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what first sparked your interest in cuckolding?

Discussion in 'The Boudoir' started by nd601, Jan 7, 2017.

  1. So my GF is new to chastity and I'm easing her in. We're playing tease and denial without a cage and it's been a few days...

    I've never really been into cuckolding that much. today, I was washing dishes in z towel (there was a giant pile... thought I'd wash a couple) and I'd just finished a shower. So I'm washing, and in the meantime she's texting a common guy friend about meeting up tomorrow for whatever.

    conversation must be pretty good because she's giggling and laughing... and then comes by and snaps a pic. Turns out she's sending this to the common guy friend.

    I was annoyed, but oddly turned on, because I could see from her face she was having fun, especially in his responses.

    Now this friend is vanilla and everything was innocent (although she is attracted to him) but I suddenly had this compelling thought that I was actually chaste for her, and she was texting a fuck buddy and were both enjoying my denial and humiliation.

    Maybe im more interested in cuckolding than I thought.

    So what sparked your interest first (addressed to both the cucks and their Ladies on here).
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  2. For me it was when our girlfriend got married to a cuckold she found on the internet. I cuckolded him for about 25 years. He is a doctor and submissive guy whose first cuckoldress left him for one of her lovers, an all too common occurrence in real life for those who make it a lifestyle. I also cuckolded another husband for about 6 months and a third for about 3 months. Met the first two husbands but not the third. My girlfriends husband wanted to watch so he came over to my house. He sat with my wife so they both could watch since my wife liked to watch too. He was OK during the making out phase but as soon as I started to remove his wife's clothes he freaked out and left. She had to drive him home and came back the next day.

    I do not know if this technically qualifies for cuckolding although I have seen it labeled so in porn, but I lived with a girl that I did not love and was not exclusive with, who had sex with me 2-3 times a day and with other guys, both black and white from the nearby Army base, and then came home to me where she sat on my face and told me how many men and how many times she orgasmed. She used to be a hot cheerleader who gained a little wait and needed validation of her desirability by having sex with every man she met, no matter how gross they were. We never even dated. She just needed a lot of sex and I was dating other women on the weekends. She eventually asked me to impregnate her because I apparently had the best genes out of all the men she had sex with. I told her no and asked her to leave lest she trick me into impregnating her since back in the Pre-Aids days, most of us did not use condoms.

    So that is my experience. One thing I learned from this is that it is much better being the one having no strings attached sex with women then tasting their lovers after they get home. :)
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  3. I first became a cuckold when my then wife started having lunchtime sex with a co-worker. When I found out I was pretty upset. We had a long heart to heart and it turned out I wasn't satisfying her. After many tears and long discussions, we decided to keep up the arrangement as her sexual needs were met by him and her emotional needs by me. It wasn't long before I started getting turned on by the idea of them together. I would ask my wife about their 'sessions' and she was surprised that it turned me on. Eventually they started having sex in our flat; sometimes I was there, sometimes not. Our three-way relationship was such that I could watch if I wanted. It was a very enjoyable time.
  4. Simple answer: I finally found a man (my husband) who would allow me to be with other men.
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  5. Awesome! You never know where The Cuckold Confession might lead. I am glad you and she found common and mutually satisfying ground. Provided you are ok with not "watching" or participating, good indicator that she is not just "going along" to please you is that your wife prefers privacy when with a lover. I totally prefer not having an audience. I greatly enjoy the intimacy of my lover and I having privacy to give ourselves to each other and not only follow our primal instincts, but also share sweet romance. Even in a "no strings" encounter, a touch of romance and lots of passion greatly enhances the experience for both partners. Although I have had my share of impersonal sex, to me sex without any romance is just a fcuk. Nothing wrong with looking for just fcuking if that's your thing. I just prefer having "all that and a box of chocolates".
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  6. I ran across some porn almost two years back, I never heard of cuckolding until then. It was an amateur video of this very gorgeous blonde women (can't remember her name) having her way with a couple of black men while hubby was filming. It just really pushed the right buttons for me as far as it being a major turn on. Ironically this is what got me into chastity in the first place. Cuckolding is more than likely not realistic for my mistress and I and is a fantasy that should probably remain in my head. I enjoy how special and exclusive our relationship is and although I'm not a jealous person I think we'd both like to keep things the way they are. However the butterflies I get in my stomach and the vulnerable feeling just at the mere thought of cuckolding is incredibly exciting to me. I know our love is strong enough for each other that if she wished to pursue such an avenue it could work for us. I know that the act of sex isn't as important to her as much as the feeling of love and intimacy between us that is very strong.
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  8. Hmmmm...?
    You wrote: "Maybe im more interested in cuckolding than I thought."
    My first thought was: Maybe she is too.

