I'm 45, girlfriend is 30, so 15 years younger and fitter. We have a great loving relationship and dabble in the swinging scene a little bit as she is bi-curious Age is always a worry; she says it's irrelevant but I'm always worried eventually I'll be too old to please her (not yet though, I'm still a horny sod!) The chastity cage was a whim to go to a Swingers Club on a night she was on her period; if she can't play, then I'm not allowed to either. But as soon as the key turned, I wanted to see her with another man! It was unexplainable! On the night she did kiss a BBC, and it turned me on so much we met him again for a session, though she never fucked him; always saying she only wanted my dick (alongside other women too) We have swapped with another couple once a year ago, and she enjoyed the FF, and got of watching me with another woman We're about to go back to the same resort, and with me now caged, I/we have been fantasising about an MMF with me caged maybe. An exciting thrill But now she has chosen her Bull... and my mind is in bits! He is the same age as her and really fit! I'm not bothered about the fucking, I think it's the age and fear one day I will lose her that is affecting my thrill seeking She assures me this is just holiday thrills, and she's been reading the Georgia Ivey Green books, so maybe this is her just playing the tease game I'm keen on MMF, but not if it means she's going to turn into a Hotwife and eventually trade up to a hunk her age?! Thoughts folks?!