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    What are your various approaches to your chastity requirements while on vacation?
    My wife and I are fortunate enough to travel for about a month each summer, and during that time she often leaves me unlocked (while still keeping me chaste) for a host of reasons…ease and discretion while visiting friends, physically demanding activities while we travel, some departure from the norm, etc.
    This evening, we are nearing the end of this year’s trip, and she told me to have my cage prepared to lock back on after a ritual pleasuring of her pussy. I’ve been granted two orgasms on the trip (about twice the norm for that length of time), and the feelings are a combination of wistfulness and eagerness to return to her needy, devoted service.
    How do all of you handle these things?
     
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    I am typically unlocked for vacation for the same reasons you mentioned and I am also to remain on the honor system. There were only a couple of times I remained locked up for our weekend getaways. It was because she forgot the key lol! Twice!
     
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    Unlocked on holiday! No chance!:)
     
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    It really depends on where and what - practical considerations always come first.

    We may take a cage with us in our luggage on flights so it can be locked on after passing customs.

    The same goes for my ankle cuff.
     
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    Locked on vacation
     
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    Totally up to my wife and what she wants. I am required to take my cage on all trips. Never leave home without it. Sometimes I'm in my plastic cage to clear TSA and will switch back to my steel cage once we're our hotel.
    Or once i clear TSA my steel cage is in my carry on, she'll have me got to the restroom and put it on for the flight.
    Along with my cage on all trips, my wife's selected "tools" are packed in my bag. Handcuffs, nipple clamps, cane, small whip and my ball gag. Having those with us is huge in keeping me like I'm supposed to be. Her submissive husband.
     
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    I stay locked although she might be more open to a brief unblocking lol
     
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    On holiday this summer, I was unlocked the entire time, but it made little or no difference in my attitude (which was, I am proud to say, very respectful and obedient) or the quantity of sex (which was, unfortunately?, not much). Even when I am not locked, I do not masturbate, so it's all pretty much the same now.
     
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    Lady K keeps me locked up
    If we’re flying, it is taken off just long enough to get through security. Then i am locked back up
     
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    Mines taken off to go through security then back on as soon as possible afterwards then it’s on for the rest of the holiday
     
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    It's always Me Lovely's discretion. The last two vacations were to tropical resorts where we spent most of our time in swimsuits. I was told to leave my Jail Bird at home to avert a possible sighting beneath my swimsuit and was instructed to put on my “trainer chastity.” The “trainer” is a locking ball trap device without the cage. It is undetectable under my swimsuit, yet I am still locked and she holds the key. It allows for easy PIV sex (which only happened once on the first vacation, I was denied this past vacation) because the device does not have to be removed. Nonetheless, full orgasms are only allowed with her permission, but she gifts me the opportunity to edge as much as I want under my own free will. It is quite the tease.

    We have a weekend getaway in September for my birthday to the Mid-West and Me Lovely has already told me that I will be wearing the full cage, and I will only be unlocking to get through security.
     
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    Vacation with the kids - If I'm locked before, she will unlock me, often at the last minute. And she will probably lock me as soon as we return.

    Vacation for the two of us - Locked, key remains at home, and I am required to pack her dildo and my panties for "sex."
     
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    What do you do about the body scanners? Can't see them missing a chastity cage no matter the material. I've been stopped by the new body scanners just because my back is sweaty or I forgot about a piece of gum in my pocket.
     
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    To date I have never had an issue with the scanner's. I have had to stand there while they run my carry on back and forth through the xray. I know they see my SS cage in there. One TSA agent called her boss over for him to look at. He looked and said it was OK and my bag was let go down the belt. I was so embarrassed. All he did was look at me and nod.
    As we have not traveled to much lately, my wife's thing now is clear TSA cage free, then get my Jail Bird out of my carry on then head into the restroom and put it on.
    I love that kind of control myself. I also wear a JB and we spend lots of time on the beach and around swimming pools. My wife requires me to wear a swimmers jock under my trunks to hide the JB.
    It works great. I don't like how snug the jock strap is but it's not really up to me.
     
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    When on vacation requiring air travel and other security scanners, it comes off. That is her rule. I agree, airports are stressful enough without the cage. For local travel, it is at her discretion.
     
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    Where is Mitten State?
     
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    Anytime flying the cage is packed up and in the luggage. Ski trip off during the day and on once off the slopes. Beach vacations its a mix, if there is a pool it stays on and if a sand beach we have a plug that takes the place of the lock so sand won't be an issue in the lock. We once went to a clothing optional resort and she took everything off, i kept my trunks on.
     
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    Skiing (and a number of other sports) is fine in one of these:
    http://www.birdlocked.com/male-chastity-device/male-chastity.asp
     
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    Always on unless airport's are involved
     
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    I'm permanently locked in a steel cage. Its simply never off. I work in a sports related field and initially found myself extremely conscious and worrying that no-one would notice the odd shape between my legs, when demonstrating a certain movement range. I have no idea if anyone ever has of course but now I don't think about it much.
    I've had to adjust and accept it, as there is nothing I can do about it anyway.
    I've never been on a beach wearing it but if it was a Nudist beach I would still be caged. I don't think my Owner @Ms-Maree would even think of taking it off. In fact, I think she would positively enjoy the situation.
     
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    Mines in noticeable. My wife loves it. Also when I bend over you get a flash of my panties and not just a builders bum
     
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    Would be very difficult in my kind of work!!
     
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    No chastity, no physical discipline while we're on vacation. I do bring some lingerie and pretty nighties for him when it's time for us to do what husbands and wives do, since I can get him to dress for me.

    That doesn't mean he doesn't get chastity or discipline when we get back if he's been naughty on vacation.
     
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