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    Rewind to about two weeks ago I introduce the idea of male chastity to my very vanilla wife. I tell her that if it’s not her thing to simply tell me and I’ll drop the idea. Her response, “Do you have one picked out?” I let her know that I’ve already purchased a cage. I show her the cage and she advises she will lock me when her monthly visitor arrives.

    Fast forward to yesterday morning and she tells me to get it out so she can lock me in it before we head out of town for a few days. After some fumbling around getting the locking mechanism inserted, my wife locks it and removes the key. She then walks away giggling and jingling the key.

    As of today I am still locked and she’s given no indication of when she will unlock me. A mix of emotions has been going through my mind. We’ve been married for 17 years, and I’ve always thought my wife was beautiful. Now, I find myself completely turned on just looking at her or when she glances my way. She’s checked in on me to make sure the cage is comfortable which I have assured her it is. I let her know that it’s only uncomfortable when an erection occurs. Her response was “I’m sorry?” said with a smile on her face.

    What have I done?
     
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    You got what you asked for, all you can is say thank you and wait.
     
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    It looks like you have found a Keyholder.
    ...And made your Wife Happy

    Well Played
     
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    That's so wonderful it worked out like that. I love hearing the true stories like this.
     
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    Sounds like you have indeed got what you wished! I have been married over 30 years, and started this chastity journey roughly a month ago. My vanilla wife is my KH and is starting to see the benefits of this to her. I am now in the position that if my cage is ever taken off (rare, and only for going through an airport or an inspection) I feel naked without it. I am now close to three weeks without any orgasm- constantly horny, but loving my wife more than I have in years!
     
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    Enjoy the ride
     
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    You married a firework... and now you've lit the fuse!
     
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    Sounds like he gets no "ride" now, or at best not often. Soon those erections will be a thing of the past, no pain then! :rolleyes:
     
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    Or he might easily find himself on the other side of the ride. One can only hope, and drop hints and so on. I love a prostate orgasm, I've only ever had one and it absolutely rocked my world
     
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    i see you joined the site only 15 days ago. Welcome. I think you will be coming to this site quite often as it sounds like you will not be cumming anywhere else for quite a while. Enjoy.
     
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    Welcome, we started in January and I am 6 months into permanent chastity. My kh has decided she likes me better orgasm free, my next scheduled is Nov, 2022…..I have my doubts… she has gotten less and less vanilla and more and more dom over the past months and we are now in a flr ……two days ago she asked me why I wasn’t using the complete cage (I had never even tried the silicon urethra probe)….she told me to go sterilize and insert it. She liked the effect so much I’m now to wear it 24/7/365 with removal only for cleaning…so in 6 months weve gone from nothing to permanent chastity with a penis probe, me wearing a day collar with a lock pendant and her wearing a key pendant, or anklet, or bracelet, her buying my panties, and my toenails being polished with a submissive symbol toe ring. Our marriage has never been better…..may you be as fortunate in your journey,
     
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    It's day 4 and I'm still locked. Last night she commented that she'll need to unlock me on Sunday so I can go for my run, do a thorough cleaning then right back in the cage. The only comment she made was "Don't play with it when it's out."
     
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    #13 BarbCD, Jul 24, 2021
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    She seems to be enjoying her role and taken to it. A weekly thorough cleaning AND admonishment not to enjoy the freedom are great ideas.

    EDIT. It also sounds like it was not a total surprise for her. Many (most?) wives would react poorly to the fact that you already bought the cage. So good for you to have laid some groundwork there and respecting her boundaries as well.
     
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    Sounds like you have awakened her inner dom enjoy
     
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    Are you receiving "maintenance" spankings yet? It shouldn't be long, so, just a heads up, 'er bottoms up!
     
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    No maintenance spankings at this time. I doubt that my KH would do that, but I also didn’t think she would agree to keep me locked in chastity so I guess we’ll see.
     
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    Update

    I am currently unlocked but not allowed to touch myself. My first cage wasn’t doing its job properly as it worked for the first 2 days then one ball would slip out a couple of times per day. The cage portion itself also seemed to be a little too big. We’re now replacing the 3D printed cage with a smaller steel cage and smaller base ring. It should arrive in the next few days.

    My KH has indicated we are having PIV as soon as her cycle is done but we will have to do some other things on the front end as I will cum too quickly.
     
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    Wow that’s so great. You two will have so much fun now
     
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    The new steel cage arrived yesterday. It’s slightly more than 1/2 inch shorter than the nylon cage. After showering last night my wife said we should put it on since we’re not using your penis. So here I am locked again in a much smaller cage. It does not allow me to get anywhere near fully erect. The wife played with it last night and said “Oh well.” I’m constantly horny today and she has said I’m more touchy feely with her. I asked if that was a problem and she just said it was different.
     
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    Welcome to your new normal. It’s mind altering.
     
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    Upon going to bed last night my wife unlocked me. She finished me with her hand rather quickly while she had me use my fingers inside her. As soon as I orgasmed she instructed me to clean up and get the Magic Wand and finish her. Once she had orgasmed she promptly locked me back up. I can not remember any time in the last 17 years where she was wet and did not ask me to put my penis in her. My mind is still wondering what happened, and I’m still processing everything.
     
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    Seems like you may be on your way to PIV denial.
     
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    That was my exact thought once I was locked back up.
     
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