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    I've been locked since may 1. My wife has really taken to the role of key holder, she has been enjoying the benefits of orgasm denial and even started a bit of an FLR.

    Another mile stone that made me start a thread here.
    We are adding a third person to our dynamic. She is a friend of my wife's and is really into femdom.

    Let's call my wife Mrs. T, and her friend Mrs. J.

    Mrs. J is married with four kids, Mrs. T and I have three kids. Mrs. J's husband is vanilla but supports her finding an outlet for her kink. Mrs. J has been shadowing a prodomme friend of hers. Mrs. T and Mrs. J have been talking on and off about what Mrs. T and I have been doing, she has shown much interest. Especially after our anniversary trip I posted about.

    I started a facebook messenger group for the three of us that was for a different non kink matter, but I secretly hoped it would turn into more. The sparks were definitely there and after some meme sharing and little comments on all sides it looks like we are going to give it a go!

    Setting up boundaries and ground rules right now and feeling things out. We are all very level headed and pragmatic about it so far. We all realize the risk involved and have vowed to speak up when something gets uncomfortable and keep clear lines of communication.

    Competition breeds innovation. The two of them seem to enjoy "one upping" each other. Mrs. J is very supportive of Mrs T when she puts on her domme persona. This domme escalation is so fun right now but I'm sure I'm going to be wondering what I got myself into later. But in a good way.

    That's all for now, we are taking it slow, so I will update this thread as things progress.
     
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    Good for you. Hope it will grow into something beautiful.
     
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    Just a little bratty. :)
     

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    Well, to be fair, male orgasm isn't necessary to create life either. A male can just be milked and sperm injected. So the basic premise of your argument is wrong.
     
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    I wasnt really arguing. Just poking the hornets nest.
     
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    Good fun doing that sometimes! ;)
     
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    hope it goes well for all of you...
     
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    All parties agree to take it slow.

    We know and have talked about the inherent risk involved with this type of dynamic.
     
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    Well....you should think yourself lucky then......

    At least your poking something. :p:p:p:p
     
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    Yes. I think my penis poking days are over.

    It's good to have a surrogate. Lol
     
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    Clearstatic, it sounds like you're about to live my dream. What great potential! I hope it turns out really well.
    Please keep us informed.
     
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    Too much??

    Camping this weekend, very rainy and muddy.

    I left to run an errand and I came back to everyone sitting around the campsite. My parents, my brother and his wife, and another family we are friends with.

    Her feet looked disgusting. Apparently the kids and dog had trampled all over her while she sat. I joked that it looked like she had caveman feet. Lol.

    She didn't find it too funny, then told me that if I thought her feet looked that dirty then you need to go get a basin of warm water and wash them.

    I just kind of looked at her. She gave me a look and said, "I'm waiting". So I washed her feet in front of everyone....

    Nothing sexual. Quite a few laughs. But that was quite the thin line for me. Of course she had to tell Mrs. J all about it...
     
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    Mrs J had us fill out bdsm surveys to gauge everyone's interest and limits.

    Got them finished up and Mrs J seems very excited. Mrs T is having a bit of anxiety. Not with the dynamic, but with how will actually find time to play and where. Three kids in our house and four in Mrs. J, all under 8.

    We will all have to sit down and discuss things a bit and figure out what will work.
     
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    Sounds like a heart stopper of a thin line.
    Now you'll never know when you're 'safe'!
     
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    So Mrs. J currently has my key. No idea when Mrs. T will get it back..
     
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    I put together a wish list of gifts I'd like for my birthday and Christmas. We both do this takes so much stress out of gift giving

    I put a collar from eternitycollars.com on my list. It looks like a normal necklace but it locks. I asked her if we could make it more special then just handing it to me. I sent her some links about collaring ceremonies.

    Well this Friday on my birthday Mrs T and Mrs J are having a collaring ceremony for me with maid service to follow.

    I'm so excited!
     
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    Was told to wear lacy panties to work today. My first time....
     
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    #18 Peaches, Dec 19, 2020
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    Birthday collaring ceremony! I am now a collared slave!

    Mrs. T and Mrs. J planned an evening for me to serve them both. I was dressed in my maids uniform. Mrs. T got me a new pair of panties and a bralette from iEFiEL.com. Mrs. J requested that I meet her at the door and greet her in full uniform. I served up a nice appetizers tray and wine.

    First birthday spankings! 35 this year. The two took turns while I was bent over Mrs. T's lap.

