what does "long term lockup" mean to you?

I've never made it past about 17 days...something always comes up. Sores, company in the house...you name it. I'd love to go a solid month or longer just to see if i could do it, but I always seem to run into an interruption.

 

My longest is a month but my wife doesn’t push for longer. I’ve wanted to do 90 days but it never worked out.

 

The longest I’ve done is a month, but I consider a year long term.
A month is a decent amount of time, but many folks make a month. Between a month and a year is impressive, but few make a year or longer. Hence Iappreciate what it takes to get to a year. Also itsmy next goal.

 

Over 6 months so far. My wife isnt planning on taking it off either. She likes it this way.

 

I would qualify it as a long term lock up after the first month.

 

Generally because most men I've known find it hardest towards the end of that month. many don't make it past that.

 

I would say 90 days. My longest has been 7 months but my wife thinks 90 days is long enough. It would probably be more often if I had a padlock other than a security screw. The padlock is much easier to get off and on.

 

Your absolutely correct because as my first month was approaching, I was wanting out pretty bad. If I had control over the keys I would have been out, but my wife had them and the rest is history so far

 

I suppose it depends on the individual. If you can't be trusted not to play with yourself every day then 2 days would be long term! . I'm not sure if I think of it so much as long term now, its just the normal state of affairs! Unless there is a very good reason then I'm locked up and that's it !

 

First 8 days and period 21-30th day are the hardest for first month in my opinion. Somehow 8-21 days seems to be easier. After 30 days it's constant rollercoaster. I've heard that after 90 days it comes to the next level and man somehow get used to locked state but to be honest I've never done that for so long.

 

normally do 30 days in 1 week out then 60 days in and a week out.....longest is 4 months in then 2 weeks out followed by a 2 month stretch then back to the normal

 

Long term isn’t so much about days than it is about. When you wanted the cage removed and you keyholder wouldn’t remove it and you eventually excepted that it’s not up to you When or If you get released.

That’s my opinion of a Long Term Lockup. That can be days ,weeks ,or as in my case months and years. It’s her property to unlock when She Wants To.

 

When we get up over 75 days or so it develops a feeling of indefiniteness that causes a more thorough surrender, so I'll call that long-term.

 

Mash2214 has hit the nail on the head; "Long Term" isn't a length of time...

It's when you want out and she wants to keep you locked for a lot longer

 

a little curious ... when for a long time it's so coming in a cage and or a belt until you come out 24/7 and see for xxx days without getting out of hygiene or is it between you out to for peace, please?

 

At the beginning it was 2-3 weeks but now it is all year with releases for an orgasms every few months and when not practical like a hospital stay. I am so used to wearing mine that I actually feel more comfortable wearing it than not. Plus at my age it feels good to be horny all the time rather than only occasionally.

 

I expect it means days for the newcomers but months for the experienced amongst you.
I tend to think of long-term more as years.

 

It's interesting seeing the inconsistency in definitions every one has.

Logically I would consider long term lock up to be anything longer than short term lock up.

So for this to make sense I need to define short term lock up. This would be maximum a day or 2 like a weekend. Surviving a weekend is usually the first major milestone most people would try and aim for and anything longer would feel like a huge step up.
But a little more than a few days seems a bit short to class as long term so there is probably a small gap between with the next milestone of a week seeming to be the first real target to class as long term.

 

I would say 10 days with no unlocking at all is long term for me. I've gone a month once years ago, but my wife tends to want to release me for sex most times she desires sex, so that tends to make me feel that I'm not locked up long term.

But I'm locked up often, and have a lot of fun with that.

I'm not that consistent, and my moods change by time of day. Before bed I'm always in the mood to be let out when she chooses. Mid-day I might sign up for a month!

 

For my wife and I, "long term" is anything longer than the previous longest lockup time.

For the past year, every time I have been locked up has been longer than the previous time. I set the precedent early last year when I proposed an ever increasing schedule of lockups for the year. My wife now enjoys making me stay confined for the periods that I suggest in moments of weakness.

As my last lockup time was just over 3 months, I suggested that she might keep me locked this time until Christmas or beyond, which will well be over 6 months this time.
Her reply? ... "Are you sure? You know I will make sure you do it"!
And I know she will, she can be stubbornly obstinate when she wants to be, and she never breaks a promise!

 

As someone who has only done a day or two lockups, weekend say with release on Sunday evening, long term relates to my current 10 day lock up with no immediate sign of release. I know that is very short compared to some, but it is a huge step for people who are not used to it. I have had some intense feelings that I have never had before and had no idea that I would have based on two days of denial. This is why there is such a wide range of timescales being quoted.

 

Congratulations on crossing this new threshold @castmenow.

 

It really is a journey, and we're all at different places on that journey.

Everybody starts with a few hours at a time, moves on to being able to sleep overnight and spend a whole weekend locked, but then there comes a point in a chastity relationship where the periods of lockup becomes the "normal state".
The wearer misses and wants the device back on when he's free, and periods of freedom start being measured in just days and hours compared to weeks and months of chastity.
At the same time, the keyholder realises that the changes in the relationship start being lost if he's allowed to be unlocked for long, or have too many orgasms, so it's a natural progression and consequence for lockup periods to become longer and longer.

You could say that "short term" was your last lockup, and "long term" will be your next!