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    I've been wearing cages on and off for about 8 years. We are now into an indefinite spell of me being in a cage, which I am very grateful for. I now think I am conditioned such that I feel I look weird without the cage on. Much less physically appealing both in looks and how I feel. I feel when I look in the mirror with it on, I look like I "should".

    Does anyone else get this too?
     
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    I feel really naked without my cage on. I can wear just my cage and feel like I have something covering me.
     
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    I agree. The cage is just a normal part of me now. It looks and feels weird to not have it on. My KH says She no longer likes the look of me without it on.
     
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    yes.. the rare times I am cageless for any period, particularly overnight I find I unconsciously checking my self for an unfamiliar feeling around my penis/balls. Cage just seems to feel natural for me at this point.
     
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    I don't enjoy not wearing a cage anymore. It has become part of me.
    My Wife (KH) has told me see loves seeing me wearing a cage. She says that my balls are always nice and firm and there is nothing hanging there. When my penis is hidden in the cage, it does look "normal" to me now.
     
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    Wearing a cage is the normality for me, it feels wrong without it.
     
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    At some point it just becomes normal. She'll give me the option to be out for a dinner date on my release day I won't take it. I'm more then happy to get off when allowed but if given opportunity to be out for a day I generally don't take it. Life's weird
     
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    It becomes normal wearing after a while. With the weight and slight pressure of the cage you get use to it and kinda enjoy it, at times.
     
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    Completely agree! I’ve worn almost every day for the last 15+ years, the only time I have been without is when a new device cause a rather nasty scrotal I just and I had to go without for a few days to let it heal, felt so wrong and was always in that mind set that I had forgot something!
     
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    I have to agree with many other contributors. It took a while to become fully accustomed to wearing my cage permanently 24/7, but now it has become my natural state. Fortunately I am rarely released - and when I am it is for me to quickly produce a ruined orgasm - and I am soon safely "tucked up" once again.
     
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    My wife is still not into chastity so I wear mine secretly everyday, I only remove it before bed if there is a chance of coitus. I now feel naked when I am not wearing my cage and have restless sleep without it. Sleep like a baby when I have my cage on. I will bring up the idea to my wife again soon to hold the key and see whether she will take a stronger interest. Current stint is 6 days without removal for any reason, I will possibly remove Friday night but I am not looking forward to no cage.
    I just love the feeling of being restricted.
     
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    I feel much happier while locked in my little steel cage and dressed in fem. I wish men had the freedom to dress and to express their feeling.
     
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    I have been caged for probably 15 years, maybe longer, on the days i am not locked by my cuckoldress i lock myself as i feel wierd without it.

    The downside as i know is my balls and cock have shrunk.
     
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    Yes!
    My wife and DOMME has stated that she loves the look of my tiny pink cage. I am happy to stay locked and feel very strange without it.
     
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    I've been in/out of chastity for the last few years, probably more out than in, but when I'm out, I do miss the feeling of a cage, the physical sensation of being held. I also enjoy the strain against the cage when I try to become erect, its quite addictive.
     
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