    I had two presents to open in front of them both. The first was my beautiful collar from eternitycollars.com, Mrs T put my wedding ring on the collar and locked it on me. "With this collar you are not only my husband but also my submissive". I'm an automotive tech/business owner so I don't wear jewelry on my hands.

    The second was a vibrating butt plug from hush. It's the Bluetooth deal that you can use in close range or long range with the app. They had me put it right away and got there phones hooked up. Mrs. J absolutely loved it! I jumped everytime it activated, it's very powerful. Mrs. J is looking forward to playing with it when Mrs. T and I go on date night. Torturing me while sitting on her couch.

    Once the two were settled we moved on to foot baths, scrubs and foot massages. Mrs. J is a massage therapist so she instructed me on proper massage technique. She tallied my mistakes and administered riding crop spankings afterwards. Mrs. J wore some very beautiful stockings that I was tasked with removing and putting back on properly after her foot treatment.

    It was a relatively mild night, breaking the ice and getting comfortable with each other. Mrs. T and Mrs. J had a good conversation while I waited on them. At the end Mrs. J took my key/necklace off and put it around my neck. They told me if I could unlock myself with key around my neck I could have a full orgasm. I knew this was impossible, I turned to Mrs. T and asked "I assume you want me to try anyway"? Yes of course! I got into my best "self suck" position, lol, but my locked package stayed well out of range of the key around my neck. They found this extremely amusing. They both took a few pictures.

    Mrs. T wants to have these get togethers once a month. Adding new things along the way.

    I'm on cloud nine! What an amazing night!
     
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    Dual key system. I'm really screwed now.

    So my MCN device had two security screws. One for the PA attachment and one for the base ring to cage. It came with the original allen head style screws. Mark recently upgraded the screws to a custom hex headish design.

    The old allen heads have a cutesy heart key. The new hexish screws have a carbon steel bit. Mrs. T likes wearing the bit. Mrs. J had the bit key in her possession for a while and then have it back to Mrs. T.

    We have an emergency key of course. I nonchalantly asked if each lady having a key was more fun or just passing the same one back and forth was fine. Mrs. J said twin keys was not fun but a dual key system would be amazing. Dual key key meaning I would need two different keys in the same place to get unlocked...

    Guess who opened his big dumb mouth? I said if I switched one screw back to the old design then she could keep that key and then it would be a dual key set up.

    Guess I'm not getting unlocked for a while....
     
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    Great idea! Sounds like that will keep your nuclear missile under strict command & control :D
     
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    They are still mulling over the dual key idea.

    Mrs T and I were skirting the idea of a Christmas orgasm for me. That didn't happen, I reminded her the day after and she said she thinks it might more appropriate to wait till my one year chastity anniversary for my next orgasm. That's May 1st!

    She also mentioned we might start regular edging. Next five months might be tough....
     
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    So more frequent edging. Except I do it myself. Some nights she will ask me if I want to edge. I'm allowed a little lube and to run my locked penis until I get close. If I fail and orgasm i get unlocked.

    Our last get together with Mrs. J she mentioned eating sushi off me. Nantiamori. I told them I had a dream about not long after. It was then that Mrs. J tasked me with writing an erotic story around nantiamori. I waited till the last minute and missed my dead line and was served a spanking punishment. But they both really enjoyed my short story.

    I'm going to post it in the fiction section. I didn't drive too deep into details as I wanted to keep it short. The duo plan to use parts of my story they like to plan our next evening. Should be on the 22nd. I'm really looking forward to it.

    On the dynamic side. We had a discussion about why Mrs. J doesn't lead more often. She waits for Mrs. T to set task or demands. Turns out Mrs. T was waiting for Mrs. J and Mrs. J was waiting for Mrs. T! With that cleared up Mrs. J has been flexing her dominance more often and helping Mrs. T have fun with it.

    So far so good.
     
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    This Friday is our monthly get together. Mrs. J has my key again. Mrs. J wants to play out the story exactly how it is! Mrs. T was up for it then hit some hesitation.

    She is worried how she will see me after and I quote "watching my husband get a train run on him". Lol the exact events will be a surprise for me. But her and I had a conversation, just reassuring her that she is driving the bus and makes the calls and that I would be happy no what we do.

    Her and Mrs. J talked and came to a decision. I have no clue what. It will either be just the three of us or there could be a fourth person. We will see.
     
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