Well...It's over...

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    Long story, short...This morning, after a hour of teasing, my Wife(KH) said she wanted to see me have a orgasm. She unlocked me and told me to masturbate, and don't stop until I cum...It didn't take long and it was over...:(...Around seven months without a orgasm...Now I start again. Right now, I have the "drop" feeling, which sucks...The streak was over in about 10 seconds...And it sucks. I can't even say that I enjoyed it...Oh well...:(
     
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    But now you get to enjoy the months of build up that lay ahead.
    The roller coaster of ups and downs.
    Then one day another 10 seconds of pleasure.
     
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    Yes the kind of being forced like that to have an "orgasm" can be frustrating. But maybe that's what she wanted to achieve.
     
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    I get that feeling sometimes. I’m locked for months and all of a sudden she wants a quickie in the morning. Not to be rude, but I didn’t want to end it with so little fanfare or fore play.

    What gets me thru, is that it’s another level of control that I’ve given her. She controls how long I wait, she also controls when the wait is over.

    It does get disappointing though.
     
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    Yes, this is an interesting dichotomy....the craving for a release and knowing you'll be disappointed once you do. Sigh!
     
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    I sympathise. That drop is pretty tough. May take a day or two to recover your equilibrium. Good luck
     
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    I used to feel the same way but I’m in chastity because my wife wants to control my orgasms, so if she wants to ejaculate me then that’s up to her, I have no say or choice. So as it’s what she wants and it’s out of my control it no longer frustrates me. Re the drop, my wife insists on me being back in my cage within 20 mins of being ejaculated which seems to solve the problem. Same applies when she makes me come in my cage, no drop at all.
     
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    oh darling, it's an awful feeling but you can be satisfied in that you did as asked. if you want to chat drop me a message xxx
     
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    Feeling any better?
     
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    Yep, that's shitty.
    The big-O is always a good time but after any length of service, and my god man, seven months, you're gonna be desperate for repeat orgasms! The drop is exasperated when you can't bang off another quick one or two to truely and fully dull the edge
    Hope you find peace and slip into your sub-zone sooner than later!
     
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    Been there. Did that. Many times .Currently doing it again. It doesn't stop, at least for me. i love it though.
     
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    Very intrigued as to why your Lady wished you to masturbate in front of her, what did she get out of it?
     
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    Very intrigued as to why your Lady wished you to masturbate in front of her, what did she get out of it?
     
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    The total control likely. Being able to tell us you can't and then you must, has to be a real reinforcement of her ability to control us totally.
     
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    You don’t even mention the important part. Did she have fun! That it sucked for you hopefully makes it even better for her.
     
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    Yep 2 months in then told to unlock and cum.

    I was a miserable angry shit for a couple days. Headspace is coming back slowly
     
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    BR, you are right. The hard part is not FULLY cleaning the pipes. One quick sploop after months is almost not worth it.
     
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    My Wife(KH) enjoys watching me masturbate. While I'm masturbating, I have to tell her when I'm close to having a orgasm. She will make me stop, let me rest a few seconds, then start again. She will have me do this 4-5 times, then, if she wants, she allows me to cum. If and when she allows me to have a orgasm now, it's only by masturbation. I guess she is showing me that she controls my sex life....
     
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    I'm getting there...My Wife(KH) has giving me until Tuesday, then the cage goes back on. Still don't feel "in the mood"...:confused:
     
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    I'm not sure if "fun" is the correct word...But she does enjoy the whole MC kink...
     
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    Almost sounds like jerking off is a punishment.
     
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    At first I found masturbating in front of my Wife(KH) very embarrassing. Masturbating, for me was done in private. It was done in the dark and alone. But now, if I want to have a orgasm, 99% of the time, my Wife has me do it in front of her. She controls how long, how fast and if I get to finish. We haven't had PIV sex for years(at least 10). She will lay her head on my chest and watch as I masturbate. She has a penis fetish. She enjoys watching how it reacts to her touch. Is amazed that It can be put into the small cage I wear. Sometimes she just plays with it to watch it get hard, then soft, then hard again. I figure a orgasm is about 7-10 seconds long, then it's over. I never thought I would say this, but they are overrated. I enjoy being teased and denied and being aroused all the time. I guess you could say it is punishment for me, I really don't enjoy it anymore...
     
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    Isnt it what its all about? Her terms, her pleasure!
     
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    Well said, and emphasis on 'almost':p
     
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    Sorry to hear this. Just an idea you might suggest adding to your fun.. when I want my LB’s cock after an extended locking, I make him use numbing cream on his penis so he can’t feel it and doesn’t cum. The beauty is, I get what I want and he doesn’t get the orgasm that puts him back at square one. I quickly lock him back up and we are both left satisfied.
    Hope this helps xx
     
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