Vasectomy interrupting chastity and orgasm denial

I had mine done around 40 years ago so am unable to answer many of your questions. Back then I had to provide two sperm samples (collected in a specimen bottle), I think a month apart and both had to be sperm free before you are safe to have sex without protection.

 

My testicles were tender for about a week so be prepared for that, wearing tight pants was advised to give support.

 

If I could go back and never have a vasectomy I would. My wife is in menopause now so it is not needed. 2. Everything was fine for about a week. Then epididimitis started. That lasted for a solid couple weeks. "It is normal" Yea.. ow..

That wasnt that bad the part that was. Developing complete erectile dysfunction. NOTHING worked. Not even cialis or viagra (I tried both) It was a solid 6 months before cialis would make it work 20%. It has been maybe 6 years ago.

The funny thing is my wife locking me in a A271 Chastity device. when we discovered chastity a few months back made my erections start coming back. She will take off my cage and Im rock hard again. battery operated wands are a godsend. I can still have orgasms and not be hard but it makes sex very difficult. Prior to orgasms being under her control Id masturbate like crazy. Mostly with a vibrator or my hand manipulating a penis that was mostly flaccid. Putting it in chastity reset that. So that is where we are now. She is in bed. Im locked in a cage. She woke me up at 4am and gave me a ruined orgasm in bed in my cage and let the semen leak all over. Absolutely fantastic.

So I read the horror stories about vasectomies and pretty much lived one. It got better but looking back it was silly to get one.

I got the one where they went in and cut the tubes and cauterized them. Mine is the one that has the least chance of not working. I would NOT put any metal inside or cap the insides. That is me. I definitely hearing that and making the decision.

I didnt know how important my dick was until it didnt work for 2 years.

My wife was awesome during those times. Still is..

Fuck vasectomies. unneeded, it hurt and caused permanent damage to me.

 

I had a vasectomy recently. The doctor cauterized the tubs with minimal surgery. It didn't hurt much, but I did have some swelling. It took roughly about a month before we felt comfortable putting the chastity device back on.

 

Oh, my doctor said nothing about ejaculation. But just to be safe, we did it a bunch of times

 

I had my vasectomy about 30 years ago so the memories are a bit faint! I think the doctor tied off both ends so I don't have any clips. Not sure why anyone would bother with them.
I think recovery was pretty quick.

The sperm you need to get rid of are the ones in the tubes leading to your penis. Hence the possible need to have sex or masturbate to expel them.

I don't think you need to lessen any pressure (question 3). What has been produced is produced. Your balls will keep on producing sperm all your life. After a vasectomy they just get reabsorbed into the body.

I am sure you can stay in your shaft only cage. It is your scrotum which is cut and has to heal, nothing else.

Your surgeon is right there is no feeling of pressure from sperm production after a vasectomy. I have been frequently aroused after mine and not felt any effects. The great thing is that your balls keep on producing all the other chemicals like testosterone which make you feel horny.

Good luck, I hope it goes well. One of the nice things is to consider you have been neutered by your wife!

 

@TheRealAdam a question for you my love

 

I had my vasectomy february 2019. As an added bonus it was performed by an all woman team. They did a wonderfull job and we had a great conversation during the procedure. 0% sexual 100% respectfull.

Q: Did you vasectomy affect the ball ache you get from tease and denial?
A: No, but I do not have that much ball ache.

Q: Does anyone here get titanium clips and did it affect your ball trap fit/wear?
A: No

Q: Did you get an orgasm or lots of ruins before your surgery to lessen the pressure? Do you really need to orgasm afterwards or can you just wait until your sperm die?
A: I had one before surgery. And we waited two weeks after the operation. Then we had two for the mandatory tests.

Q: How long did it take to heal enough before you could start wearing chastity again? (A fantasy is to stay in my piercing secured shaft only cage)
A: I was sore for two days and walked like a penguin saying "wobble wobble" for three days (this alone is worth it). I advice to wait two weeks before wearing a device again, just to be sure.

I can't help you on the titanium clips, sorry.

Q: I thought you really didn’t need to masturbate or ejaculate afterwards. If we waited the 3 months until they die off, I could just wait them out for a successful test sterility.
A: Strange, my docter said one week was enough, but we went for 2 weeks to be sure. By the way, this marked the start of our FLR.

Q: I am wanting lots of ejaculation beforehand. I’d like to be emptied out beforehand so I don’t put much spermatic pressure through the cut, open end.
A: There is no need to worry. Most of the fluid is from the prostate. Sperm is only a fraction.

Q: and so I’m wondering how long you waited until you wore chastity again?
A: We started it only after the operation so no information on this.

 

My vasectomy was 22-23 years ago, and I had no idea about male chastity at the time (outside of being a Catholic priest.) I had the same procedure you're planning. A single tiny incision at the base of the testicles. Bottom-end left open, and top-end titanium clamped. No instructions whatsoever about coming vs. not, before or after. A follow-up sample provided live at a lab, a month after the procedure proved no sperm, and no further offspring since, further proved that it worked.

