Hi, Are there any others on this site that are men who have decided to try to both save their virginity and stop masturbation because of their beliefs and for their futur wife? I am still a virgin but I have had lots of chances, I have just decided for religious reasons to remain a virgin. Dating is tough enough and I sort of would like the help that would come from wearing a chastity belt! I do not view porn and wish to stop my occasional habit of madturbation and thought a chastity device would be a good deterrent when I became tempted as it would both help control my erections and take a bit of time to take off which would give me some tine to reflect upon what I was doing and at might when I am a bit asleep still and wake with an erection. Also, what is the most comfortable type, or are there better types fi when you are sleeping and in the daytime. Thanks, Paoolo
hey, there is a thread on this forum that You might like: http://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/male-virgins.7646/ I guess chastity could be a good way to help You remaining virgin. Actually, there seem to be quite a lot of women who would like to keep You virgin even after You get married... so better be careful about it as for devices: I've tried CB600 because of it's fitting possibilities, but I currently wear BON4 - silicone device. Also has some fitting options and I find it much more comfortable.
I'd have thought something by MatureMetal. But you my like to try out a cb6k for starter only and to getting the sizing right. And for best results you also need a good KH!
I don't precisely fit your criteria @paulp123 but may be able to provide you with some help/advice based upon your profile. Message me if you're interested. I think we might share a similar life history.
paulp123: I share the same values and have only ever slept with my wife. I am glad you do not view porn but if you go down a similar road as I did you should avoid even sites like this. I have always been into bondage and sexual kinks like chastity. However my wife still feels "dirty/wrong" about it so she often does not do it. Plus she has a low sex drive. When I lock myself up, it oddly makes me want to view porn more. I can't explain it but if you want to chat more about it and my road to porn addiction message me. My advice forget about it, sites like this etc as it may lead you down a road you don't want to go down. I'm speaking from experience. I don't believe masturbation is wrong depending on what if anything you are fantasizing about as you do it.