Vacation from Chastity

how many full O's do you get a year? Is your wife upset with the loss of control? You might want to discuss those with her and see what she thinks. communication is key in this game.

 

has she ever been interested in locking you up by herself. Like hey its locking time, puts the handcuffs on and then locks you up? It might take her some time and fiddling, and of course a bag of frozen pees lol, but she can get it done. You may not feel submissive to her but you sure will enjoy it

 

My wife notices my attitude change if I'm unlocked for even one day, she doesn't like it.

We're booked on a cruise later this year and she tells me I'll only be unlocked for the flight and airport stuff, after that Im to be locked for the cruise duration.

She's not bothered about security and akward questions as it'll be in my suitcase for the flight.

 

My wife wouldn’t allow me to be unlocked, madam is insistent on 24/7 no exceptions apart from safety as previously mentioned by others. And the occasional edging and teasing session when I have been very good.
And as my madam has said I have gave her more orgasms since I have been in a cage than I ever did out of it!

 

I imagine that will be quite torturous for you. Many women, hopefully including your wife like to get dressed up on cruises and you could potentially end up doing a lot of straining against the steel for the duration of the cruise.

I am, frankly, extremely jealous! I’m sure you’ll love and hate it in equal measure.

 

You do know they have airport style detectors when getting on and off the ship

 

I really enjoy a naturist cruise vacation. It would be interesting.

 

We have done vacations both ways but much more often than not, the fact of being on holiday makes absolutely no difference. I'm locked for the duration except for getting through security when flying. Sometimes, if flying to visit family for a few days, I've been unlocked, but that's made no difference either, my chastity has just continued on honour for the trip.
Occasionally when going on a proper holiday, she's wanted a "sexvacation" and I have been unlocked from the morning we leave home to the evening we return. When we have done that we've had far more sex in the few days of holiday than we ever have had even before chastity, but the control and denial is still there, we both know that when we return I will immediately go into hard denial again, and for a while after being relocked up she'll tease me even more than normal.

It's rare that we do this, it's been around once every other year. While it spoils that macho desire to go for the record or tough it out, it has the opposite effect of softening those feelings, she's so much more in control if she decides that I will be having full orgasms for a few days.
When I am locked up it's absolute, with my wife there's no unlocking me just to have one or two orgasms, full or ruined; If the cage is on, it stays on, so I think how we do it is not really any different to the couples who do that, it's just that we only seem to do it when we have an "occasion" to do it. When we do it on a break away she's doing it for a positive reason, to enhance the break, rather than it being just any old weekend and unlocking me for my personal relief.

It's also good in that it gives us confidence that everything is healthy and working down there, and being a couple who love having sex together, it's also something that even if it happens far less frequently than it used to, when it does happen it's explosive, and why would we want to deny ourselves that completely?

Writing this has made me realise just how much my wife is now controlling my sexual releases only for her pleasure, except a few times in the very early days when she wasn't sure how much I could cope with, she's never unlocked me just to give me the pleasure of an orgasm and then lock me up again. It also shows that she no longer feels any guilt from denying me, initially she used to feel it was unfair or cruel of her, now she just hugely enjoys our dynamic. Now that she's learnt and is confident that I no longer need orgasms, she sees no reason to give me one when she already gets as many as she ever wants herself.

 

Like at airports, it's just theatre to make people feel safe. You just tell them you have metal hip joints and would they like to see the operation scars. Then they just smile and let you pass.