quicker to just let me cum. Less work for her :))
     
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    What device is best for milking?
    How long does it take a average milking session?
    Once the first successful milking session, is it easier the next time?
     
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    There are many options for milking. Starting with fingers. Prostate stimulation toys and dildos.
     
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    Time required is varied a few minutes but generally for me average is about 30 minutes.
     
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    Aneros is the one we use. For me, it takes 15-30 minutes before it starts to flow. The right tool is the trick I think
     
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    What kind (type, name) of aneros device? Works best?
     
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    We have the Helix Trident and the Trident maximus. The bigger one seems to be her go to one.

    Not sure what will work for you. If someone is doing that for you they can use their middle finger. Our gland is about 3" up there.
     
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    Tools are crap, because you have less feeling with them. With fingers it is way easier to hit the spot.
     
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    Both my wife and I prefer her using her finger. She can tell when she is actually touching the prostate or just teasing me along. She also likes the fingers because she can then slowly open me for pegging, so I never know what is on her mind.
     
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    You can use vibrator for ejaculation and no need unlocking at all.
     
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    With practice, once you have found the P spot, you can be milked in minutes.
     
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    curious how you use the aneros to milk. Do you use hands free as recommended or do you manually manipulate it. I can achieve dry orgasms, but nothing like milking for it.
     
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    We have an Aneros Njoy wand, but have little success in getting much from using it. Mistress uses a gloved and lubed finger and now knows the topography pretty well. She can get the fluids moving in about 15-30 seconds, massaging my prostate. b Since I am not permitted PIV sex or Orgasms, I tend to look forward to being milked. She does it whenever She feels that I "need to be made docile".

    When milked I don't experience an ejaculation or orgasm, at all. I just feel a rush like I once did during foreplay, but there's never a climax, but just some seminal fluid (rather clear like pre-cum) that is caught in a small bowl for my consumption.

    For us, the real advantage to milking is the reinforcement of our respective roles, She feels much more dominant since She can literally control me with her finger and, for me, it is so humiliating to be so controlled by Her single finger!
     
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    I just tried milking with my nJoy fun wand (the not bumpy side) and was leaking very slowly after about 7 minutes, and then slow slow leaking continuing for about 20 minutes before I stopped. I didn't produce a ton of liquid, maybe a quarter teaspoon to a half teaspoon. It was really sweet and quite tasty though.
     
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    I am not milk no more now. The pills have stop me having mess in me. if i been doing excited thingys teeny bit of runny stuff is at the end of my cage tho.
     
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