    Your "compelling thought" may be spot on. Maybe not. You never know. Would not be the first time I have heard that script played out regarding a couple with an unsuspecting husband who has cuckold tendencies. Women are very intuitive and we pick up on very subtle cues. It is not uncommon for the female partner to pick up on the fact that her husband would have little objections to her having sex on the side and would get past the deception part with relative ease because he actually wishes she was a "hotwife". The perception may not even exist on a conscious level for her. She will be driven into another man's arms by the clues that her subconscious mind processes regarding his cuckold bent and his innate submissive nature. This is not an infrequent occurrence in relationships involving wannabe cuck/sub husbands. If it has not happened yet, it may be just a matter of time.
  9. That's a very interesting thought indeed.

    I've told her that I've been submissive before, but the tease-and-denial game we're playing is more a "game" than formal D/s.... I wanted to ease her in. That being said, I have noticed that her level of "teasing" has gone up since. And although she watches male dom porn, she absolutely refuses to be dominated by me.

    And as a follow up to this - she's been mentioning at times that she thinks another one of our aquaintances "fling" material than relationship material. And recently we were joking around (with another person) who she's trying to setup with a girl friend of hers. She remarks that he has really good looks, then laughs at me and looks at me and says look what I ended up with.

    I was upset for a few hours, then again, oddly turned on.

    Thanks for the insight. I'm going to see how things go. If you're right, she might be naturally inclined to cheat. I'd rather have her cuckold me with rules, than lose her entirely.
  10. I didn't know what cuckolding was until 2 years ago when I stumbled across some chastity/cuckold related porn. I'd really never heard of either as a kink or fetish up too that point. I started looking up more amateur cuckold porn and started to really like the idea and imagine my wife in those scenarios. Shorty after I asked if she would live the chastity kink lifestyle with me and she agreed. She knows I like the thought of cuckolding but we've never discussed it as a possibility and don't know if we ever will. I thought that my cuckold fantasy would subside over time but it still seems to be a fairly strong feeling for me. Today I was actually thinking about it again in alone in the shower all locked up. I thought about how I'm able to give my wife damn pleasing orgasms via my mouth, fingers and vibrating toys but maybe only a handful of times with PIV over 13 years. The longer I'm locked the less I'm capable of lasting long enough to be give her a vaginal orgasm. I could try numbing cream but aside from premature ejaculation I'm really only about 5 inches and maybe it grows to 6 when I'm really horny. She's a tall girl and might require a little more length and girth. As I'm not a jealous person I've thought about letting her know that I'm okay if she wants a fuck buddy who's able to please her with PIV sex.

    I was starting to think for a while she's never really cared about PIV sex that much but there are times that she'll unlock me and want me to fuck her hard. Naturally I only last like a minute anymore if that, especially if she's really into it and being noisey and animated. When I finish sometimes she's gives me a look like she's doing it all for me abd putting on a show to make it look extra good and other times she has a look in her eye longing for more of a good long fuck. Ill sit tight for a while and just see how things pan out and if she's looking dissatisfied with our sex in the future I'll let her know I'm okay if she wants to meet new friends. I would just hope to be part of their play to some capacity if she takes on a fuck buddy. At the very least been her cleanup cuck :)
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    It's quite common for that first cum to be rapid due to over-excitement, and often worth getting it over and done on purpose so you can then recover and hopefully/generally/often then last a more useful length of time. It used to take me as little as a minute to recover, but upto 10 or 20 may work also. I've no idea now as it's not an experience that's been granted in over 6 months I don't think. Longer perhaps.
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  12. That's true, if I've been locked for a couple of weeks I'm usually good to go again in no time. Sometimes we'll go twice but a lot of times we don't. Occasionally she'll allow me to be unlocked for a couple of days in which case I usually am allowed a release once on each of those days usually. On the second day I can last considerably longer than I did the day before. A lot of times I think my mistress enjoys giving me one O and then locking me back up because she knows it's that much more frustrating for me and I'm always left wanting more ;). I'm really starting to understand she gets more out of torturing me than she does out of PIV lol.
  13. Much like your experience, I developed my interest in cuckold porn on the internet. However I have wanted my wife to have a lover for over 20 years. I always played fantasy games with her where I was someone else fucking her. Since finding cuckold porn I started incorporating my cleaning her pussy after I cum occasionally. She does enjoy it but doesn't want me to do it all the time. Since she became aware of my masturbation with cuckold porn, I suggested the chastity cage and while she thinks it is medieval she did say if I want locked up she will go along with it. I still hope this will lead to her taking a lover. But they say "careful what you wish for".