What do you like most about Chasity Mansion?

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    Features, social interaction, information, pictures?
    What is it you really lik about it that keeps you coming back?
     
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    I know that being erection free, orgasm free, being constantly arroused, and slightly uncomfortable isn't on anyone else's mind but for the people here. She doesn't think about this 24/7 like I do. She sees and reads my intimate thoughts without having to verbally express them every single day. Some things are better read than said.

    I like being able to document and journal my chastity life with her. The ups and downs, what works and what it turns into. Venting, helping when possible, all on a topic I more than likely was thinking about anyway.

    Who else can I talk about device issues, discipline issues...can't exactly brag to your buddies about NOT getting laid lol. Being here feels like I'm not alone, im part of a family or community...just like both everyone doesn't always get along or agree, but everyone belongs.
     
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    I'm not sure
    I used to really like the people and the discussions
    There was a real sense of community
    Since coming back I'm getting to know a few regulars and that's nice
    But the discussions aren't the same

    So I'm not sure what I like best. I guess I'm hoping things will evolve as the speed issues and site redesign/updates are done
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    #4 SubVerity, Jul 22, 2017
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    That is very much a part of it for me. A space in which I can feel that I am a little more myself than I am outside the house.

    The social intreaction is part of it, for sure. At times that's a BIG part of it, and at other times less so.

    For the most part, Wonderful's control of our sex-lives can be likened to a farmer leaving a field fallow, and so I take pleasure in reading others getting their kink on, discovering themselves. There are many members here who post great stuff and live amazing lives, and many whose writing brings me great pleasure.
     
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    Your not being Judged because you don't fit into societies mold of what they think you should wear or do with your life. So I want to refrain from Masturbating or having an Orgasm so my wife has more. So I like to wear a cage and panties. I can just be me and their are other people here that have the same interests, were usually not judgmental of someone that's a little different. If everyone was exactly the same (clones) wouldn't this be a boring world.
     
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    I,always look forward to you posts. I like the way you think
     
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    It's such a strange kink when you think about it, CM is one of the only places you can really read and discuss it without feeling as if you're totally out there! As Nicoftime said, we spend our lives bragging about how much we got laid, to bring this up in a normal social setting with "the guys" would have them taking away your man card. Here it's the norm, everybody gets it for the most part. It's a really nice outlet to have.
     
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    Great information, and general acceptance. One of the few places I can actually express my true self. Thank you all!
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    I think one of the reasons I still love London as a place to live, is that it is so metrosexual. Neither at work nor socially do I have to deal with 'the guys', I get hugs from my male friends - and even from my boss, and some of the staff. I can be as nelly as I like at the gym (ish) and even on the street locally (very afro-caribbean area) no-one notices 2 guys holding hands as they walk down the street. Ontop of which it's a freaking amazing place.

    Even so - I cant go around dressed as I'd like, or discussing many of the things that I might discuss here. It's good here innit! :)
     
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    It's a place where I can be creative with my writing whilst staying truthful to what I am doing. It gave me support when I was starting out, encouragement when I struggled and allows me to support others now I have some experience. It has given me ideas and helped me to understand what is so good about not having an orgasm for months on end. It made me feel guilty when I cheated (back when we first started I really struggled with not 'beating the system', ) and helped me stop trying to cheat simply because my urge to be truthful had to start with being so with myself.

    The Mansion has played a part in helping myself and Elle become a much more intimate and sexual couple. We argue less, I apologize faster when we do. Elle has become much more confident in her sexuality and from that in her everyday life as well. As a result we are closer than ever before and have survived and flourished in a year that could very easily have torn us apart.
     
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    As a fairly new person here, people have been very open about what works and what doesn't. By that I mean what devices are best, pitfalls of each, as well as the relationship part. As my profile states, it's not really chastity until you want out and that can take awhile. With that, it's not easy for wanker fodder. There is another chastity web site that caters to that aspect, Chastity Mansion does not.

    There are many people on Chastity Mansion truly interested in this fetish, I guess it's a fetish. This category of fetish is difficult to find on other sites.
     
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    This is the only group website I've ever joined, on any topic. It's been great to find a bunch of people into the same thing, I find myself checking in here most days. I've received some great advice and tips, and all the members seem to smart people with a good sense of humour, what more could one ask for!
     
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    It prevents me from thinking that I am locked away and forgotten about.
     
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    For me the the only issues i have with CM are:

    - The in fighting / ego tripping / superiority complexes that Moderators sometime exhibit.

    - The rude haters of every kind. Their everywhere and that's unfortunately how the internet world is now.

    - The temporary site server issues that sometimes go on for seemingly way to long.

    Thank YOU for Your time and efforts.
     
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    What do I like best? Everything; the simple fact that this place exists and I happened across it!
    To be able to read and write about kinky things and not to be judged -
    I've already written down and shared here things I'd never tell *anybody*.
     
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    The lovely, intelligent, and strong ladies and the real life experiences shared.
     
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    The openness of people around is what I like most, true or not, the stories always make me think about the course of life.
     
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    "persistent hopefulness"
     
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    I love that CM offers me a place to learn from others going down a similar road as me and not just a bunch of pictures of locked up cocks. It helps me reel in the fantasy and keeps me grounded in the reality of chastity.
     
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    The social interaction. As a new member recently entering into a journey of chastity, it is delightful being able to share and celebrate my experience. And of course having access to the experiences of others.

    Thank you!

    In chastity,

    Sara
     
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    The voyeuristic view into other people's relationship dynamics.
    The community in general.
     
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    I really like the layout of the pages, I like the chat feature, I like the idea of introducing fetlife with facebook all into one social media platform. The moderators seem fairly realistic with their views and actions. The people are outgoing and friendly and it's just all around a nice place. I like that the speed is back and that the admin take such care to make it better and better.
     
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    Even though often I feel writing here is like yelling into an echo chamber, the anonymous interaction has such a feeling of authenticity that is rarely found anywhere else. Ironically the truth here is mostly opinion from which you have to sort through, but for the most part has always been supportive. I am thankful for that.
     
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    I am thankful for the supportive, at least for the most part, truthful opinion that we have to sort through, which is ironic. I get such interaction here that although anonymous, it has a rarely seen elsewhere authenticity. My writings here feel like the echoes of yelling into a chamber, even though...
     
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    That doesn't sound very good. I think you'll find that people are listening to you x
     
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