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  1. Chaste J.
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    I think it's a great thing too, though I think it should be blind to men. It's way above our pay grade anyways.
     
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    If it was not visible to men it would also not be visible to female non members. Hopefully some might see it and be encouraged to join. ;)
     
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    My wife saw the new Female forum, and was thinking of joining, but it wasn't clear how to be verified.
     
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    I was actually looking at that and thought, ya know, this is something that could turn her into a casual lurker/non involvement, to actually interacting with fellow members.

    She’s paranoid about sending pics of her face online, but could be curious enough to do so. She has gotten pretty much what she wants out of all this so I’m not sure she needs a sounding board or place to ask questions, but I would think a keyholders section would be a nice place to share and have a bit of fun.

    Will definitely tip her off to the changes and see if it peaks her interest.
     
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    I posted yesterday about my wife wanting me to go to my doctor appointment caged, after she had said I could take it off. When I told her I was going to post and share it she was very curious, so we spent some time together reading posts. We had done this a few times before, but her interest has increased.

    It is a little scary imagining her getting lots of "good ideas" here. Lol She is definitely feeling more emboldened these days.
     
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    My wife and I were a little afraid of the process too, but Mistress Lucy made her feel comfortable so she went ahead and was verified. I’m happy she did it, it gives her a piece of this lifestyle that she never had before, namely one without me telling her what to do or giving my Opinion . So if she needs it she has an outlet to where she can speak to other women about the lifestyle.
     
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    This is a great idea where Keyholders can communicate with each other in private. I was just wondering if the subs could also benefit from such a form where No Keyholders could see what their posting. The reason I say this is because not everything about being locked is positive and not everyone wants their Keyholders to know their inner thoughts. It could work as a way to help others adjust to being locked. Just food for thought.
     
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    If there is anything in life you do not wish others (even if its only one other) to know then I strongly suggest you never even mention it online in any form.

    Every single key press anyone of us has made online, and a lot of offline ones too, is out there somewhere and availble to, or if you prefer potentially accessible by, ANYONE.
    By anyone I do mean anyone..... with either the knowledge or the right connections.
     
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    Here in the states if you desire to run for any govt position you really have to have led a Polly purebread life or you’ll get crucified in the papers. Me? I ain’t running for nothing . So whoever wants to know whatever about me more power to them.
    I have a few things in my life that I may not be too proud of but I paid in full on them- and then some
    I may not be totally outta the closet with my sexuality but if it was to come out amongst family and friends I would deal with it and move on.
    Some people get off on beings s**heads-
    screw ‘em
     
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    Good evening L-U-C-Y, how does one join this venue?
     
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    Hmmmmmm, wondering why you would withold from your keyholder? If you speak privately to another, about such things, your owner has a right to know. you are disrespecting, discounting, and mocking your KH. Shame on you!
     
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    Even submissives are entitled to moments of doubt and uncertainty, when they might wish to seek the advice of their peers without the formality of a discussion with their keyholder. Allowing channels of communication - in whatever direction - is healthy in a relationship.
     
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    I hear what your saying. All Keyholders are not the same some hold the keys more because their husbands want them to and not because they want. They are not naturally dominant as some other ones are. I would also suspect that things that they would speak about privately were things they have already tried to talk about with their Keyholder and either didn’t know how to talk about it.

    My owner knows everything about my life style and we discussed this before I posted it and she agrees that it could be helpful for some submissive’s. We have to remember that not everyone is I like us, a lot of people’s relationships are not as concrete as yours or mine may be. Their are a lot of different people that are wearing Chastity cages.

    Like Lester Ballard says different channels of communication can be healthy. As male Chastity and FLR continues to grow in popularity different avenues of communication may need to be opened. This could be a start to helping to grow our lifestyle.

    Like I said before. Food for Thought.
     
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    Not being to communicate openly with your KH is a worrying thought.
    Infact it’s one of the things I insist on in our relationship.
    I do understand that there maybe things you don’t want to talk about to your KH and that is why sites like this are important.
    Anything should fair game as we aren’t in role play all the time.
    You don’t necessarily have to discuss it with your KH but I think it’s vital they understand where your head is at to know if they can be there to support you.
    LP
     
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    Brilliant.

    Listen and reflect. No reply required. Just learn.
     
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    There are in fact several writers that have said that they consider that one of the advantages of keeping their male partners in denial/chastity is that said males become more communicative. I have not heard of that being reputed anywhere.

    So given that enhanced communication is a desired thing them men speaking to others confidentially and excluding their partners and KHs is going to be construed as being very undesireable behaviour by said partners and KHs.

    DON'T DO IT.

    But if you do be aware there are out there at any given time an infinite number of whirlwinds to reap.
     
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    The number of verified female members is now at 16 and counting. If anyone else would like to be verified let me know.
     
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    Even if the entire post content of the Female Keyholder forum is "hahaha", it is a forum that i will never be permitted to read. Yet another reminder of my place in this world...
     
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    You are permitted to read it, but not comment.
     
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    Please excuse my moronism.
     
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    I’ve just learned about the option of being verified female. I’d be interested—what do I need to do?
     
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    I have sent you a private message :)
     
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