Unusual introductions

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    Does anyone have any unusual introductions to the life of chastity, or perhaps an unusual way to discover their interest in chastity?

    My wife and I decided to get a few fertility tests done just to check everything was working properly, for when we decide to have babies. I had to have a sperm test done where I needed to abstain from ejaculation for 3 days prior. Still in my mid 20s, we were both very horny so we decided to play around alot during those 3 days, but now she would tease me alot and I would put alot more focus on her. I then realized how exciting it was, and enjoyed how submissive it made me, being intimate with her, but serving her as a main source of pleasure for me, and not cumming. So I accidently found my interest in chastity through preparing for a sperm test.

    As a disclaimer, I was already fairly submissive, but had not given any thought to teasing, edging, or chastity. I was mainly into ballbusting, wrestling, spanking etc Any time I saw a chastity device in a video, I found it a bit of a turn off as I thought it looked a little strange and didn't really understand the concept.
     
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    whatever gets you there....
     
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    I wish I had some interesting or unusual path to chastity. But my wife isn't sexually active, is very vanilla, and prefers to act as if sex doesn't exist any longer. So I sort of found my way to chastity and then this site on my own. It fit well into my submissive nature. So many here are supportive of the commitment to chastity, especially, my Domme @MistressS, who showed me how I could participate in a way that works for me. I think that is an important part, finding what works for you, no matter how you arrived at chastity experience.
     
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    Kylara Happy feminized sub owned by Mistress PHEBUSA

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    In all case you are here now and a world of closed pleasure is offered to you, chastity is a kind of pleasure be sure of it, and welcome.
     
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    That’s how my madam discovered chastity, she saw it in a film clip. Then she googled it, found the cbx website, and then decided I was to be locked!
     
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    I don’t know how strange it is, but this all started because when I was a teen I wasn’t allowed to hang with my girlfriend. So, we’d have extended phone sex, like multiple hours just trying to hold off on finishing ourselves off. From there, along with porn sites, it became clear I was “edging” and from then on it was a lost cause.
     
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    I grew up with a certain passion for being bound, subjugated and various sorts of self administered CBT. When I first ran across chastity topics on the web in the late '90s, it was like I found home - and people that understood me. After putting God knows what all on my cock, it was heaven to buy my first purpose built device.
     
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    My wife introduced me to chastity as a natural follow-on to my crossdressing. She had discovered my secret lingerie fetish and chose to use her control of my CDing as a means of dominating me. As things turned out, She began to feminize me and, one day, announced that "we" would be implementing a chastity program, using the honor system. It wasn't long before She discovered that I had been dishonorable and so She ordered my first cage.

    That was more than 5 years ago and our FLR has been underway for nearly 3 years. Quite a novel introduction and a wonderful result, I might add.
     
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    Great back story DonnaSue. Nothing like your first chastity cage! Love your story
     
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    Chastity entered our lives when we noticed how HRT affected us differently. My sex drive didn’t improve, unlike my KH.
     
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