Use of prostate massager

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    #1 Andylocked, Dec 31, 2020
    Just wondering, how many here use a prostate massager and is this particular wonder toy kept well away from you or are you able to use it at will? I ask because I was considering getting one but then thought, knowing me I would likely become addicted to using that too!! (I had one a few years ago and it pretty much blew my socks off).
    As I work from home up in the top floor, I spent some part of every day playing with myself - which is now why I am locked - and I suddenly thought, if I had a massager, I would probably end ep doing the same if it was freely available - or is it just me who was no will power whatsoever? :)
     
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    #2 maid_carrie, Dec 31, 2020
    Interesting question @Andylocked as I was thinking just recently that I hadn’t seen the subject raised here.

    There certainly seems quite a selection of vibrating prostate massagers available now and I did take delivery of one just yesterday. So it remains untested at the moment.

    I did see a review on Amazon with someone complaining that one was not a lot more than a finger in size, but does it need to be much bigger than a finger which was commonly used I suspect before the appearance of the Aneros massager.

    Im assuming you’re talking about the vibrating model rather than a manual version?

    I look forward to hearing of other’s experiences.
     
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    #3 Andylocked, Dec 31, 2020
    Thanks for the answer... To be honest, the question refers to any massager, aneros style or vibrating. I used to have a couple, but for me, the original Aneros was still better than most. Problems with slippping out with the other larger (thicker) style ones...
     
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    #4 King Hippo, Dec 31, 2020
    I would ask your wife if it is ok, but my wife isn't interested in allowing this.
     
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    #5 Guest 2684, Dec 31, 2020
    If you have to ask it is cheating. If your rule is no pleasure without her permission.
     
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    #6 Andylocked, Dec 31, 2020
    Am pretty sure she won’t - not yet anyway... maybe in January she might want to do something nice like that.. I know that if I ask, she will simply view it as being greedy and will add time on to my release date.. so I have to be subtle with my comments... :)
     
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    #7 Andylocked, Dec 31, 2020
    I don’t think asking is an option... she is a tough bird... and asking will probably end up with a couple of weeks added to my release date... she would simply accuse me of being greedy and she currently thinks 36 days locked ‘is nothing’... I don’t agree but of course don’t argue the point... arguing on THAT subject WILL add days/weeks on.. she’s harder than nails!! :)
     
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    #8 King Hippo, Dec 31, 2020
    If anything, you could suggest you get one for her to use on you because you think she might have fun with it. She might just like that idea of having it so that you know she has one, and just teases you with the idea of using it & never does. lol
     
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    #9 Andylocked, Dec 31, 2020
    You sound as mean as her!! :) :)
     
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    #10 Dr MBogo, Dec 31, 2020
    We've gotten into pegging, butt play and massage pretty heavily in the last few months. However, she always does it to me, usually with a strap on, but also with one of her vibrators. I admit it feels very good. She likes it (at least in part) because of the role reversal-she loves the notion that she does all the "fucking" from now on, and I am the recipient.
     
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    #11 Andylocked, Dec 31, 2020
    Lucky lucky man.... I must admit, for now that remains a fantasy - maybe in the new year when my wife HOPEFULLY is not suffering so much health wise with her reflux problem, maybe I would approach her with this. But for now - such things are not worth mentioning until I know she is better... I don’t want to push her into doing things that, at the moment, she really isn’t up to even thinking about - so for now, it will remain a fantasy... but you are IMO a lucky lucky guy to have such a wife!
     
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    #12 Dr MBogo, Jan 1, 2021
    Oh, absolutely! I am lucky and you are correct that you can't force your partner to do something they aren't ready for.
     
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    #13 Xileh, Jan 1, 2021
    So far, prostate massage is not off limits - after all, it is good for your health. Well that and having a dozen or more super-o's per session...
     
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    #14 WannaLockCock, Jan 4, 2021
    I have one. It has a long handle (about 9 inches / 23 cm) and has an angled "egg" shape on the end. The "egg" is about an inch and 1/4 in diameter (3 cm) and the motor is in the egg. The switch is in the end of the handle. It feels incredible but have yet to have an anal orgasm from it yet. Have never tried the Aneros ones.
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    This is it on the left.
     
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    #15 Sissy layla, Jan 4, 2021
    I have the Lovenses Edge. Having same kind of problems of it slipping out pretty easily. But when it stays on, it feels good.
    Haven't tested other ones yet, dunno is the slipping out just my anatomical problem or some bad design from the toys.
     
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    #16 bakano22, Jan 5, 2021
    I’m a big fan of the prostate toy we have. Sometimes my partner uses it on me but I’m free to use as well when I’m caged. In my experience, when giving yourself an orgasm from anal only while caged, it’s a totally different mindset and I still feel “up” afterwards (rather than jerking off and the subsequent drop).
     
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    #17 Thomas Gangman, Jan 5, 2021
    My wife was very creative when we were discussing buying a prostate massager. She does like to peg me when asserting her dominant position and took one of my vibrating cock ring and placed it on her strap-on. At first I had no idea and after she gave me a good pegging, she pulled out slightly and turned on the ring and slowly slid back in. The feeling that come over me was incredible and soon I was dripping like a faucet. It was not quite an orgasm, but it did feel real good. She has repeated this a few times since and it never gets old.
     
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    #18 Consumed, Jan 5, 2021
    It is very addicting and since it brings a form of pleasure I consider it cheating. Unfortunately the wife isn't into butt stuff so I do sneak some massage time in after she is gone to bed.
     
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