Shortly after the procedure (outpatient, in the doctor's office) I could feel the tiny clips, but only if I sought them out. I haven't 'looked' for them in decades. I'm sure they're still there, but I would have to unlock and go on a hunt if I have any chance of finding them now. And we know what that hunting might bring about...

Free advice: Post-surgery, alternate a couple of bags of frozen peas, wrapped in a towel on your loose-fitting pajama pants. Do NOTHING for at least 24-hours, then avoid heavy lifting for a few days. Couch potato it for a day or two - the swelling is minor, especially with the mold-to-fit pea bags. You'll be back at it in no time. As for the Glans Armor? Yep, it can stay on, as they'll tape your penis up to your abdomen anyway. That'll just give 'em a better grip!

Good luck!

-- Give

 

I didn't have to ice my scrotum very much. My dr used a minimally invasive technique that left almost no issues.

 

I had an open ended technique vasectomy 5 years ago, and it has massively reduced instances of painful blue balls. I'm currently on day 22 with no pain or ache.

Things were quite sore for a few days, took 2 weeks until I was running again, and I had some pain on ejaculation and around the incision site for a few months. However once everything sorted itself out, I am able to tolerate t&d much more than before. YMMV.

 

I had mine snipped a few years ago with the cauterized method. Was a bit odd having a normal shooting the shit kind of conversation with the doc as he was doing his work and then all of a sudden see some smoke start rising up from down there as he cauterized the tubes. Was also kind of funny to see the nurse (a very attractive woman a little younger than me) give a head nod and a grin when she pulled my gown up and saw a cleanly shaven and trimmed area down there. I decided not to press and ask or comment at the time tho .... lol.

As far as the procedure .... piece of cake .... no pain or issues at all. I took it easy for a few weeks and did not do any heavy lifting. Was having sex with the wifey somewhere in the 7-10 day mark. "They" suggested 30 ejaculations I think before I went back in a few months later for the "sample" which ended up being a zero count.

1) Did you vasectomy affect the ball ache you get from tease and denial?
No not at all

2) Does anyone here get titanium clips and did it affect your ball trap fit/wear?
N/A

3) Did you get an orgasm or lots of ruins before your surgery to lessen the pressure? Do you really need to orgasm afterwards or can you just wait until your sperm die?
I cant remember, but probably not alot I think we had planned to have great night right before but something popped up where our romantic plans got screwed. You prolly do not really need to orgasm if you wait long enough .... but you will have to eventually produce a sample for them to check.

4) How long did it take to heal enough before you could start wearing chastity again? (A fantasy is to stay in my piercing secured shaft only cage)
I see no reason why you should not be able to wear your device right away. Of course you really won't need it though since it will feel like you got kicked in the nuts pretty good for a few days. I would say that after 3-4 weeks one could get back into a ball trap kind of device ..... ymmv.

Side note ..... I did notice that my balls hang a little different post Vasectomy and some of the ball trap devices I have don't work as well as they did previously. Not a big deal since I would rather be in a shaft only device with the PA anyways. Seems you are in the same boat as far as your devices go.

Good luck .... oh and btw ...... as mentioned above ..... Frozen Peas are awesome!!

 

Good luck my friend. Hope all goes well.

 

Interesting...not sure when I first noticed it but eventually I noticed that my balls were normally tight up against my body and the elasticity of the sac had decreased, which in the words of one girlfriend created a very nice neat looking package! They have been like that now for many years. Only a hot bath makes the sac enlarge and allow my balls to swing free.
I can not wear a ball trap type of device, only a shaft one with a PA fixing.

 

Mine hang a bit differently too. But no big deal.

 

I had a vasectomy last summer with titanium clips. I'll answer as best I can.
1) I did not notice any difference in pressure or ache. It did feel 'odd' for the first couple months while everything was healing and I assume adjusting, but after 3 months or so, I don't notice any difference from pre-vasectomy days.
2) I have titanium clips. I thought I could feel them in the first 3 months, but it might have been my imagination. Just thinking about it too much. Again, after 3 months everything felt normal again and I'm wearing the ball trap cage just like nothing happened.
3) I did masturbate a couple times and had sex a number of times in that 3 months. We wanted to be sure everything was cleared out before doing the sterility test. It was successful. I really don't know if it would have been clear without that.
4) Again, about 3 months is what I waited before using chastity again. I imagine we could have tried again sooner, but I was a little nervous about damaging something by trying too early. I had about a week and a half of blood in my urine after the procedure, which was concerning to me. Apparently its normal for a day or 2. Anyway it cleared up on it's own and I'm all good now.

 

That will teach you to wear a kilt the next time.

 

I definitely waited longer than 3 weeks just to be cautious. Not sure I needed to, but I was nervous it would do damage. I had urinated blood for a few days after the procedure. I'm told that's normal, but it messed with my head and made me take extra time recovering before trying a cage again.